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Thank you for coming on the pod! It was such an insightful and fascinating conversation

I'm sorry to hear that brother. I cannot imagine what you went through. But you are right, it's so hard these days. It seems a lot of women live in a disorted reality in which they feel entitled to receive the world in exchange of nothing. I wanna believe though that the majority of them are more grounded and have a better understanding how a committed relationship works and looks like.

Thank you! I feel society has lost the compass when it comes to dating and finding a life partner

I agree with what you are saying, online dating has quote-on-quote destroyed the whole dating experience by creating unrealistic expectations and the impression of unlimited options in a society that has grown with a sense of entitlement. And you might be up to something when it comes to obesity rates, at least here in America, and the lack of attraction to one another.

It is! Sadly, we are too afraid to open up and share our struggles with others. We don't have to face these challenges alone

Thank you Pericles fo coming on the show. It was such a fascinating conversation

Thank you for coming on the pod. You brought amazing energy and great insights!

That's an interesting argument you are bringing up. I wonder what percentage of hetero men and hetero women are not are not having problems forming serious committed relationships. I do have both male and female single friends who are struggling when it comes to dating, to the point that a few of them have given up. Now, I'll admit that the people I know are not a significant representation of what's happening in the dating world. You might have a valid point there, I never thought about looking it from that angle.

@@redefiningwisdom Yeah I have friends who struggle in dating and feel like giving up too. What I've noticed about all of them is: 1) The guys I know who are hetero, either come from single mother homes, or they have a father but he's very submissive. 2) The women I know who struggle are all bi on some level, with a similar family structure as the guys I mentioned. The guys never were taught how to be attractive to women. These women were never taught how to attract quality men, but what makes it worse is that when you're a bi woman, you can get into female on female relationships very easily, which becomes like an addiction. The result is they never spend enough time learning about how men work, so they always end up in failed situationships with men. Plus, they tend to go about dating men with the same mentality as when they date women, which doesn't work. The guys I know who do well with women, know how to attract women, and they all come from solid traditional households. Same with the women who are doing well with men who I know. The Hetero women who are having a hard time with dating, tend to come from the single parent home to some degree, and they tend to be really out of shape and out of touch with how to interact with people properly, due to lack of upbringing. Forgot to mention, when I want to the Mall the other day, in Houston, their main mall, wow, tons and tons of guys and girls dating each other, holding hands, flirting, and it seemed like mostly a upper middle class of people. And the single men and women were trying real hard to look sexy to each other. Lots of competition. But they all looked like people who know how to attract the opposite sex.

@@AetheriusComics You might be onto something. However, I will raise the argument that there also might be a high probability that people who grew up in traditional households are also struggling with dating mostly because of traumas in childhood (school, bullying, etc), shaping some of their belief systems, and then adding on top of that what they might see on social media ("girls are only looking for guys with height, money, status, etc", and "guys are only looking to sleep around and never settling down"). Their reality can get distorted, believing that they either don't meet the unrealistic high standards or that there is no one good available, that all the good potential partners are already taken. At the end of the day, I think one of the biggest issues is our perception of the world and the stories we have told ourselves. Because we will always find evidence of what we believe in. Just a theory I have.

@@redefiningwisdom Your point that there also might be a high probability that people who grew up in traditional households are also struggling with dating mostly because of traumas in childhood (school, bullying, etc). In households that present themselves as traditional but actually aren't when you look closely, yes, but not households that are actually traditional. Like for instance, it's not social media that tells traditional families that hetero girls like height, money and status. It's the result of hetero girls and hetero women's choices that they see in real time. Traditional people are very focused on, 'what is', and not much on, 'what which group would like it to be', or what a misunderstood perception. And they are aware that girls of other sexualities tend to want different things than hetero girls when it comes to dating. Non traditional families are usually not very aware of, what is, in this case for instance. A boy in school can see that just about all the girls who are enthusiastically into their boyfriends, are dating guys taller than them. They hear the short jokes from girls. While his single mother goes on completely unware of this, telling her son that girls don't care about height. Even though she herself has never seriously dated a guy shorter than herself.

Good host, bad guest. In most cases you are better off lifting weights and doing cardio than wasting your dough on clueless (to nuts) therapists.

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I'm glad you enjoyed it! Ryan was a great guest and he has a very cool story

I really enjoyed our talk. Great insights into the vegan lifestyle

Her relentless drive is something to admire and her dedication to her craft is inspiring

Glad you enjoyed it!

Thank you!!! ❤️

I couldn't agree more! Tanner is one of those guys who at his young age has had incredible life experiences and enormous amount of wisdom. Having conversations with him is always a delight

That's the truth, we need to let go the fear of being dislike

@sofialikespurplebread You are definitely braver than me and most people I know. I honestly believe that as a society we could be in a much better place if we allow ourselves to be more vulnerable around people and stop pretending that everything is ok. Kudos to you, I mean it