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When i was young my dad minimized. Just about any problem i may of been going through you know some one else always has it worse I think maybe that's were i first began to be empathetic to feel others pain because of what he said last 5years i guit listening to thst tape in head minimizing my emotions im just as important an good as any one else ill tell you one thing most of tgese tarto readersdont have a inch of empathy or sympathy. The things

I listened to this two times i really don't remember the last time ive ever been shown either always the strongest one for everyone else except when patronized an pet me like a fucken dog asking if ok. To know better to say im ok ot fine cause if not they Walk away sh and don't give a shit no victim truth. Only

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Bro thinks the world is all happiness rainbows

sympathy = you acknowledge the pain and you might offer help empathy = you feel the pain and you're likely to offer help apathy = didn't ask + don't care sociopath = you acknowledge the pain and you're happy that they're suffering

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Found this very enlightening, thank you!! 😊

I’m confused, lol. Are you saying ignore the thing that’s bugging you or tackle it because your mind has prioritized it for you by making it bug you until you deal with it?

How do you keep them happy? Pay attention to their work needs, their personal life needs, or both? Other?

What you really need is to empower victims and do t stand in the way of their justice

Empathy leads to correct action regarding others ... whereas sympathy often does NO such thing.

Disgusting neoliberal victim blaming. For anyone interested in how the exclusionary function of empathy as a filter of human social understanding is damaging the ways we research and relate to those who are neurodiverse, I strongly recommend reading the philosopher Erin Manning's essay titled Not at a Distance, on Touch, Synaesthesia, and other ways of knowing

Good, great.

these animation videos are wayyy underrated

Love the video, can’t wait for more I’ll definitely be more self aware in my conversations 👍🏽

Thank you for the video. I really appreciate the effort ❤

I understand empathy as being able to imagine oneself in another person's shoes, sympathy is looking at another person in those shoes and thinking "oh that must be terrible, poor you." I think a good example is probably gender. I think people, generally, empathize best with their own gender, but less so with the opposite gender. It's a problem in gender politics (when discussing issues like feminism or men's rights), heterosexual dating, etc. I can honestly admit, as a woman, I have a hard time empathising with men on many issues, whereas other men can. Men often can't empathise with women, I'd argue they're even less able to do it than vice versa.

Basically entire course of psychologists and how therapists work in a nutshell.

Agreed

I agree. Thank you for the help.

Fantastic explanation😊

Great video. Succinct and spot on.

Looking forward to what you share this year. Hoping to see a return of Sticky & Chip 👍

what’s wrong with acknowledging that you’re a victim. every self improvement video I’ve watched condemns this “ victim mindset”. I genuinely think it’s healthy to admit you have been a victim of something & then move through healing instead of trying to run from the word or feeling.

This is really quite simple... Empathy= feeling someones feelings, whether you have experienced yourself is irrelevant, whether you do something to help is irrelevant. The point is simply that you have the ability to FEEL someone else's feeling (positive and negative feelings) Sympathy= feeling sorrow because someone is hurting, or in a difficult/painful situation. Regardless whether you help them or not or have been in a similar situation or not, you feel your own sadness for their pain. E.g I feel in my heart a pain (empathy) for my neighbour who has been evicted and is struggling to find a home, but i don't feel sorry (sympathy) for her as she probably shouldn't have broken all the windows and spray painted on the walls.

Similar approach to non-violent communication - empathic guessing to get to the real feeling, then to the underlying need (which is either unmet or met, depending on whether the feeling is negative or positive, respectively).

I'm spellbound by this. I read a book with similar content, and I was absolutely spellbound. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

Both are physically impossible.

Empathy is how you make someone feel better in the moment sympathy is how you fix a problem always choose sympathy

Forgot the third response option that's very common in the individualistic West: don'tgiveafuckery. 😎

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They are both flawed concepts

Paul, you act as if the entire system isn't totally corrupt, and that all the team players want the same thing! Example - Both Donald Trump and Joe Biden, and damn near every one of the 535, bought and paid for members of congress, have succeeded in making me ashamed to be called an American because of what they do in my name, and that was a hard task for them to accomplish, but they did it! I am over 70 years old now, a veteran of the Vietnam era, and the son of a 30 year career command officer of the US military. What an international joke our country has become. No moral compass, only GREED, EMPIRE and HEGEMONY! Today, the ONLY things exceptional about Americans are our sky-high levels of Ignorance and apathy! You certainly can't blame young people for protesting and being disillusioned with Biden and most Democrats when they join with Republicans in supporting the apartheid state of Israel, Netanyahu, and the IDF in their genocide and occupation of Palestine. Biden had an opportunity after October 7th to approach the situation with calm and diplomacy, but he chose to unquestioningly support Israel in whatever atrocities they chose to inflict on the civilians in Gaza! Whatever Biden does from this point forward will be too little, too late! I voted for Jill Stein and the Green Party three times now and I will continue to vote for her until a candidate is seriously advanced by the duopoly that is NOT a fascist or committed to the "Status Quo"! Republicans are insane and the Democrats are crazy. Neither Obama, nor Bush, nor Hillary, nor Trump, nor Biden have been willing to go against their oligarch corporate paymasters to do what is right for the people, and they wont until people wake up and force them to. The only tools you have are your voice and your vote and as long as they can count on you to sacrifice your actual values every 4 years to vote for what they convince you is a lesser evil, you will never get what you really want, only more of the duopoly status quo. If Biden really cared about the people he would drop out of the race. Is he marginally better than Trump? Sure, but he is not suitable nor morally qualified to lead this country! The western media has behaved absolutely shamefully during this latest conflict and for over the last 60 years in shilling for the apartheid state of Israel! I'm thinking Republicans are converging around the "5G Plan" of Gods, Guns, Gender, Grift and Genocide! If you watched the Republican debate Wednesday Night, 11/8/2023, among all these right-to-life, "Pro-Life Conservatives", there was not a single voice raised in opposition to Israel's genocide in Gaza! Every single candidate gave full-throated support to Israel and their plan for extermination and removal of all Palestinians, including Trump, who cowardly chose not to appear on stage with the others! With the unanimous election of their new Speaker of the House, Mike Johnson, they demonstrated their Christo-Fascist disdain for the founding principle of separation of church and state and their wish for Christian Sharia Law to be the law of the land in America! The apartheid state of Israel, that created Hamas, should be subjected to international boycotts, divestitures and sanctions and all US financial and military aid to Israel must be stopped now! Israel has turned the open-air prison of Gaza into a DEATH CAMP where showers of bombs have replaced the gas showers of the holocaust! The money the US gives to Israel comes back to America through AIPAC, ADL and a host of other groups to destroy our democracy! AIPAC must be ended NOW! Biden and our entire AIPAC-controlled government has the blood of thousands of children on their hands! In the Democrat Party only Rashida Tlaib, shamefully censured by congress, and the other members of the AOC Squad and the Justice Democrats are voicing support for the Palestinians! It is NOT our fault that a fascist like Trump enjoys such huge support from the MAGA Morons, it is the fault of the corporate media that fails to tell people the truth and point out Trump's idiocy to his cult base! But, just how much evil are we willing to let Biden do before we make him pay a price for it? Your vote for Biden, after you know his positions, are a stamp of your approval for what he does in our name! As the abolitionist Frederick Douglas said, power concedes nothing without a demand, it never did and it never will. Find out just how much oppression any group of people will submit to and you have the exact measure of injustice and wrong that will be imposed on them. This is as true today as it was then! We can not continue to reward bad behavior from our elected officials. While I will condemn and NOT condone the attack on October 7th, I can also rationalize that it was provoked by more than 50 years of illegal occupation and genocide by the apartheid state of Israel. When you make peaceful change impossible, you make violent uprising inevitable! The only solution to this situation is for the apartheid state of Israel to ceasefire and stop the genocide, end the illegal occupation, abandon the illegal settlements, retreat to, at the very least, the pre-1967 borders and allow the occupied territories complete freedom from Israeli interference! CEASEFIRE AND FREE PALESTINE NOW!!

Thanks Paul. Like this. Leadership is a role of the team.

2:30 only empathy has the power to get someone up and running again

I use this audio with customer service representatives that work for businesses that annoy me.

keep uploading please. these are amazing. i randomly found you and you are an awesome individual. you give me hope

Your videos are gems. I am glad to discover your channel. Please add more more videos soon

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It really is. I’m always angry with automatic I’m sorry. If a person just says I’m sorry without even understanding the nature of what happened and my values that he violated - that makes me even more annoyed and completely frustrated. Your animation tips are very valuable! It’s a huge job for you. Style of explanation brilliant !!!Thank you!

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As a scholar and researcher, I am very good at pressure situation that are NOT interactional, when I am in my office alone or with a colleague and we have to run analysis, come up with solutions, etc, but in the classical meeting with stakeholders and non-tech people, thinking on my feet and the ability to be a situation-shaper..... not as good, I want to get good at it, great at it. The good thing about having a PhD is that I know I just need to put my mind to it and get good at it. Thanks Dr. Furey for another good video.

Dr Furey, this is hell of a good video. I like how you can use discursive strategy that talks to your audience while talking to your own highway of thoughts and feelings at the same time. Its pretty clever, and seemingly evidence-based.

I'm autistic so empathy really doesn't always come easy,and I can often get led into all kinds of trouble by following my heart/sympathy! Kinda why I'm here lol

Complete nonsense. Look up the definition of sympathy: it’s when two people have the exact same feeling caused by a shared experience. If a child dies, their parents grieve deeply, and they sympathize with each other because they both experienced the same loss. People outside their family may empathize with their loss but they can’t feel the same emotions as them. Why is the same false narrative repeated in so many places?

"Human beings are members of a whole; In creation of one essence and soul; If one member is afflicted with pain; Other members uneasy will remain; If you have no sympathy for human pain; The name of human you cannot retain." Saadi Shirazi

Wow

Great video man i hope this was in Spanish but hey we will make due

Very much not done but should be.

Thank you for this realistic explanation.