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She needs her own platform Period. I hope she’s able to start her own Podcast, most of the people in the comments would support her endeavors.

I understand what she saying but then the question would be, when is it appropriate to be angry?

Emotional maturity doesn’t mean you don’t feel negative emotions like anger, sadness, fear, insecurity etc. it just means you acting appropriately despite this negative emotions. Bear in mind both parties in this video are obviously angry to some degree but see the difference in the way they act and approach the issue. Sis leave this show, this people will keep trying to dim your light, you speak from a genuine place, they speak with the intent to spite you. Clock the intentions girl.

Feels like talking to toddlers. The Lord is your strength sis. Save your energy and let life teach them the lesson they have refuse to learn. Mr man I beg you please go around and be angry and triggered by things that don’t personally concern you 😅, the time will come when people’s silliness won’t trigger you because you have bigger fishes to fry and your shit to focus on, it is lack of problems that is making you make a problem out of things that shouldn’t matter. Gone are those days I speak like this dude😅.

I feel yo sis on that imma Pisces I do the same thing. I'll go in the closet just to get my darkness kmsl.

This was a great podcast. Ms. Assata is giving great advice. I may need to seek therapy from her. Certain outlooks and things she can see just from short conversations. That's very interesting!!!

Love when he contradicts himself in the same episode. 25:56 & 29:25

Why is it we spend so much time teaching kids to not kick, sit, and cry at small things, to express their emotions in healthy ways, and then we get man children who do worse and are proud of it?

To answer his questions about emotional immaturity… google it, research it so YOU can grasp a full understanding bc clearly someone telling you isn’t going to do anything 😂

Mann put me on this podcast so I can really tell him ab himself 😂 the insecurities and pride is projecting so hard

Dese comment are crazy

I not bringing flower on a 1st date i’m not even sure if i like shorty like that i’m still feeling her out

Also, when the young lady says “you ARE emotionally immature, in my opinion”, she’s contradicting the statement. “To Be” is an absolute term. It’s unconditional, therefore no longer an opinion. If she rephrases it and says, “to me, you seem to be emotionally immature”, therein will lie her opinion. This was a display of gaslighting on both sides, AND cognitive dissonance. Interesting.

She wasn’t on the right track, but not quite accurate in her opinionated definition. He was correct in his understanding of “choosing” and conveying the emotion, so there’s the component of “regulating emotions”. However, it’s not anger being displayed to foster “better” social relations (e.g passionate reactions) and/or healthy relationships, so therefore it would be emotionally immature. The young lady was the perpetrator of emotional immaturity unfortunately. The way she allowed HIS selection to alter her own personal emotions (e.g. the countdown), she was not able to regulate her emotions either in order to de-escalate the conversation. Helluva display of cognitive dissonance 😅

I love Assata

It’s like trying to teach a child and they just not getting it. It’s like he kinda wants to learn but actively tries to be dense at the same time. I want to think the best of him being that this is my first impression of him, but he ain’t doing it for me. I can’t lie, the woman also has a few flaws but admits to them and listens to the PROFESSIONAL in the room. He doesn’t and just uses her words to prove himself right.

Some people can’t be taught and don’t have the ability nor the desire to listen. Let life teach them lol it’s easier for us and far more effective. Let him go, he’ll learn at some point. 😂

Homie with the dreads might be the lamest ever.

This was definitely a great set… y’all should make a lot of shorts from this video to get more exposure… 9:28

Good set… keep Progressing 🤲🏾✊🏾💯

If a person speaks to just win. Even when it’s over the most trivial of things - you’re EI. If you’re not even trying to understand what a person is saying (don’t have to agree) without getting loud and combative - you’re EI. 27:40 agree 🤣🤣. They really think we don’t know. Everything you said, is me 🤣🤣 and totally on point.

Yeah, I’m basically watching for the women (the only ones with sense), because HE is the type of person I absolutely would NOT give my time of day 🙄🙄🙄 Y U U U C C K!

Just followed yall here from Tiktok 💪🏽💪🏽

You brought this professional up here to be a couples counselor 😂.

01:04:04 have you not heard of psychology and behavior health?!?! 😭

The hilarious thing is she proved her point when he began to act like a toddler. 😭

2:54 Maybe instead of saying "my argument" say "the opposing argument" and then the internet won't thinking the views are yours. Viewers just hear the words you're saying and will believe what you say - that these views are yours.

Bring her back

Emotionally mature is when you can manage your emotions and not be over Emotional in a normal conversation... this bredda getting super emotional for no reason talking about im passionate big man your a gyal...

These men are female's

You can't control your emotions my boy.. your emotionally immature

1st time watching this podcast but I don't like how these 2 men got on to the lady though. They both immature and she was completely right in what she was saying

This bredda is defo emotionally immature.

I thought the point about social media was so valid on Jay’s part, ngl!

52:04 Because he couldn’t control BEHAVING angrily. Feeling angry & *displaying* it are 2 different things

47:56 he hasn’t matured to a level to realize that what someone else does shouldn’t cause his emotions to have him *behaving* angrily.

so u dont want people to throw around diagnoses because they aren't educated but at the same time when a therapist is telling you what is correct and not correct u wanna "disagree"..? interesting

Mannnmmm the guy so annoying the girl clearly displayed the difference in MATURITY the producer also the ultimate gawk gawk 9000 to his "homie"

also him saying other people, girls, have called him emotionally immature. everyone cannot be lying

it’s possible to be angry without expressing it. you can feel angry without yelling, being aggressive

emotional maturity is related to being calm because it demonstrates a control/ sense of stability over your reactions, behaviors and feelings irrespective of external forces

how can an opinion be logically proven ?

these men are committed to misunderstanding her

she needs her own podcast the men are ganging up on her. is that his boyfriend in the background ?

Urban hood culture gotta get it together

42:00 Wish he would have elaborated more because I'm not understanding how the girlfriend to wife doesn't change..does he mean duties? Expectations?...because certain aspects DEFINITELY change.... Also 1st time listner and i enjoyed it! Loving the topics of discussion...somehow y'all made me agree and disagree with each one of yall about something 😂

glasses is toxic AND ugly too ☹️ evil combination

Emotional intelligence is social awareness picking up on cues & and self-awareness in creating boundaries that teach people how to treat you. UNDERSTAND YOU CAN ONLY CONTROL YOURSELF NOBODY ELSE IS RESPONSIBLE FOR HOW YOU FEEL.

I think he cares way too much about everything people say about him, which is ok bc that’s a very human thing. I just feel like being in the public is not healthy for people like this. Again, I don’t know this man but from what I’m seeing, that’s my opinion. I LOVE THIS CHANNEL

19:15 🫣