anxiouslyalej
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The man worth your time...
The man worth your time...
is the man with a plan.
If you find yourself attracted to people who are unsure about you, it’s likely tied to some old childhood dynamics. Let me explain:
When someone’s half in, half out, it can trigger those early patterns of craving approval, thinking maybe this time they’ll choose you. But here’s the truth: a man with no direction, no intention, isn’t the one you need. The real catch? He’s clear, he’s confident, and he’s not afraid to make a plan (and a reservation!). 🕰️
Life’s too short for guessing games-let him be the captain, and let the rest… respectfully walk the plank. 🫡
#healingjourney #nocontactrule #walkaway #feminineenergy #womensdatingadvice
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Відео

Bondi to Manly 80KM Ultra: The Journey, Struggles & Lessons Learned
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Hi Everyone! In this video I talk about my journey to completing my first Ultramarathon (Bondi to Manly). This race meant so much to me and I appreciate all of you who reached out with supportive words on race day. Let me know what else you'd like to see from me and I'll see you in the next video! Ultra Playlist: ua-cam.com/play/PLkxFA-IwpDSPHFO-KQAOWwg-N2zRkup6Y.html&si=wKrhUO5HSaEquG-R
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Maintain Your Independence
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An overly emotional woman is easily manipulated. #healingjourney #nocontactrule #feminineenergy
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An overly emotional woman is easily manipulated. #healingjourney #nocontactrule #feminineenergy
Things I wish I knew about dating at 18 instead of 25. #healingjourney #nocontactrule
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Things I wish I knew about dating at 18 instead of 25. #healingjourney #nocontactrule
Things I wish I knew about dating at 18 instead of 25.#healingjourney #nocontactrule
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Things I wish I knew about dating at 18 instead of 25.#healingjourney #nocontactrule
Things I wish I knew about dating at 18 instead of 25 #healingjourney #womensdatingadvice
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You are their partner, not their mother. #healingjourney
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How to Handle Disrespectful Comments from Your Partner (SAVE FOR LATER) 1️⃣ Let your actions speak for you - If you’ve already communicated your feelings and nothing changes, stop explaining. Let your actions do the talking. Don’t reward disrespect with attention. Instead, create distance. Show them that their words won’t earn them your time or energy. Distance speaks volumes, and sometimes pul...
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When a guy likes you #feminineenergy
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КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @Omkar-Naik
    @Omkar-Naik День тому

    I disagree. Sometimes, you do need to understand why someone does something...

  • @Hellod8353
    @Hellod8353 2 дні тому

    I really admire you and look up to you. I have been following your content for the past 3-4 months and it has changed my perspective my mindset and my Life for the better. Thankyou so much 🫶 I hope there will be more UA-cam long form videos i love your work 💕

    • @anxiouslyalej
      @anxiouslyalej 2 дні тому

      Wow, thank you for being on this journey with me ❤️🫂

  • @PinkStrawberries11
    @PinkStrawberries11 2 дні тому

    Giiiirl yes!!! This right here. Though very hard to find 😂

  • @Hiichiru00
    @Hiichiru00 2 дні тому

    That's it? Just dinner plans? Nothing else?

  • @divyanshitiwari4906
    @divyanshitiwari4906 8 днів тому

    Thankyou ❤

  • @insignificant_me
    @insignificant_me 18 днів тому

    Hey there hello, I understand what your channel is about ! So, do you like to travel, would you like to visit India. I cordially invite you to come here. India has something to offer to everyone. Take care.

  • @pamfan221
    @pamfan221 21 день тому

    Nailed it with the "Never convince a man to commit to you." Ladies, save yourself the impending heartache and exit that relationship with quickness. There's a man out there who will feel lucky beyond words to have met you.

  • @heynewmama5279
    @heynewmama5279 22 дні тому

    Hard on the fake an orgasm. These are all solid! Way to go

  • @ohtych1004
    @ohtych1004 22 дні тому

    Bro really used a TV show romance as evidence

  • @Sound7heWarCry
    @Sound7heWarCry 23 дні тому

    You’re my favorite discovery 💖🌱

  • @dalimillazan2877
    @dalimillazan2877 23 дні тому

    disliked cause terrible advices, except the nerd guy

    • @sams517
      @sams517 22 дні тому

      And the one about the 30 year old talking to a 18/19/20 year old

    • @momo-san4065
      @momo-san4065 21 день тому

      ​@@sams517and about the orgasm

  • @divyanshitiwari4906
    @divyanshitiwari4906 23 дні тому

    I really needed it, Thanku ❤

  • @austinyuma5647
    @austinyuma5647 23 дні тому

    Not sure men like to chase women. Maybe in the past it was prevalent but not anymore.

  • @carloslemos6919
    @carloslemos6919 24 дні тому

    Looks like anxiouslyalej will remain anxious for a long time ...

  • @Marcus-rg7bg
    @Marcus-rg7bg 27 днів тому

    Your both.

  • @pizzagirl3225
    @pizzagirl3225 Місяць тому

    This is so true

  • @brunette.girlyyy
    @brunette.girlyyy Місяць тому

    PREACH

  • @pizzagirl3225
    @pizzagirl3225 Місяць тому

    👏👏👏

  • @noface3928
    @noface3928 Місяць тому

    Thank god I learned this lesson in my early 20s and found a partner who is completely devoted to me.

  • @ace4g64T
    @ace4g64T Місяць тому

    I couldn’t stop watching how enticing you are ❤

  • @DaliaDippolito.
    @DaliaDippolito. Місяць тому

    any guy that let's me hit the first night, i dont take them seriously at all

  • @Dottywalkers9
    @Dottywalkers9 Місяць тому

    This is the hardest lesson that I hope young girls hear so they don’t have to experience what I experienced. So much wasted time So much emotional turmoil So much self harm. There is somebody who wants you, but it’s not this person.

  • @handanarslan8496
    @handanarslan8496 Місяць тому

    Its not nice you called me doormat tho

  • @rosygal7258
    @rosygal7258 Місяць тому

    This...feels oddly specific to my current situation

  • @PhoenixsArt
    @PhoenixsArt Місяць тому

    This is just stupid. This is not how life works, it is not all black and white teen romance crap.

  • @JordanJ.26
    @JordanJ.26 Місяць тому

    All facts

  • @any8574
    @any8574 Місяць тому

    Thank you

  • @alisiademi
    @alisiademi Місяць тому

    The egg industry grinds up baby male chicks alive Sorry I know that's a terrible thing to hear but I'm an animal rights activist just speaking up. Peace ☮️

  • @lisas2538
    @lisas2538 Місяць тому

    This is very good advice.

  • @USSResolute
    @USSResolute Місяць тому

    Life is a fight for territory? You have no zarking idea what love is or what the purpose of relationships is. Good luck.

    • @ayushsinghchauhan9558
      @ayushsinghchauhan9558 Місяць тому

      she is the reason why most couples are not happy today, this mentality needs to change

  • @dungeondeezdragons4242
    @dungeondeezdragons4242 Місяць тому

    "how to independent, alone and miserable 1.0.1"

  • @JordanJ.26
    @JordanJ.26 Місяць тому

    Leave the relationship because it's disrespectful, he has no back bone

    • @JordanJ.26
      @JordanJ.26 Місяць тому

      Or just because he doesn't care for her feelings, I say leave

  • @apricotcookie4850
    @apricotcookie4850 Місяць тому

    Thank you for these wise words.

  • @bertmunoz7100
    @bertmunoz7100 Місяць тому

    Wouldn't by telling your self your own "truth" over and over again, stunt your mental growth? Eventually realizing you were just brainwashing yourself?

  • @josephloughrey3434
    @josephloughrey3434 Місяць тому

    Always nice to hear from the people who have no clue about most peoples financial situation. The lady who is just divorced will be looking for a 2nd job not hobbies or friends.

  • @uwu001
    @uwu001 Місяць тому

    This is such an amazing yet underrated channel. Love your content so much!!

    • @anxiouslyalej
      @anxiouslyalej Місяць тому

      I have 250k across Instagram and TikTok, now I'm expanding to other platforms!

  • @loveyouwithpassion
    @loveyouwithpassion 2 місяці тому

    Workbook

  • @JordanJ.26
    @JordanJ.26 2 місяці тому

    I couldn't agree more

  • @brianagarcia1588
    @brianagarcia1588 2 місяці тому

    Workbook

  • @JordanJ.26
    @JordanJ.26 2 місяці тому

    I totally agree ❤

  • @requiemforjustin
    @requiemforjustin 2 місяці тому

    Can’t, or won’t? This.

  • @alanasmith6065
    @alanasmith6065 2 місяці тому

    I dissagree. For years her partner watched her being disrespected and didnt care. The only moment he cared was when she basically gave signs she may be considering not putting up with his family or him. Good people respect us because they have kindness in their hearts not because we punish them to do so. I would have broken up with him.

  • @hands-ongaming7180
    @hands-ongaming7180 2 місяці тому

    Real

  • @loveyouwithpassion
    @loveyouwithpassion 2 місяці тому

    regulate

  • @loveyouwithpassion
    @loveyouwithpassion 2 місяці тому

    Great sharing with honesty and integrity and FRANKNESS... appreciate it !

  • @loveyouwithpassion
    @loveyouwithpassion 2 місяці тому

    She speaks MORE than words causing one to listen MORE than once! Thank you lovely young woman!

  • @loveyouwithpassion
    @loveyouwithpassion 2 місяці тому

    Great encouraging enlightenment with each video!

  • @loveyouwithpassion
    @loveyouwithpassion 2 місяці тому

    Amazing insights for women. ! You are a jewel to be treasured. I am an older woman and thoroughly find your advice so encouraging and truthful !

  • @mossblox11111
    @mossblox11111 2 місяці тому

    As a sensitive person I hate being yelled at, so my first response to do when I can’t get a word in is cry because I can’t hold it in anymore Not everyone is the same.

  • @pebbleinyoshoe532
    @pebbleinyoshoe532 3 місяці тому

    Nah