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Why are you even on Hinge? I've been on it for 9 months and have yet to get a single match. Bumble has been the only app that has led to actually meeting someone.

How many subscribers would an average guy get if they made videos about how hard it is to meet a woman these days?

It's called the 80/20 rule. That is that 20% of the men get attention from 80% of women. So you still single because you're a 5 that is messaging 8-9s who would never settle for you. Until you start to "settle" for the men that would be happy to have a relationship with you you will keep having these stories because you're messaging men who can do better then you because they have options, they are just messaging you just because you could be an easy option some time.

I've been on Tinder for 5 year and matched with the 200 women and only met 2 while I was out of state on a work trip. So if you're in Vegas just know that none of the women on Tinder are real. Bumble is the only app that has lead to any real meetings.

I've been on Hinge for 9 months now, still have yet to get 1 match; I'm starting to women it all the women there are bots or are truly delusional that Brad Pitt is going to show up on their feed.

Does anyone else use dating apps? If you're an average looking person and you match what someone really attractive and they only want to text, when have the not been scammers? The first rule of dating apps is "If they don't want to video chat they aren't real".

So if a woman keeps going out on dates and things keep going wrong, is that suggesting that all men are bad? How many bad dates does a women have to go on before everyone says, "There is one common denominator is all these stories."

Sorry things have been so tough. Hope Target was good; our local one has gone down drain

Lower the benchmark a bit. Date someone who looks more “regular”

That's a big bum ble. She at least 200lbs.

The male equivalent of this woman would be lucky to receive 1 match in a year.

Who is this woman? That I feel I must meet in some respect? Does she really want to meet someone or is she looking for someone to read her mind hmmm,or someone to do everything hmmm can't figure it out ...please tell.

You should try making a male profile on a site and see how bad it is from the other side. I've been on Hinge for 9 months and still haven't had a single woman match with me.

At this point in my life I truly wonder what all the fuss was about. I just want to be alone now, people are great, but people in a relationship...not so much. It's weird how many take the opportunity of love and acceptance and turn it into controlling sadness.

The fact that a woman like this gets dates on the apps says volumes.

OK. Android no problem. You can use any somewhere with it and not be controlled by apple. Actually who cares...😂 1 I like the way you r ² as long as sex is good then no problem. 3as long as you listen to what's said all the time. No problem. Xx Come and jump on xxxx 😂

I love your long hair, it's so beautiful!

Took me 4 years on Hinge to find my fiancé. Had to kiss a lot of frogs. My advice is have hobbies and interests. We matched because of our cars and were friends for months before any romance. Good luck 🍀 🎉 you’ll find your forever very soon ❤

Women over 40 and not in good shape need to either: 1. Share men they see as reasonably attractive (non monogamy), or 2. Date a man 10-15 years older who isnt in great shape. As a dude, I sincerely don't understand why middle aged women can't grasp reality.

Awwww I missed you Ashley!!! ❤ The date sounded horrible! 🤦‍♀️ But yes, we are here to cheer you on and I'm 100% sure that you are going to find a great guy! ❤

It’s hell out there on the dating apps! Don’t feel that it’s you, me and my friends are also on the lookout but we deleted the apps and that says something about the apps 😉❤️

When a guy has a mostly blank profile it's one of three reasons. 1st is the guy just wants to smash. probably most likely. 2nd is he is resigned, has low expectations for this, so he isn't bothering to put a lot of effort in. Least likely. 3rd reason is the profile likely belongs to a scammer or weirdo.

You are so adorable! I missed your blogs. I would go on You Tube & be like Aww there is still nothing from Ash! These guys are sooo ridiculous & shallow! I have an Android too! Maybe that's why I can't find a man too! lol! 🤭You're just too good for these guys! 🎉

I love the way you share your experiences! You are a captivating speaker and I love your optimism that something will work out when it’s meant to be.

Honestly, your positivity is so refreshing! I hear my friends talk about how hard it is to date but then also just be so negative with the expectation of never meeting anyone. It just takes one good guy! I met mine on tinder, and I hope you meet yours soon! Sending lots of good and positive vibes ✨

Missed you girl. That date sounds insufferable but I’m glad youre still putting yourself out there! Hope you enjoyed the new target ❤

Have you joined Meetup they have activities local to your area.

👏 “ lonely “ lol

It’s really ok to let someone know how you feel without the implications of how they feel. Without being mean of course but you’re just trying to stay true to yourself!! 🫶

You’re too sweet and dating is a ruthless game. People are never straight up in the beginning. Please don’t let any rejection from internet strangers get you down and just don’t show your hand too early 😉 you’re the beautiful and genuine one and clearly worthy of love but also please always love yourself.

I love that a guy can be an actual decent person and treat you like gold but ain't good enough. Reminds me why trying to find someone is a complete waste of time. Thank you.

I just mean focus the important things in your life, like feed the good things. ❤

“When does it end?” I feel this so deeply.

Guys who are inconsistent and flakey act that way because they can. They have lots of options. They can upgrade their evening plans on a moments notice which is why on your end it seems flaky and unpredictable. They do this shit because a) it works for them and b) because they can.

Sorry you’re getting negative comments. I watch but don’t often comment but I’m always thinking positively about you 🙂🤍

I dont know why you cant get a bf, you are so lovely

I know what you're saying & I'm having the same issue with finding someone who would love me regardless of my weight, bc you/we wanna find a person who loves you for you & not just superficial attributes...Don't let trolls get you down, your videos are refreshing & real, if they can't handle it, then that's there inner hatred coming out & not really a reflection on you & your kind spirit 😊

Rooting for you girl. People are just miserable in life and taking it out on you. You are such a positive person which is such a breath of fresh air. You will find the person you are looking for! Please never let people take away your incredible gift of kindness and positivity. I promise there are more people watching that are rooting for you than people just looking for someplace to place their anger and misery. YOU GOT THIS!!

Why do you say 'like' that excessive? Just curious

Yes, 👏👏👏 I love how you said that you have a great life filled with great things and that you will continue to be your happy self! That's perfect and that's how it should be! All the negative comments are just sooo stupid!! I really don't understand why people have soooo much hate inside of them to write awful stuff like that.🤦‍♀️ They must feel very lost in life if the only intention is to make other people feel sad! You are such a ray of sunshine! So kind, lovely, gorgeous and an amazing storyteller! And you absolutely DON'T look like 55! 🤦‍♀️ Continue to be your awesome self and don't let anything get you down!! ❤

Hey, I have some unsolicited but solid advice because I think you’re a good but somewhat misguided person (in dating). I do hope this helps. One, you have to focus on you first, whatever this means to you: spirituality, health & wellness, productive hobbies, family, etc. people want someone who is complete, stable, confident (a partner, not a project). When you feel confident and whole you exude this energy. Second, focus on meeting people, new experiences and fun when dating, if that person isn’t bring those elements to the date, let them go (i.e., don’t let them bring you stress with wishy washy behavior, ignore that behavior, move on). Third, a maybe is a yes, do not look for the butterflies as the only way you will say yes- some say this is ultimately a warning system to avoid, but don’t turn down good guys because you don’t have a spark, this is some Hollywood nonsense you need to really get to know this person until they are a no (or hopefully a yes). I know this wasn’t the ‘nicest’, but it is coming from a kind place of someone who has been through it. Good luck ❤

Love you Ash! It’s hard and there are a lot of bad ones. We are old enough where we shouldn’t be playing games. I’m so sorry that this happened. I know it’s discouraging. I wish you all the best. You are beautiful (no matter what rando dudes say in the comments) inside and out! There is someone out there for you! ❤❤

You’re such a ray of sunshine! Always beautiful and sweet!! Don’t let anyone dull your sparkle! He was not worthy of your time and energy. Keep moving forward! There’s someone out there who will treat you right. 💗🫶🏼💗

don’t quit, but if a guy cancels and doesn’t immediately reschedule, he most likely doesn’t like you. You shouldn’t have to ask!

You got this, Ashley! You totally got this! You need the man you deserve who will treat you like you deserve to be treated - that means, like a Queen. Do not settle for anything less because you are brilliant and a beautiful soul that I have come to know the past few years. Sometimes we fall into love when we least expect it. I hope that happens to you so you can have the fairytale ending. Love you!!

Soooo sorry that it didn't work out! 🤦‍♀️ But it's his loss! He missed out on an incredible woman! ❤ I'm crossing my fingers that you find a great guy very soon! 2024 is your year! I'm sure of that!! Sending you lot's of 🫂🫂🫂

Ash you are best ! Don't sweat the jerks out there. You will find the right guy ! I have faith ! Also love the vlog ! Keep it up !

You are so vulnerable to share your story, and you are helping women relate who are going through the same struggles. Your perfect match is out there somewhere, and I know you will find someone who sees you for the beautiful person you are inside and out! Keep doing you and bringing sunshine into other’s lives 💕

I love your vlogs. You always make me smile. Keep being you. You’re doing great ❤

ash- you are such a ray of sunshine and i wish ppl weren’t such assholes. you deserve everything, don’t settle for less! ☀️🌻