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Had to put down my 14 year old beagle yesterday. The pain is as intense as when my daughter died. You explain it well. We know we will out live them but we never really want that day to come. My house is so empty now.😢

A shrine doesn't help either. A shrine is all good when it's for someone/or a pet who was old. When a young human or pet died, a shrine doesn't help. It makes it worse. Nobody wants to SEE a shrine for a young, healthy being who died suddenly. I think I'll end up in an asylum.

Thank you so much for this video. Lost my beloved James two days ago.

I lost my beloved cats 6 weeks apart. Hirka died on July 31, Luna this Sunday. They were sisters. It's too much to bear. I don't know how to live without them...

Thank you. Your explanation helped.

Thank you! This resonated very deeply with me.

Absolutely heartbreaking to loose a pet.. still breaks me It gets a little better in time but very hard God bless Becky 🇬🇧 🇬🇧 xxxxxxxxx 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

Thank you for your comforting words right now ❤ . As you know it’s been 13 months for me since losing my beloved Violet and we were together for 15 years since she was 10 weeks old. She had heart failure the last 2 years of her life so I was anxious during that period not knowing when I would have to say goodbye. Then the day she suddenly died and the traumatic experience I had with her at the ER was beyond painful. Having to watch her take her last breath in my arms was extremely difficult. 😪💔 And some people after 13 months just want me to “move on and get over it” is very sad and heartbreaking. Telling me to move on isn’t helpful. 💔

Wow…you’re so right about that. I’m still mourning the loss of my fur baby and my mother’s birthday is this month too and probably why things still feel so raw to me. It’s been 13 months yesterday and someone told me today that “I should just get over it and be done with it.” Meaning I should be over my dog which is shocking because he’s lost a dog so he understands, or at least I thought he did. 😢

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My goodness you are good !❤ touching…

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This video is particularly helpful and timely. I’ve been grieving the 16th anniversary of my Father’s death this weekend and the pain has been especially acute. My grief from losing my beloved ChattyBob earlier this year has been more palpable as well. Thank you for explaining that my grief is normal and providing me with comfort and insight through this video. You are truly a blessing and I’m sending you love, peace and light for Fancy, your Mom and you. 💐🫂🩷

Thank you much gratitude for your so true words Divine timing 🩷🌻🙏🏻

Happy Heavenly Birthday, to your momma! 😇

Sorry for your losses, Stephanie 💔 Virtual hugs 🫂 🧡💙🧡 BK, & Piper's momma 😿 I miss my fur-babies 💕 My daughter, Holly & my mommy, whos been gone since I was 8 y.o.😢(domestic violence 😭) I can't wait til I'm reunited with my family ❤

Thank you for your words! This describes what I have been going through for eight months, following the loss of my Dear cat, Pepper. I was flooded with the pain of the loss of my Daughter and Life Partner, all at once. It has been overwhelming.😢❤

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So sorry for your loss, I lost a loved pet today😢

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It hurts too much to see pictures of my Ladybug and all of my family. I've lost my whole family, including my spouse, and have never been able to do it.

Grief f%*:ing hurts.... it has been 3.5yrs since I lot my 'Red' I had her cremated and she will go in my box when I journey into the unknown and at the age of 53 it maybe a long wait but I do know she will wait for me. I look forward to that day strangly. I still quietly weep for her every now and then and glad I did not erase any footage of her now but took 2yrs before I could look without trembling. Grief never goes away but I found I can tolerate it better now and think that is the best I can hope for simply tolerate and I am at peace with that. Your journey is long but you will endure and if we are lucky we will be reunited as it always has been. Big hugs. ❤

Yet again you’ve shared some incredibly useful information and I’m so thankful! Being able to help comfort and affirm loved ones in their grief is so important, but it’s sometimes difficult to know what to say. I’ve learned a lot from this video and I’ll definitely incorporate what I’ve learned. This will be helpful in so many situations, not just in comforting a grieving family member, friend, or acquaintance. Thanks again! How are you doing? I’m continuing to hold you and Fancy in love, light, peace and prayer 🙏🏻🫂💐

Thinking of you & Fancy every day and hold you tight in my heart 💜 Hoping we can connect soon. This past year has been incredibly difficult and the pain of losing Violet is still very difficult for me and miss her so much. 😢 Sending hugs to you. 💝

The daily lifestyle of having my beloved young 3 year old cat I miss soo much. I know one day I will meet his spirit when I leave this physical world. A big part of me would rather be with him now on the other side. Animal grief is totally minimised by many heartless people.

Thank you ever so much for sharing your Fancy with us. I watched your videos, as I, too, was and am still healing from the loss of my Pepper ( 13 y.o. male cat) of 13 beautiful years on 12/5/23. I am doing what you suggest in having a sacred place for his cremains, and I do talk to him daily. His loss is more than I could have ever imagined. I am so grateful for having the most wonderful 13 year relationship with a most Precious being. What a Gift he is in my life. Thank you again, and prayers for your healing! ❤❤

This is beautiful and helpful! Sending love…as always.

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Wonderful to see you again Yes The love is there always feel the same. My Girl past in March Have big picture next to me 🩷 Gorgeous picture Sending Blessings 🙏🏻🩷

I agree...the love doesn't end ❤

Nice to see you!!❤ I have been thinking of you & Fancy.🙏🙏🙏 SUCKS IS THE WORD!!! With the “F” word in front of it….🙏🙏🥲🥲🥲❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏

Thank you for the update. You and Fancy have been on my mind and I’ll continue to pray for you. This video is particularly timely and helpful, because I’ve been missing my ChattyBob so very much lately. His physical embodiment was filled to the brim with love, joy, enthusiasm and weapons grade happiness and hearing you say that the love is still here is incredibly comforting to me. I’ve never used the past tense of love when referring to him and knowing that you also refer to love in the present tense is so validating. Thank you so very much for continuing to be immensely helpful even while you are grieving. You are a gift and a blessing 🩷

God bless you Stephanie and Fancy. I adopted your advice from way back - to talk to them, all the time, every day. And in doing it, my love has somewhere to go, and it is such a comfort. I pray you are doing as well as you can, and I wish you many comforting conversations with Fancy too.

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Lost my soul dog on 12-27-23. She got bloat and her stomach twisted. I had no option but to put her to sleep since she was 15 and 1/2 and would never made it through surgery. I will never get over the trauma of her passing, so I know how you feel. So very sorry for your loss. May our little ones rest in peace till we join them My baby was a little doxie and our souls were attached.

I continue to hold you in my heart and think about you every day and know how difficult it is to say goodbye to our beautiful fur babies. 😢 My heart still aches and it’s almost been a year. The adjustment to everyday life is so painful. 💔 One day at a time that’s all you can do. Love & hugs. Laura 🩷

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I am so sorry for this loneliness that you are feeling and this new normal that you did not ask for or want… It’s so hard when we lose our soul animals. They just curl up in our hearts. Be kind to yourself. Take whatever time you need for how ever long you need. Sending Hugs… I feel that loneliness you feel and I understand it very well.. Fancy is watching over you now….❤❤ She would not want you to suffer in anyway..❤❤❤❤❤

I feel so sad, I do know what you going through since I lost my mom at the age of 4, and in the past two years 4 fur babies, now My young son has been diagnosed with terminal Ca. I would love to talk with you because we are enduring so much sorrow. l love you, take care of yourself. Thank you for sharing this part of your life. 😪❣🙏🙏

Beautiful pictures.

Your poem really captured the loneliness, desolation and heartbreak of losing a beloved family member. I’m so sorry. 😢 I continue to hold you in my thoughts and continue to send prayers, love, peace and light to you 🫂🪷🐶💔

Thank you for sharing. They say that when we lose a loved one that they take a piece of our heart with them. I believe that they leave a piece of their heart where the piece of our heart was.

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Hello dear Stephanie - Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during your time of incredible grief. You helped me so much back in February (and on) of this year as I grieved the loss of my feline soul mate. I’m sending all of that love and light back to you right now and hope that you feel how much people love you. Please take care of yourself during these tender days. ❤❤❤