Ella Isiuwe
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Why you SUCK at small talk | Gen z, Millennials & introverts.
Why you SUCK at small talk | Gen z, Millennials & introverts.
This is a very important topic you guys.
Social media and the fear of looking stupid hinders us from making true connections.
This video is about how to make great first impressions, small talk and nice conversations.
Sorry about my voice, I have a cold that’s why it sounds like I was running a marathon before and then decided to film a YT video.
Don’t forget the like and subscribe ❤️
For other videos like this, watch:
Why consumerism will keep you poor ua-cam.com/video/95RSRVVGQmE/v-deo.htmlsi=tvmn9eYHDwIGgawp
How Influencers and social media keep you broke .be/HOBN_hFM9xk?si=O55SMDdNUDLhpQvU
I started prioritising myself ua-cam.com/video/E4HyZkrQR28/v-deo.htmlsi=jNuH5_ZicUkxN0Pn
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Відео

The *real* reason consumerism has us in a chokehold
Переглядів 95821 день тому
The *real* reason consumerism has us in a chokehold. I think there is a better way to create a lifestyle that is meaningful, sustainable and gives chance for a future of freedom. It doesn't have to be absolutely minimalist and my video on why looking poor is important addresses this but it is important to live life meaningfully. TikTok shop, instagram, social media ads, and social media in gene...
FIRST TIME travelling to Anambra for an Igbo traditional wedding - a realistic travel vlog
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Hi guys, long time no vlog. This is the vlog I have been telling you guys about! FIRST TIME traveling to Anambra for an Igbo traditional wedding - a realistic travel vlog So...boom, I traveled to the eastern part of Nigeria for my friend's traditional and white wedding. This is a very "I must upload this video once and for all" but its so exciting, funny, chaotic and realistic. I feel like this...
Why the “trad wife” trend is more dangerous than you think.
Переглядів 519Місяць тому
Why the trad wife trend is more dangerous than you think. Hey loves, long time no talk. Today’s video is more or less about why I think we need to look at marriage and long term partnership with men more seriously. Marrying rich is not the solution to your problem like you think it is and the trad wife trend is dangerous. Let me know what you think about the trad wife trend on TikTok and social...
If you’re 18-24 years old, please watch this video..
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If you’re 18-24 years old, please watch this video.. this video encompasses most ages to be honest, so if you’re still a teenager or if you’re in your 20s, please watch this. I talk about actual real things that you can do to shape your life for the better. no vague stuff, real stuff. lol let me know if you like this video by telling me in the comments and actually subscribing to my channel. I ...
How INFLUENCERS and social media keep you broke
Переглядів 3532 місяці тому
How INFLUENCERS and social media keep you broke This is video talks about the dangers of social media and influencers. The issue with consumerism and overconsumption and how you’re not really broke you’re just spending too much time on social media. TikTok, Instagram and the likes have you thinking that these social media influencers are more than what they really are. You shouldn’t compare you...
How To Stop Wasting Money On Clothes You Never Wear
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How to stop wasting money on clothes you never wear Having a shopping addiction isn’t cute. it’s just making you poor. I have recently got into the “no buy” year and I’m loving it. Ditching consumerism and being a conscious consumer is my new best thing. You can absolutely have great personal style with the clothes you already have. There’s no need to make multiple purchases on clothes every ti...
Underconsumption core: The *BEST* tips for saving money
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Underconsumption core: The *BEST* tips for saving money Welcome back guys! Thanks for tuning in again! This is a continuation of my "Why consumerism keeps you poor" video, but here I talk about what to do to beat consumerism and the most practical saving tips you will ever need! Is this your no buy year? are you partaking in a no buy challenge, while I am not there yet, I absolutely would like ...
You won’t become *THAT WOMAN* until you borrow some audacity.
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You won’t become *THAT WOMAN* until you borrow some audacity. The issue is audacity. you need lots of it. while you’re over there being miserable, men are racking in millions of money just by being audacious! You can keep you feminine energy but it’s important to know when to have audacity and enter your masculine energy You wanna know how to overcome imposter syndrome? watch this! What are the...
5 books to get you into reading and out of a reading SLUMP
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5 books to get you into reading and out of a reading SLUMP. if you want to learn how to read more, get out of a reading slump or get into reading again generally, watch this short video. it includes my favorite books for now featuring book recommendations from African authors such as Lola Shoneyin, Oyinkan braithwaite, Ukamaka Olisakwe, Damilare kuku and Adorah Nworah. African literature is gol...
Why consumerism will keep you poor, overconsumption & social media too.
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Why consumerism will keep you poor, overconsumption & social media too. Welcome back guys! Thanks for tuning in again! In this video, I talk about consumerism and how it keeps you poor. I believe that social media, inflation and the general Nigerian culture fuels overconsumption and buying too much stuff. I think there is a better way to create a lifestyle that is meaningful, sustainable and gi...
Why LOOKING POOR is important
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This is why looking poor is important. Minimalism is saving lives! In this video, I talk about how looking poor can mean more in today’s society, especially in the age of social media. Social media already allows everyone to brandish themselves as having significantly more financial value than actual reality, so it can be easy to fall prey to a “trend” that will wreck you financially. I throw l...
Inspiring STORY TIME 🙄: I prayed for the wrong things + the reality of Nigerian Universities
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Inspiring STORY TIME 🙄: I prayed for the wrong things the reality of Nigerian Universities
You don’t need a GLOW UP! Do these to look good everyday | for Nigerian and black girls
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You don’t need a GLOW UP! Do these to look good everyday | for Nigerian and black girls
Escape the Nice Girl Trap: Embrace Your Inner Bad B*tch
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Escape the Nice Girl Trap: Embrace Your Inner Bad B*tch
3 GREEN FLAGS ✅ you're *PROBABLY* ignoring in men. Yes, Nigerian boyfriends included.
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3 GREEN FLAGS ✅ you're *PROBABLY* ignoring in men. Yes, Nigerian boyfriends included.
Days in my life - The weekend RESET we all deserve in Nigeria
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Days in my life - The weekend RESET we all deserve in Nigeria
Rebrand in 6 MONTHS.
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Rebrand in 6 MONTHS.
BEST OUTFIT IDEAS FOR BIG BUSTS ✅ Look fashionable, modest and elevated with these tops/necklines
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BEST OUTFIT IDEAS FOR BIG BUSTS ✅ Look fashionable, modest and elevated with these tops/necklines
Powerful 🔥 Morning Routine Affirmations- LUCKY GIRL SYNDROME (start manifesting your higher self)
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Powerful 🔥 Morning Routine Affirmations- LUCKY GIRL SYNDROME (start manifesting your higher self)
Why marriage before babies is important.
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Why marriage before babies is important.
Always look CLASSY (without makeup) for young black girls. Hair, jewelry, outfits and skincare.
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Always look CLASSY (without makeup) for young black girls. Hair, jewelry, outfits and skincare.
Blowing up overnight does not exist
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Blowing up overnight does not exist
How to *ACTUALLY* break your social media addiction. Unhealthy beliefs on life, money and romance.
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How to *ACTUALLY* break your social media addiction. Unhealthy beliefs on life, money and romance.
How I remain UNBOTHERED in a social media world.
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How I remain UNBOTHERED in a social media world.
🌸 FEMININITY 🌸 - The hot girl guide to being more magnetic in Nigeria (when you feel ugly & broke)
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🌸 FEMININITY 🌸 - The hot girl guide to being more magnetic in Nigeria (when you feel ugly & broke)
Styling DIY denim for my valentines lunch date + unboxing my fav gift + chaotic grwm + soft launch
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Styling DIY denim for my valentines lunch date unboxing my fav gift chaotic grwm soft launch
How to DRESS BETTER (with clothes you already have and no extra money) #elevateyourstyle
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How to DRESS BETTER (with clothes you already have and no extra money) #elevateyourstyle
I started prioritizing MYSELF, here’s what happened.
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I started prioritizing MYSELF, here’s what happened.
GOODBYE LAGOS! ABUJA IS MY DREAM CITY, PH CITY? ✋❌+ COME WITH ME ON A WORK TRIP TO ACCRA
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GOODBYE LAGOS! ABUJA IS MY DREAM CITY, PH CITY? ✋❌ COME WITH ME ON A WORK TRIP TO ACCRA

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @Ellaisiuwe
    @Ellaisiuwe 4 дні тому

    You guys, do you think this video is too dark? Please let me know 😢

  • @cptornado5267
    @cptornado5267 8 днів тому

    People are getting sucked almost at anything these days

  • @jessicaisiuwe
    @jessicaisiuwe 10 днів тому

    Really helpful

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe 8 днів тому

      @@jessicaisiuwe right? Tysm

  • @LovelyDrumKit-hu8jz
    @LovelyDrumKit-hu8jz 10 днів тому

    0:47 “we are losing the recipe for friendship” is so real. I literally have nothing to discuss

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe 8 днів тому

      @@LovelyDrumKit-hu8jz 😂 hopefully these work for you

  • @perroni.k
    @perroni.k 10 днів тому

    "people love to talk about themselves" It's so true, when you make someone comfortable to do so you will see how much people just want to be listen sometimes

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe 8 днів тому

      @@perroni.k exactly! It’s worked for me and on me!

  • @Lyraa_loves
    @Lyraa_loves 16 днів тому

    its kinda sad how the youth feels forced to buy anything bcuz its "trendy"

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe 15 днів тому

      It is sad, and it’s not just the youth anymore. Everyone wants to keep up and be relevant but it’s costing us all.

  • @LovelyDrumKit-hu8jz
    @LovelyDrumKit-hu8jz 22 дні тому

    5:27 buying things because of peer pressure is actually so sad

  • @damilolaoyeniyi5834
    @damilolaoyeniyi5834 26 днів тому

    Social media has started deciding for people and making people go down the road of poverty. I pray it isn’t too late before we realise the negative effects of social media

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe 25 днів тому

      Exactly. We need to start thinking for ourselves

  • @jessicaisiuwe
    @jessicaisiuwe Місяць тому

    19:38 why are you running 😂😂😂

  • @jessicaisiuwe
    @jessicaisiuwe Місяць тому

    19:35 this is so funnyyyy 😂😂😂

  • @jessicaisiuwe
    @jessicaisiuwe Місяць тому

    18:49 what are you guys doing 😂😂😂😂

  • @amamiisiuwe7162
    @amamiisiuwe7162 Місяць тому

    😂😂😂 you obviously had fun!

  • @Ellaisiuwe
    @Ellaisiuwe Місяць тому

    19:55 😅😅😅 omggg I can’t stop laughing watching this part

  • @cryptameria666
    @cryptameria666 Місяць тому

    Really good video. I can't believe how much people consume. Everyone loves stuff but it's so much!

  • @meisa333
    @meisa333 Місяць тому

    I agree with you but at the same time you cannot marry potential. Let them start achieving first.

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe Місяць тому

      Lmao I totally get you and your point is 100% valid. Achieving is important but my point is looking at finances is isolation can be misleading.

  • @freepalestine7687
    @freepalestine7687 Місяць тому

    Agree 100%

  • @hilary8
    @hilary8 2 місяці тому

    You're talking about what you have little knowledge on.

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe 2 місяці тому

      @@hilary8 ❤️Aww so refreshing to see such a profound counterpoint. Other people just type out mindless nothings.

    • @hilary8
      @hilary8 2 місяці тому

      @Ellaisiuwe I'm a close friend of Diana, and I know her lifestyle. Instead of telling people that influencers or celebrities are living a fake life educate them on how to live fulfilled lives.

  • @sangbongkathryn2045
    @sangbongkathryn2045 2 місяці тому

    The Gen Z generations needs this ❤

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe 2 місяці тому

      @@sangbongkathryn2045 I believe we all need it 😭

  • @sangbongkathryn2045
    @sangbongkathryn2045 2 місяці тому

    Love this❤

  • @WilliamTheUnkownShoutout
    @WilliamTheUnkownShoutout 2 місяці тому

    I had a very hard day at work and this helps me get better and this brings back such great memories of when I use to be a 90s kid and an early 2000s kid and I am a new subscriber as well:).

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe 2 місяці тому

      @@WilliamTheUnkownShoutout omg I’m so sorry about your day. I’m so glad I made you reminisce a little ❤️

  • @Ducati007
    @Ducati007 2 місяці тому

    I never had a issue looking poor, it just comes naturally to me. I mean i don't have any money.

  • @Chisomntinulu
    @Chisomntinulu 2 місяці тому

    Hugggg shame🫂 😂 Do things outside of your comfort zone enough times that it becomes normal 💗 Thank you for sharing Ella🙌🏽

  • @JohnEdeh-wq8lj
    @JohnEdeh-wq8lj 2 місяці тому

    Deep, Educative and Incisive, well-done Ella🙌🏾

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe 2 місяці тому

      @@JohnEdeh-wq8lj thank you! 🙏🏽

  • @PsychoDelisS
    @PsychoDelisS 2 місяці тому

    i really liked your video :) I hope young girls will see this video

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe 2 місяці тому

      @@PsychoDelisS oh thank you! I hope young people see it too 🙂

  • @Chazzabox1
    @Chazzabox1 3 місяці тому

    Very smart video!!! We woman suffer from this too much.😂 I swear, the phone marketers are in our brain too, all I did was think of a product, then my phone would suggest it via instagram, without me uttering any words. 😮

  • @jessicaisiuwe
    @jessicaisiuwe 3 місяці тому

    This video is so crisp 😍😍

  • @Sophthesoul
    @Sophthesoul 3 місяці тому

    Omgggg yeah sometimes I buy stuff because I’ve seen it on Pinterest and it never looks the same on me 😭😭😭😭

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe 3 місяці тому

      @@Sophthesoul that’s what I’m talking about 😭

  • @Ellaisiuwe
    @Ellaisiuwe 3 місяці тому

    Omg you guys I’m so sorry about the saxophone my neighbor is playing in this video. I couldn’t tune him out 😭

    • @sylviaadora
      @sylviaadora 3 місяці тому

      I like it. It’s giving background music

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe 3 місяці тому

      @@sylviaadora Lmaoo 😂 not background music 😭

  • @Wunmiodunmorayo
    @Wunmiodunmorayo 3 місяці тому

    Makes a lot of sense

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe 3 місяці тому

      @@Wunmiodunmorayo omg right?

  • @LovelyDrumKit-hu8jz
    @LovelyDrumKit-hu8jz 3 місяці тому

    I love these series on overconsumption and consumerism you’ve been doing.

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe 3 місяці тому

      @@LovelyDrumKit-hu8jz thank you!

  • @eberensofor
    @eberensofor 3 місяці тому

    Omg yesss audacity is needed 👌🏾

  • @eberensofor
    @eberensofor 3 місяці тому

    Omg yesss audacity is needed 👌🏾

  • @Sophthesoul
    @Sophthesoul 3 місяці тому

    Totally agree with the entitlement thing. Men are incredibly entitled and selfish when it comes to their goals so women need to put themselves more firstttt

  • @jessicaisiuwe
    @jessicaisiuwe 3 місяці тому

    This hair is getting finer o, Is it just me??

  • @jessicaisiuwe
    @jessicaisiuwe 3 місяці тому

    Thank youuu! Needed this

  • @phionahbirungi8510
    @phionahbirungi8510 3 місяці тому

    Thenk you so much sweetheart I learnt that the hard way and am someone who get rid of things quickly

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe 3 місяці тому

      @@phionahbirungi8510 that’s amazing! Well done!❤️

  • @ugochiee
    @ugochiee 3 місяці тому

    Please how did u blur ur background

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe 3 місяці тому

      Hi 👋🏾 it’s the cinematic feature in my phone.

    • @ugochiee
      @ugochiee 3 місяці тому

      @@Ellaisiuwe am really sorry to bother you But which phone do u use to film

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe 3 місяці тому

      @ugochiee no worries. I use an IPhone 14 Pro

  • @Everyoneisfake334
    @Everyoneisfake334 3 місяці тому

    Girl u are stunning!❤

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe 3 місяці тому

      @@Everyoneisfake334 omg thank you

  • @lakeraluxe6255
    @lakeraluxe6255 3 місяці тому

    Talented ❤

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe 3 місяці тому

      @@lakeraluxe6255 aww thanks

  • @WilliamSynan-c4x
    @WilliamSynan-c4x 3 місяці тому

    WAIT YOU ARE GORGEOUS-

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe 3 місяці тому

      @@WilliamSynan-c4x stop you are too

  • @ThatAwesomeAeroAce
    @ThatAwesomeAeroAce 3 місяці тому

    This looks so good❤️

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe 3 місяці тому

      @@ThatAwesomeAeroAce thank youuu

  • @eberensofor
    @eberensofor 3 місяці тому

    Lol. Love this 😂 This year has actually been heavy on adulting lessons 😮‍💨

  • @JEYLONESS
    @JEYLONESS 3 місяці тому

    👏🏽👏🏽

  • @JEYLONESS
    @JEYLONESS 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤

  • @nikiiiiiiii_z.54
    @nikiiiiiiii_z.54 3 місяці тому

    You look gorgeous 🩷

  • @jessicaisiuwe
    @jessicaisiuwe 3 місяці тому

    Looks so gooddd

  • @EjimaduFavour-yo6bp
    @EjimaduFavour-yo6bp 3 місяці тому

    Ateee 😍!!

  • @GraceFidel
    @GraceFidel 3 місяці тому

    I just subscribed from the title. I am on my saving mood ❤

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe 3 місяці тому

      Lmao 😂 it’s 2024, financial wisdom is key 🫱🏽‍🫲🏼

  • @Sophthesoul
    @Sophthesoul 3 місяці тому

    Omggg thank you so much for this ❤I’ve been looking for more African books to read

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe 3 місяці тому

      @@Sophthesoul let me know what you think when you read these!

  • @eberensofor
    @eberensofor 3 місяці тому

    Omggg It was so good. I also think it's underrated

    • @Ellaisiuwe
      @Ellaisiuwe 3 місяці тому

      @@eberensofor which? Secret lives of baba segi’s wives right?

    • @eberensofor
      @eberensofor 3 місяці тому

      @@Ellaisiuweyes 10/10 🤩