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Hi Daniela... thanks for your comment and your concern. Don't worry I've been a UA-camr before... I have and have had successful channels before. I think it's interesting to catch the very early stages of this journey, hence why I'm talking now. But you'll notice I have had some very quiet patches while I'm doing what I need to do for myself. I've fallen into the trap before of changing my behaviour to please my audience, but that is unlikely to happen now.

@@GeorgiaTalksTrans thats great, im glad, i was genuinely a bit worried. At the end of the day, its your life youre leading, and i have no issues, have a nice day Georgia!

I'm pleased you spotted the pattern and let go of those 'friends' who weren't authentically supportive! And OMG... top surgery date? That's GREAT news! And the rest... I love all your links... I hope anyone who needs them finds them! Hopefully one day trans healthcare will be better, but maybe it needs to get worse before it gets better. (Or doesn't _need_ to, but _will_). Great to hear from you... stay awesome!

@@GeorgiaTalksTrans Yeah... most likely. You too!! 🏳‍⚧🏳‍🌈

I am so pleased to have helped! I wish you all the best with your coming out... good luck! ❤

Hi Neo... thanks for your comment. I had some _really_ supportive friends around me so it was easy (relatively) to come out to them. I wasn't sure if I would ever come out to my dad, but I was going to visit with my ex wife (we're good friends) and I didn't want _her_ to have to watch what she said... so it was definitely a 'rip the band aid off'... I sent him a long email explaining it all... (actually that might make a good video!)... I wasn't going to come out to my brother, but I figured if he ever sees me in the future or ever talks to my dad (very likely!!) then he'll find out anyway. So yeah... my dad's reply was the best I could hope for... he also said he might need educating on what it all means, so that was lovely... he has an open mind. I don't think there's a right time or a good way to do it! You just gotta hold your breath and dive in! But yeah... I'll record a video today about the email and hopefully post it tomorrow... thanks for the question/suggestion!

@@GeorgiaTalksTrans thank you so much for your response, I really appreciate it☺️👍

@@Neo1902- Video is up! ua-cam.com/video/9ksYMi96c4g/v-deo.html

I'd never heard of the John, 50 Phenomenon... But when I did a search I found this article: www.avitale.com/essays-details/?name=the-gender-variant-phenomenon--a-developmental-review-5 Wow... do I fit into group 3... classic cloistered trans woman. Thank you for your comment and good wishes! ❤️😊

​@@GeorgiaTalksTrans Very interesting article, thank you. All the best 😊

Thanks!

YEAH! There's actually a whole soap opera filmed in Ikea, but that's definitely tongue-in-cheek... ua-cam.com/video/DscIhisUgn0/v-deo.html

@@GeorgiaTalksTrans hahaha

Thanks! I agree... it's like when someone says "Am I an awful person?" and you know that the fact they're questioning means they're _not_ an awful person... assholes don't question whether they're an awful person! One thing that led me to my acceptance was: cis people do _not_ spend this long worrying about whether they're trans or not! 😊

Thanks for you comment... it good to hear my experience isn't unique and resonates with others!

I think I'm banking on ten years for transition. If it's quicker, that will be good, but realistically? Five to ten easily. I like the visual of the "gradual oooze"... I was thinking of presenting male until I can't get away with it any more (gonna get me them tiddies!), then switching at that point. I'll be working behind the scenes on all the important stuff - voice, mannerisms, make-up, hair etc.

@@GeorgiaTalksTrans Oh if only we could swap!!! Yeah Im the same.... Like I said, I dont pass very well despite wearing all the socially acceptable garb. Im almost 6ft tall, slim and unfortunately tiddies too big. I cant wait to get these things hacked off. I even wanted them off before I knew I was trans lol. Im in Australia, but I was born in Liverpool. UK. So until the tiddies come off, I just accept all the misgendering. I work at a school, and get constantly misgendered everyday. Its a tad exhausting.

@@CoMorbiditty Oh, if swaps were available... I haven't got to the exhausting stage yet since I'm not attempting to present femme... but I have literally done double-takes when people say "Thanks, Sir" or "Here you go, fella!" (as I had yesterday)... absolutely not their fault of course! I guess time cures all of this. Time and hormones. And surgery. Don't we live in an _amazing_ time where these gender-affirming procedures are available? Our anscestors must have just had to put up with being depressed and dysphoric their whole lives. That sucks :(

@@GeorgiaTalksTrans It must have been confusing as well. They didnt have the plethora of information available to them that we do today. The feelings have a name. I think that's so great for all of us. But the phobes think its "influencing" younger people to become trans. I wonder if they even know of us older trans people 😆

@@CoMorbiditty ​I think the phobes _are_ aware of us... we're the ones, apparently, who need to be kept away from their kids (I've literally had this written to me in a comment)... we're the ones, apparently, who are "turning their kids trans". But you know what? I'm not going to let hate stop me. _I_ know the truth... _I_ know why I'm doing it... and a lot of other people out there (trans and otherwise) know why I'm doing it. We have to remember there are allies, even if they're not as noisy as the phobes.

Hi! Welcome to the channel, and thanks for connecting! I've been through three therapists so far, and the one I have now is such a godsend... just so _accepting_... and even if she doesn't specialise in trans issues she is inquisitive and supportive. I feel blessed! I hear you on parents... my dad is taking time to come around, I cut off my mum a couple of years ago (can't remember if I mentioned this in my video!)... I've just subscribed to Finn the Infincible, I'll check out his videos, thanks for the recommendation! Well... stick around and keep commenting, it's great to have you on board!

Thank-you for your kind words! My identity is "it's complicated" right now just because it's all so fresh... but heading for binary woman... my egg cracked just over three weeks ago... check out my first video for a bit of history if you're interested... ua-cam.com/video/8c4154Ymjjw/v-deo.html

@@GeorgiaTalksTrans ok, I totally understand the "it's complicated" thing. My egg cracked just ove 4 months ago, I understand now that I am non binary but it took like 2 months before I figured that out

@@michael-cw7nx I'm glad you've found your place to settle on! I'm 99.9% certain I'm binary woman, but since my subconscious has not yet had time to catch up and I'm still presenting 100% male, it doesn't feel right just yet. You've given me a good video topic actually... so thanks for that!

@@GeorgiaTalksTrans what's a binary woman?

@@michael-cw7nx As in the woman side of the man/woman binary. I don't really fall into non-binary/genderfluid/genderqueer... more like I'm hopping over completely to the 'other side'. Hope that makes sense?

Hi - and welcome along for the ride! Many thanks for your comment and kind words. It's nice to hear from someone in a similar position... please do throw any video ideas or questions my way! I just contacted a private clinic tonight to hopefully start shared-care HRT... so I guess there will be another video in the next day or so! Best wishes to you and good luck also... we can do this! 🙏❤

Hey Jonathan... that's amazing news... glad you've found yourself motivated to take the next steps! I'm pretty sure the 'shared care' path will get me to hormones pretty quickly... but that's a task for next week or the week after... still taking it slowly while my emotions and subconscious catch up with the reality of my life. Of course, DIY could get me hormones this week, but I'm not willing to risk that - safety first... tiddies second 😊

Hi! Welcome to the channel... and thank-you for your kind words!

Hi... thanks! Momentum is so important isn't it? I'm doing at least one little baby step every day, even if that's "wear nail polish in public" or buying a feminine fragrance. I think HRT is _relatively_ easy to get here in the UK if I go for private healthcare... my job tomorrow is to get on the waitlist for the national health service gender path (need a referral from a doctor)... then I think a private HRT prescription may follow soon. I understood that E will thin/reduce body hair but I heard it doesn't do a lot for facial hair... so going for it anyway... darn that testosterone, right?! Good luck with your therapy and transition goals... do keep in touch (I'm sure you will!) Thank-you for the ongoing support, it means a lot to me!

That's a good point... if you can't differentiate yourself from trans people, then you are one of us haha!

"still cis, though"... have you been hanging around in egg_irl? 🤣 I experienced the euphoria for the first time in the last few days, I'll definitely do a video about that... I didn't really understand dysphoria until I felt the opposite! I'm really pleased you've had the euphoric experience that gives you that indication that you're going in the right direction...

Hi! It's so lovely to have you on board, and many thanks for your comment... best of luck to you too... if you have any topics you'd be interested in, do let me know (at any time!)