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I love your videos. As someone with asd I know exactly what you're dealing with and my heart goes out to you. Ps, if anyone mentions hunting to me, I will not stop talking about it haha

This video was quite helpful to me. It really resonates as I'm the scapegoat too, and yes, it continues on until the day we die, but everyone thinks that it's just that you need to get over your childhood. No -- they couldn't be more wrong. Adult abuse can be even more tricky to deal with and way more traumatizing because you're no longer in their care (usually). So, what is their problem? Well whatever it is, it definitely is covertly and overtly projected onto the scapegoat in the past, now, and forevermore.

I am a guy and my asd presents in the way that it does in women lol :p

FYI I thought I was the only person at church who didn't know WTF was going on because the stuff didn't resonate or make any sense. I thought that either I was stupider (LOL!) or that no one else really understood it either. Either way it was a terrible feeling because with either I was some kind of misfit, weirdo OR I was surrounded by a bunch of fakers who just went along while not understanding either. Ever since then, churches kind of make me mad...a bit of a love/hate relationship. I love the people, mostly, but hate the institution, mostly. I want to close with this; I am glad you are asking questions, being open and encouraging others to do the same on their journeys to make sense of this thing called life! Peace, health, love and happiness.

You just remind me so much of Avril Lavigne! Your voice, the way you talk and your facial features! Even the clothing. Wow!

I am both mentally disabled and mentally autistic but I am always very happy and i always have a smile on my face and this brings back such great memories of when I use to be a 90s kid and an early 2000s kid and I am a new subscriber as well:).

Please let him free ❤

I need those glasses though ❤

You look like young Avril Lavigne when she had brown hair. I'm jealous haha I wanted to be like her so bad as a kid.

Are your parents still abusive? Are you neurodivergent and they mistreated you because of it? Or did you become neurodivergent because of the abuse?

Well she wore me like a badge of shame. Like old suede leather in pouring rain, like a fit of temper thrown in vain or an old worn coat with a permanent stain. 🙋‍♂️🦮

You're a very well-spoken woman but I'll have to watch this a second time as I was too captivated by your charm and fixated on your eyes the first time 'round. 🙂 What can I say, I couldn't help it...

She's super cute too❤

Git on my pole lol 🎣

Yes diniel masking is important and useful for us to navigate our way through social situations in our life. But to much can lead us in to meltdowns. Yes library's are a great resource and have been very useful places for me to take refuge from the madding crowds over the years. Hope you and nazca are doing good.🙋‍♂️🦮

Bravo to you and confronting life's obstacles. Never be defeated dear person.

I love how outdoorsy you are.

Socially awkward yep thats me🙋‍♂️🦮

Yes i rehearse conversations in my head, because i plan in my head what to talk about with the person/ persons. And what questions i can ask so they can do the talking and i can rest my mind😅🙋‍♂️

Interesting. I can really see that lots of girls with autism are kinda locked into expectations. Either they became quitet ones with no emotional expresion and lots of pent up anger. Or thry have to became crazy ones if they get to express theyre needs. But is very good to share this knowlage with others.

Pls tell me u r single and looking

Simple but helpful, sometimes one needs to be told that to be more motivated to follow those rules, thank you

I love u

Merry christmas🥳🎅 cool tree

Yes i have always struggled with getting to sleep and the little sleep i did get the narcissist would disrupt it on many occasion. Many times the narcissist would wake me up in the early hours of the morning to start a conversation about her favourite tv shows !!! Or try and provoke an argument late at night and trap me in to circular conversations that just went on and on and round and round!. Just very exhausting behaviour. Merry christmas diniel and nazca hope you have a great christmas🎅🌟🙋‍♂️

Rambling on and on about a subject . Absolutely like I said below picking up on a 45 year old conversation and continuing it it scares the hell out of them !

In reality we're not the ones that need therapy , the normals are the ones that need therapy !

Well number one your subconscious child , and every one has one , though recluse and hiden from them consciously, the normals . Is not pascully in the oppen daylight. And all subconscious thinking is a thousand times faster than normal concious thinking . And that's why we get in trouble . Another thing we can talk with someone 45 years ago . And 45 years later we have the ability to pick up on that conversation and it scares the bejesus out of them , the normals ..! Half-breed Indian people have a higher exposure of their subconscious child in day light , called autism by the normals but it's not really autism we're just different ! Autism by savant . ! Would be closer to the truth . I teach a music writing course and how to use your subconscious child to write music 🎵 !

Thank you for showing us viewers that amazing place diniel. I'ts incredible to think that they once roamed the earth😮🙋‍♂️

5 dollars a gallon its aroynd 10 in uk

This is so cool

All I do is cruise and I have a manual I keep saying add me luv

😂 That’s how I roll.

Very true words🙋‍♂️

Omg. Im 29 and IDK how to even start to try for a diagnosis!! But I relate to sooo much of your video and others on the spectrum its crazy!!!

The coolest critters come out at night. What do i do in the middle of the night? I'm usually in bed feeling exhausted and wishing i could fall asleep😅. Looks like a brilliant place to camp out🙌 . I had my haircut today for the first time in 14 months!. I felt very anxious before the appointment,😮

I find it very peculiar that this video is sitting at under 50 views. You're providing basically textbook information (in a good way) and you're as conventionally attractive as Paige/Chloe. Why haven't the algorithm gods picked you up yet? Maybe not enough TikTok shorts? Idk. The only information pertinent to the topic I feel like you left out is how being on the spectrum makes individuals vulnerable to falling victim to narcissistic relationships. Obviously I can't speak for you, but just going off all the stories I've been told by my friends who are autistic women, being autistic (especially if undiagnosed) makes an individual a prime target for narcissists. It doesn't have anything to do with being "dumb" or "disabled," but rather the narcissist's tendency to capitalize on the fact that autistic people tend to be very accepting, for lack of a better term. Others tend to categorize this as autistic "social naivety," but in my experience this trait displays itself in more of a positive and sweet way. I've reached a point where most of the people I would consider 'friends' are autistic women--the majority of whom happen to be in relationships. The only 'benefit' of the existence of narcissistic abuse is that it provides a template for how to not act. Don't discourage them from having other friends or being in a relationship. Don't isolate them or try to monopolize their attention. Don't cross any explicit boundaries set by them, which fortunately autistic women tend to be very open about. Don't be hostile towards the boyfriend/husband, whether directly or indirectly. etc. etc.

This one i wrote around four years ago, is called codependant to a covert narcissist............i'm codependant i exist through you, a mind as weak as pale watery blue, i'll hold myself together with celotape and glue, my identity is now defined by you, you've got me digging for approval in a room with no view, as i submerge all my own needs and cover for you, i'm running on empty so tangled in blue. Where is my own mind? i lost it to you!, i'm codependant through and through. All the narc magnets with fairweather friends, the weary drained empaths with souls to mend, people pleasing to the bitter end...👿

U so freakin pretty ❤😮😊

Luv it!!!!!??😮🎉😊❤

Lovely tree! Merry Christmas! 🎉

Ouch!😜

Yes its very difficult to regulate my emotions but despite everything i still manage to scrape myself up of the kitchen floor everyday and hammer a smile accross my face. Its cold and grey here everyday but its december in england so there is no other way for it to be i'm afraid🥶🎅

I'm not keen on most of the doctors i've seen. I used to have a doctor i liked, when i lived in another city that i had a good relationship with and felt comfortable sharing stuff with and they seemed like a genuinely caring person. Wow what a cool and interesting hobby to have 🙋‍♂️

I learnt a long time ago that people who continue to deny the truth arnt worth bothering with. Yes i have given people more chances than i ever should have done. But when a scorpio is finally done we are done and there is no going back🦂. Please dont feel you have to apologize during your videos. The way you present your videos is part of your innate charm and appeal.🙋‍♂️

What an amazing place!!💦💦