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Respectful Parenting Unruffled Podcast
United States
Приєднався 18 лис 2022
In the 25+ years Janet Lansbury has worked with children and parents, she's learned a lot. She's here to share it with you. Each episode of Unruffled addresses a reader's parenting issue through the lens of Janet's respectful parenting philosophy, consistently offering a perspective shift that ultimately frees parents of the need for scripts, strategies, tricks, and tactics.
Janet is a parenting author and consultant whose website (JanetLansbury.com) is visited by millions of readers annually. Her work informs, inspires, and supports caregivers of infants and toddlers across the globe, helping to create authentic relationships of respect, trust, and love.
Featured in the New Yorker, recommended Best Parenting Podcast by The Washington Post, New York Times, The Bump, Fatherly, Today's Parent, and many, many more.
Copyright JLML Press (2022) All Rights Reserved
Janet is a parenting author and consultant whose website (JanetLansbury.com) is visited by millions of readers annually. Her work informs, inspires, and supports caregivers of infants and toddlers across the globe, helping to create authentic relationships of respect, trust, and love.
Featured in the New Yorker, recommended Best Parenting Podcast by The Washington Post, New York Times, The Bump, Fatherly, Today's Parent, and many, many more.
Copyright JLML Press (2022) All Rights Reserved
It's Here! The No Bad Kids Master Course is now available @nobadkidscourse.com
It's been many months in the making and it's finally here! I'm so thrilled to share this new immersive course with you. 19 video elements for you to enjoy in your time at your individual pace. 8 visualization exercises to help you practice a new way of understanding your child's behavior and your role in guiding them. A downloadable course guide. A certificate of completion. All of this is yours to keep.
While writing 2 books, 500 articles, and recording more than 300 podcasts, it has been my dream to create an ALL-IN-ONE resource for parents and early childhood professionals that offers everything you need to make my respectful, empathic discipline approach your own. This is it! nobadkidscourse.com
While writing 2 books, 500 articles, and recording more than 300 podcasts, it has been my dream to create an ALL-IN-ONE resource for parents and early childhood professionals that offers everything you need to make my respectful, empathic discipline approach your own. This is it! nobadkidscourse.com
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(Encore) A Pep Talk for Parents: Embracing Our Power to Be Confident Leaders
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Janet shares what she describes as her most valuable advice for parents a mindset that brings clarity to our role in our children's lives, makes our job more enjoyable and successful, and may even offer us personal growth. Janet explains why and how this perspective works, offers practical examples, and touches on some of the common issues that can get in our way. As parents, we tend to questio...
The Upside of Toddler Tantrums
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A parent is uncomfortable with her toddler's tantrums because her child seems so unreachable at these times. The parent's instinct is to reach out, soothe and reassure her child, but she realizes there is no way to get through to her when she's in the midst of it. She's hoping Janet has advice for how she might connect with respect and compassion. Janet's 'No Bad Kids Master Course' is availabl...
Nurturing a Deeper Connection to Nature and Heritage with Ashley Causey Golden
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Educator Ashley Causey-Golden was drawn to Montessori principles but felt something missing that she longed to provide: cultural relevancy. She wondered, "What would it look like to create a Montessori space that uplifted, affirmed, celebrated Black children?" Fulfilling this desire has been a journey of discovery and grace (with a lot of mistakes along the way). Ashley's ultimate success gave ...
Best Ways to Encourage Independent Play
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Janet addresses a parent’s concerns about her daughter’s unwillingness to play independently. She seems to need constant stimulation and entertainment. For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books in paperback at Amazon, and in audio at Audible (adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her audio series "Sessions." This is a collection of record...
Navigating Get Togethers with Relatives, Friends, and Their Kids
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We may not always agree with the parenting styles of our relatives and friends, and that's okay. Get-togethers can still be enjoyable, positive social experiences for us and for our kids. In this episode, Janet offers her perspective on some of the common challenges that arise in gatherings with friends, family, and in public situations with other kids and parents. Her suggestions include: - Ho...
It's Hard to Feel Compassion for Unreasonable Emotions
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A concerned parent writes that her 3-year-old seems to be in a constant state of frustration or anxiety, and she makes outlandish demands and cries when she doesn’t get her way. While this mom tries to be compassionate, it’s getting more and more difficult, and she worries that her own postpartum anxiety may have modeled the behavior. She’s looking for healthy ways to help them both cope. For m...
Raising Creative, Critical Thinkers in a Commercialized World with Susan Linn
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Janet's guest is psychologist, writer, researcher, and Harvard lecturer Susan Linn. For decades, Susan has been a passionate advocate for our children and a steadfast fighter against the infiltration of Big Business and Big Tech into kids' lives (and parents' pocketbooks). In an eye-opening discussion, Susan describes how digital culture is designed to indoctrinate children into consumerism and...
End of the Day Crazies with Kids
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Many of us imagine late afternoons or evenings with our children as the perfect time to wind down and connect after a busy day. Unfortunately, this is often precisely when our children need to unload the day’s stresses. Which means that instead of enjoying restorative quality time together, we're faced with challenging behavior, high emotions, and discontent. Janet unpacks some of the reasons w...
Boundaries We Need and Deserve with Nedra Tawwab
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Janet is joined by Nedra Tawwab: therapist, relationship expert, and author of the NY Times best-seller “Set Boundaries, Find Peace.” Nedra and Janet discuss how our personal boundaries with friends, family, co-workers, and children are crucial for building positive, healthy relationships. Nedra emphasizes how boundaries begin with being kinder to ourselves. "We are in relationships from the ti...
When We're Too Late to Stop the Behavior (Now What?)
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A parent with a family in transition writes about a series of mischievous and sometimes destructive incidents perpetrated by her toddler. She’s wondering how to address these situations, especially after the fact when the deed is already done. For more advice on common parenting issues, please check out Janet's best-selling books on Audible, FREE with a 30-day trial membership if you use this l...
The Beauty of Sleep with Eileen Henry
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Sleep is an essential element of our happiness and well-being. If our child is not sleeping, then chances are good that we aren’t either. Many families are content with the sleep situations in their households, and more power to them. Others seek advice and solutions because they struggle night after night. Still others fear that making any kind of change in their approach could threaten their ...
How Sportscasting Helps Kids Develop Social Intelligence
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Janet responds to a mother who writes that she tries to sportscast disagreements between her older two children, but since the 2-year-old isn’t verbal yet, “it’s hard when I don’t really know what he’s thinking.” She’s wondering how to sportscast situations effectively without making assumptions about what her boy may be thinking or feeling in that moment. For more advice on common parenting is...
Stressed by a Child's Demands for Attention
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A frustrated parent who describes herself as “desperate for help” seeks advice about her persistent, high-energy 2.5-year-old, who dominates her and her husband's time and energy with relentless demands to be the focus of their universe all day, every day. For more advice on common parenting issues, please check out Janet's best-selling books on Audible, FREE with a 30-day trial membership if y...
Teaching Our Kids Patience
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Our children's impatience and low tolerance for frustration can… well, test our patience! In this week's episode, Janet responds to a question from a listener about how to teach a toddler to be more patient. Janet considers what patience really means to a child, how it develops, and how our expectations as parents and caregivers may get in the way. Her recommendations (as is often the case) may...
Independent Play, Meltdowns, Boundaries -- Success Stories from My Inbox
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Independent Play, Meltdowns, Boundaries Success Stories from My Inbox
How to Avoid a Stand Off When Kids "Disobey"
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How to Avoid a Stand Off When Kids "Disobey"
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Thank you for this ♥️ one thing to add though- I spent 45+ min holding space for my toddler who was absolutely melting down. Then I realized it was past snack time. I gave him a few bites of banana and he started to calm down. Then gave him some protein. I want to avoid fixing his feelings with food, but I think he had genuinely gotten hungry? 🙃 would love any thoughts about that response
Toddlers don’t know they’re hungry or tired, those are definitely things we have to try to watch out for. It isn’t “soothing” his meltdown with food, he was probably just hungry 😊 you did the right thing. Even I get snappy when I’m really hungry or tired 😂
So grateful a friend recommended you to me. ❤
I regret a lot the moments of extrema fatigue i had during the pregnancy for my toddler in the mornings to hand her the family videos to look at . I did as much as i couls to prepare the environment in a Montessori mainly or waldorf way but that was extremely difficult sharing the engorged with my ADHD horder mum and having no energy for the day. I am gratefull it was together we watched documentaries and and classic bLlamory or other shows i grew up with come outside is great asan option learning a lot so slow paced i liked that the most but still am so happy that as soon as i gave birth it was back to normal. I also noticed i am addicted to the phone again now since i joined facebook groups and WhatsApp groups for home education parents. I literally don't think about it that one they're sleeping i waste half an hour on my phone until i get onto self care.
Thank you SO MUCH for sharing these perspectives. This is the vocabulary I am looking for to help with advocating for this kind of approach to parenting and how we treat ourselves as children, and to reflect on how we are influencing the behavior of our children through what we are living in ourselves toward them and what they are experiencing that influences the way we react to them in our words, mannerisms, tonality, etc. This is what the world needs so badly. This is literally life-changing world-changing stuff. I can't believe this doesn't have more views yet but I guess it's a sign of where we're at and just how much this is needed. 💗
Hey!, keep up the work. From what you said, I think you might be interested in this channel 👉 #drjohnaking. I find him encouraging and insightful.