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For me is like i think like in the 1900s Like the world was gray because of the photos😭

NTA I would've gone a step further by uninstalling it from all the systems and going into the settings to delete everything related to fortnite

NTA.

My crush would be in a wheelchair

Well yeah you guys are assholes, they were just paying more attention to them because their baby was due soon at this stage the kid should be very active too so they might have been feeling the baby move as well, at 14 weeks you can't really feel much or have a noticeable bump. And they are the grandparents after all can't really expect them to multitask much, let them have the little moment and then afterwards you guys could have had time to talk about your child, but no you had a fit even when they tried to say they wanted to include you within the conversation afterwards. I think the only one who needs to understand that their child isn't the current center of attention is you

CHILDISH is looking at the child you CHOSE to have because adoption IS a CHOICE. Looking at them dead in the eye and saying YOUR sibling is family. Honey calling them Mr and Mrs was you genuinely being professional. Not childish and not the ahole

Hate shorts that dont finish story

i'd rather have some BS answer like, "yes, but....." than "its complicated"😂 am i family? i dunno, havent decided yet😂

I am in the same condition I passed my exams but I scored rlly less like 65% 47% 85%.. etc and I lied to my mother about my marks saying my lowest is 70% only and after a few days my report card will be there I am trembling in fear what should I do I feel so miserable this is the first time I have scored so less

Yta

Yta

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Agreed. Leave before you have children and are TRAPPED.

Break up with him. Nta. He didn’t care about you at all. The lack of empathy shown I’m sure reflects a lot of your relationship. Also side note. My bf was invited to a wedding. They didn’t have the money for more people but told him that people also drop out and would let him know asap if that happens so I can come. It happened. I came. The grooms family is close to my bf family and they were so happy to meet me. That’s a common thing with weddings. People drop out, seats need to be filled because food has already been bought.

My boyfriend is a groomsmen at a wedding this weekend. He told me I was invited so I was excited to finally meet his friends but for some reason I had this gut feeling I wasn’t. I’m not sure why - maybe his responses and reactions when I asked- but I asked him to double check to see if I was actually invited and he refused until 1 week prior to the wedding. Come to find out that I indeed was NOT invited but they were going to figure it out. At that point I was sincerely okay not going as I understand budgets for weddings and it was the WEEK prior!!! They figured out my spot and I was going to take someone’s spot who could no longer go. I was uncomfortable and embarrassed, but I didn’t want to say no because they really put in the effort. Well…. Today is the rehearsal dinner and I was making the hour drive and needed to get ready at the airbnb. I never got the address after asking numerous times until 130 and when I arrived my boyfriend told me I had 15 minutes to get ready. I was furious at the lack of respect yet again and he said “suck it up and get over it and go inside and get ready.” I asked who’s inside and he said a bunch of his friends (I haven’t met yet) - I was in tears due to the lack of empathy and compassion. I ended up leaving because I didn’t feel welcomed in the first place and definitely not welcomed after that. AITAH for leaving?

You are in the wrong

Gross

They shouldn’t have said that. If they raised you, you’re family and their child. Sorry they said that to you. You’re hurt and sounds like retaliating. So…tell them how they’ve hurt you so things can get resolved. They should know too what they said isn’t right to you.

Yes you are tha A hole

They are lucky you don’t call them by their first name-I would continue and if family ask I would respond, “it’s complicated.”

Ermm she’s 20 they dated for 2.5 years that means that she was a minor when they dated. She was 17.5 he was 28

PLEASE HELP ME !! I have the same story i was my 10th grade topper even thought i was very very sick and even topped class in 11 grade but for some reason i fell into mental breakdown in grade 12th i was that time away from my family living with my grandmother to prepare for neet with a institute and i dont't know how but that situation broke me so much and i also had suicidal thoughts and literally asked god to kill me. And i ended up scoring 70 percent in class 12 board as i did not study now i am a neet dropper still recovering by myself because nor my parents or my grandmother even after seeing my behavior changed made me see a physiatrist I regret everyday i feel like a disappointment every time and i never told my parents my real 12th grade i told them that i scored 80 percent please help me how do i tell my parents my real 12th grades and i am scoring real bad in my neet mock exams they will blame everthing n my laptop and phone which i also had in my 10 and 11 grade which makes no sense that they made me a bad person they will both of them away if i tell them my real grade (btw i score 96.5 in 10th and 91 in 11th and never in my life scored less that 90 percent but failed life in 12th)

How did the step family ruin his life?

NTA, had the same situation before I came out, the only difference, is my parents didn’t say anything, and that made it so much harder to come out to them (even though they knew because it was that obvious) if my mom came to me first and asked, it would have been a lot easier. Her son has every right to feel his feelings, but he has no idea how much easier this whole experience is going to be now - a bit sad really

You cant trap a msn that has dual citizenship 😂

YTA the mom

Ooo damn At first hearing it was because of an argument with your 12 y/o sibling I was like “really dude” but hearing what they said? Yeah I’d be hella hurt too. Your sibling is old enough to realize that is something that’s not ok to throw out, especially in an argument to try to one up. And it’s not right that your parents didn’t punish your sibling for saying that, so I’d say you have full right to be acting how you are rn :(

You all seem like assholes

Yes you're the A Hole. These people have adopted you, and youre throwing away their love because your little brother made an off the cuff comment in the middle of an argument. Stop being an over emotional child and give your parents the love they deserve.

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Nta. They are treating you in a hurtful way, you are a part of the family, they committed to adopt you, so they should treat you like you are their biological kid.

ESH - You're almost an adult, it's time to grow up and acknowledge that. Your parents raised you and cared for you, they are your family, and they don't deserve the clear vitriol you're casting at them. That said... Your parents need to step up and parent your little brother. That is one of the most terrible, hurtful things that can be said to somebody that was adopted, no matter the reason for the adoption. He might as well have said you weren't family since you're not blood, and your parents need to wake up and deal with that shit before he causes more problems

If its so complicated then why did you want her apart of the family nta

I grew up in a blended family and our parents adopted 3 kids as well. We didn't have any arguments like this but I was the only one that was my mom's and also the only one that physically stuck out of my siblings, they all are either half or full Filipino like our dad, 4 the older ones are half Korean and 1 is half Hawaiian the youngest 2 are full Filipino. While my biological father is full blooded Choctaw I have my mom's coloring and always felt like I didn't belong. If one of them had said something like this it would have broken me in ways I don't think could be fixed. Now as an adult 4 of my 9 kids are adopted, my husband and I adopted them 9 years ago and I can honestly say there is no difference between my love for any of my kids at all, if one of my kids said something like this even as a joke I would probably do something as nutty as spank them, full grown adult or teenager I wouldn't give a damn!! It would make me think I also failed as a parent too! Honestly the parents failed at a proper reaction and when the oldest gave them a response to that lack of reaction they should have seen the pain they caused! Before walking away and saying screw them I do think talking to them about the level of pain this has caused is a good idea. Parents screw up, it is possible the parents didn't know how to respond and did speak to the 12 year old alone.

Yta, the parents have done everything correctly. Punishing OP's little brother will not help. OP is way too sensitive..

I have also struggled a lot with nonbiological parents. I call my stepdad for dad, but I feel like he doesn’t view me as his own child. For example if my little brother (my stepdad’s biological child) slap me on my back and I kindly tells him that it makes me uncomfortable my stepdad will tell me that I was to harsh on my little brother and that my brother is very young. I would have excepted this if it hadn’t been for the fact that my parents expected me to take care of my self (not economically but every other way) when I was my little brother’s age. Anyways I just wanted you to know that you are not alone in struggling with nonbiological parents.

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Nta. Your feelings are valid. The parents should have talked to the little brother about how because you’re not blood related doesn’t mean you’re not family. I’ve known my step dad since I was four. I never once said he’s not my real dad and he can’t tell me what to do. I could have 100%. I knew how hurtful that would have been and chose not to. Little brother said it to hurt him. And the fact the dad is calling op a “princess” is so messed up. Won’t even acknowledge his pain. Ask to go to therapy together.

ETA (everyone the a**) they should’ve made him apologize but you should also refer to them as how they would like you to refer to them as

yes ta, grow up. they did acknowledge it and didn't agree with the little kid's insult. you can't possibly expect him and the sister to not say that once in their life if they get into an argument which happens between literally all siblings. he's at the age where you need to be patient with him. grow tf up

I’m 17M, and I was adopted by my parents, Peter and Jayne, when I was 4 years old. They’ve always been open about my adoption, and I’ve never felt like they treated me any differently because of it. They have two other kids, my siblings, who are 12M and 9F. We’ve always been a close family, and I’ve always considered Peter and Jayne to be my real parents. But last week, I had an argument with my 12 year old brother. I can’t even remember what started it, but in the middle of it, he suddenly said, “Mum and Dad aren’t even your real parents.” Hearing that from him hurt more than I can explain. I’ve always seen him as my little brother, and I never imagined he’d say something so cruel. Afterward, I went to Peter and Jayne, expecting them to be as upset as I was. But instead of grounding him or making him apologise, they just said he didn’t mean it and probably didn’t realise how hurtful it was. They pretty much brushed it off, and that made me feel like my feelings weren’t important. Since then, I’ve been calling them by their first names instead of “Mum” and “Dad.” I know it’s getting on their nerves because they’ve asked me to stop, but I’ve refused. I told them I’ll stop when they either punish my brother or at least make him apologise for what he said. If he’s going to say they aren’t my real parents, then why should I call them Mum and Dad? Now they’re upset with me, saying I’m being petty and that I’m overreacting. My dad has even started calling me “Princess” because he says I’m acting like one. I know he’s trying to make me feel bad or embarrassed, but honestly, it just makes me feel worse. From where I stand, it feels like they didn’t take what my brother said seriously enough, and that’s why I’m doing this. I don’t want to feel like I’m making a big deal out of nothing, but at the same time, I can’t just let this go without some sort of consequence. What my brother said really hurt me, and I need them to understand that. AITA?

She literally told you straight to your face that you’re not family and it’s complicated but then when you start calling them, Mr. and Mrs. they get mad like didn’t they just tell you you’re not technically family?

My middle son Alex is 10. He was a total mama's boy until age 6 when he swung hard into being a daddy's boy. My ex and I divorced around that time. At least around me, my kids are not particularly modest. We're just four dudes who like being cold. Last week Alex broke his leg after slipping on the stairs. He was with me that week and I had to help him get into the bath, wash him (I'm afraid he'll fall trying to wash on one foot) and help him dress (just faster if I do it). My kids went to their moms yesterday and she called me saying that Alex cussed her out. Alex is the sweetest kid in the world. He can get emotional but not angry emotional. I asked what happened and she casually mentioned she was going to help him take a bath and he told her to get the fuck out of the bathroom. I asked if was naked and she said obviously and he was fighting with her about helping him. I said you messed up. He doesn't want you in the bathroom when he's in the tub naked let alone you trying to help him. I said I bet you didn't even knock when you went into the bathroom. She said "oh so it's my fault?" I said yes it is your fault. He's 10 not 4. You were quite thoughtless. If he were a girl, then I would ask what he was comfortable with and not barged in. She told me she thinks he should have no Xbox for a week and since it would overlap with my time she wanted my cooperation. I said no. If anything you should apologize to him and acknowledge that you messed up. Then he'll apologize for cussing and cry and never do it again. She says she can't believe my stance. Edit: My son needs help bathing if he has to stand up because he will fall over. He doesn't need help if he's sitting in the tub with his legs over the edge of the tub. Yes, he can't wash that well sitting but he's not able to run around or play so he's not dirty or sweaty.

"a joke I wraponised at him" that's not a joke then is it.

I (18M) and my friend (18M) used to make edgy jokes constantly, pushing the boundaries and making fun of each other. We were honestly really good friends, and he was someone I could lean on and hang out with to forget about whatever was stressing me out at home or just regular school life. We’d get on Discord with the rest of our friend group, play games or Roblox, which was a highlight of my high school life. We graduated high school around the end of last year, and a teacher close to both of us had unfortunately passed away in a terrible accident, which resulted in us becoming closer as friends. Despite not seeing each other for almost half a year, we kept in contact, spamming each other with memes and occasionally making fun of each other as we usually did. However, I started taking the jokes personally, unlike when we were in person. About a month ago, clouded with pent-up rage, I made a joke about a topic sensitive to him weaponized it at him. This caused him to send paragraphs of texts explaining how he felt uncomfortable and clearly stating that if this joke were made in a context where others could see or hear it, it could result in him losing the support of his family and other friends. I apologized and realized my mistake. I genuinely felt sorry and thought we had moved past it because he said it was fine. We met up in person at our mutual friend’s birthday party, and things seemed normal; we were talking like we did in high school. But now that I think about it, he looked uncomfortable around me, and our conversations were pretty lackluster. It’s been half a week since I saw him, and he messaged me saying the joke I made has been weighing on him the past month and has taken a toll on his health. Seeing me in person made him feel repulsed, and he no longer wants to be my friend. He blocked me. I’m genuinely broken. Thank you if you made it this far and read my story. I hope you all have a good day. TLDR: I made a joke towards my friend which resulted in him being repulsed by me

No. You're smart to immediately say no, ot she'll be bothering and using you all the time.

Nah he can get fucked. He abandoned her when she was struggling and alone.

My mom used to live near my brother, she was a quiet person in general and after dad died was lonely. She wanted to have dinner with my brother and his family often. His wife ( cara) didn’t like that and they agreed to do it once a month. Mom started to have issue and would send panicked texts and went to the doctors randomly. Around this time his wife made a lot of post about how she was an attention seeker and was making up problems. That she was trying to cause a wedge in their relationship. My brother stopped visiting our mother. It was everywhere and I do not like Cara at all. When this started happening I decided to visit my mom( live in another state). It took me a day to realize something was wrong. Took her to the doctors and she had dementia. I informed the family and became the main caretaker. Cara continue to make post or comments that she is faking it. My brother stood by her the whole time. I literally begged him to come visit before she passed on. She was cremated and I have the ashes. He didn’t even come to the viewing. This is the issue, he and Cara showed up asking for some of our moms ashes. I told him no, that he didn’t even see her before she died. This started an argument against the two. By the end of it I told him to get out and take his bitch of his wife with him. He has been calling me a jerk and telling me I have to apologize. The family is torn, some are saying fuck him and Cara bit other are saying I would give in because it’s his mom also

Break up with her asap! That’s psycho behavior. She faked being okay to destroy your stuff. Red flag. Don’t try to problem solve with this one just dump her. And lol I think the body pillows are funny af. They arn’t sexual. I’m sure they become just another pillow case to op at some point.

ESH - Everyone Sucks Here. The daughter picked her cheating uncle over her own father, but the cheating happened 26 years ago. Boundaries are meant to be respected, but not strictly enforced by outside parties. You shouldn't have even entertained the idea of going to the wedding if the betrayal hurt you so much, but just because you haven't moved on, doesn't mean you need to try and force your hatred onto others. If you hate your brother more than you love your daughter, just say that and be done with it. Don't try to have your cake and eat it too.