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There's No Such Thing as Balance | Episode 52 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
If you've ever felt overwhelmed trying to achieve the perfect balance in your life...
I see you, sis!
There's a reason for the struggle, and it's exactly what I get real about and dissect in this episode of LaYinka Speaks: There's no such thing as balance.
In this episode, I dive into why the concept of balance is misleading and how it's holding you back.
Inspired by a thought-provoking discussion during my book club's reading of "Regrets of the Dying," I share my insights on how striving for balance often leads to feelings of guilt and shame, especially for women.
If you're ready to break free from the impossible ideal of balance and embrace a more harmonious approach to life, this episode is a must-listen, my lovely. We'll explore how to shift from self-criticism to a more compassionate and practical mindset.
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Відео

Your Quest Starts Now!
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You’re a driven Muslim woman who used to wake up with purpose for the day, now you find yourself staring at your goals and wondering why you can't seem to move forward. You know what you should do, but overwhelm and self-doubt keep holding you back. You have immense potential, but unlocking it feels like a constant uphill battle. In your relentless pursuit of greatness, you find yourself on a h...
Name the new LS podcast!
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Something new has been brewing at LS HQ, and I'm inviting you to guess what it's called. If you're on the mailing list, you already know, so give your sisters a chance to guess. 😅 FOLLOW LAYINKA SANNI: → Instagram: instagr.am/layinkasanni → Facebook: layinkasanni → Twitter: layinkasanni About LaYinka Sanni Transformation Coach - empowering women to become the next best versio...
The Problem with Asking 'What's Wrong with Me' | Episode 51 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
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Hand up if you've ever asked yourself, “What’s wrong with me?” 🙋🏽‍♀️ If so, here's a question for realness: Has it ever propelled you into inspired positive action? If your answer is NO, then this is for you. In this episode of LaYinka Speaks, “The Problem with Asking 'What's Wrong with Me?’”, I get honest about how this question impacts us and how we can shift our focus from self-criticism to ...
Reflections on 'A Place of Refuge' | Episode 50 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
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Reflections on 'A Place of Refuge' | Episode 50 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
Are you ready to unleash your full potential?
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Are you ready to unleash your full potential?
Finding Comfort in God's Vastness | Episode 49 | LaYinka Speaks
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Finding Comfort in God's Vastness | Episode 49 | LaYinka Speaks
Feeling guilty for not fasting
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Feeling guilty for not fasting
Overnight Success and the Long Game of Personal Growth | Episode 48 | LaYinka Speaks
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Overnight Success and the Long Game of Personal Growth | Episode 48 | LaYinka Speaks
Navigating Life Transitions | Episode 47 | LaYinka Speaks
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Navigating Life Transitions | Episode 47 | LaYinka Speaks
Hindsight 20/23: My 12 Biggest Lessons | Episode 46 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
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Hindsight 20/23: My 12 Biggest Lessons | Episode 46 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
There is Still Hope | Episode 45 | LaYinka Speaks
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There is Still Hope | Episode 45 | LaYinka Speaks
Reflections on Dualities in a Time of Crisis | Episode 44 | LaYinka Speaks
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Reflections on Dualities in a Time of Crisis | Episode 44 | LaYinka Speaks
Why You Take No Personally | Episode 43 | LaYinka Speaks
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Why You Take No Personally | Episode 43 | LaYinka Speaks
Your Behaviour Isn't Your Identity | Episode 42 | LaYinka Speaks
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Your Behaviour Isn't Your Identity | Episode 42 | LaYinka Speaks
The Problem with Focusing on Your Past | Episode 41 | LaYinka Speaks
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The Problem with Focusing on Your Past | Episode 41 | LaYinka Speaks
Your Feelings Are Valid And... | Episode 40 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
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Your Feelings Are Valid And... | Episode 40 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
Reflections on Atomic Habits | Episode 39 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
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Reflections on Atomic Habits | Episode 39 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
Emotional Walls | Episode 38 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
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Emotional Walls | Episode 38 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
Gems from Australia | Episode 37 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
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Gems from Australia | Episode 37 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
The Harms of Toxic Positivity | Episode 36 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
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The Harms of Toxic Positivity | Episode 36 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
Waiting for Others to Make You Happy | Episode 35 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
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Waiting for Others to Make You Happy | Episode 35 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
The Issue With Perfectionism
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The Issue With Perfectionism
How to Connect with Your Inner Child without Triggering Trauma | Episode 34 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
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How to Connect with Your Inner Child without Triggering Trauma | Episode 34 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
Releasing vs. Letting Go | Episode 33 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
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Releasing vs. Letting Go | Episode 33 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
Truths and Challenges of Being a People Pleaser | Episode 32 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
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Truths and Challenges of Being a People Pleaser | Episode 32 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
Stay Afloat with Hope | Episode 31 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
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Stay Afloat with Hope | Episode 31 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
Is Silence Really Golden | Episode 30 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
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Is Silence Really Golden | Episode 30 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
A Reality of Healthy Relationships | Episode 29 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
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A Reality of Healthy Relationships | Episode 29 | LaYinka Speaks Podcast
A new way to think about God taking something away from you
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A new way to think about God taking something away from you

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  • @adamamunu3046
    @adamamunu3046 6 годин тому

    I loved this sis. It's entering my 34th year of life today. I always thought that my 'jannah age' would be so pivotal. It was. But it's not downhill from here. Still taking a moment. I can remember being a teen yesterday. Time flies.

    • @LaYinkaSanni
      @LaYinkaSanni 33 хвилини тому

      Awww thank you for commenting, my lovely, and welcome to year 34. May it be one that's expansive, ameen. ❤

  • @muhammadalfazazi8396
    @muhammadalfazazi8396 День тому

    Thank you so much dear sister Layinka. May ALLAH (God) bless you a lot.

  • @muhammadalfazazi8396
    @muhammadalfazazi8396 7 днів тому

    Allahu Aälam. Thank you so much.

  • @ess70028
    @ess70028 8 днів тому

    We don’t need to seek joy, ONLY Joy, only Allah ♥️ May we ONLY seek The Most High 🤲🏼✨

    • @LaYinkaSanni
      @LaYinkaSanni 7 днів тому

      I find this comment fascinating, as joy can be experienced in seeking Allah. Where's the conflict between joy and seeking Allah?

    • @ess70028
      @ess70028 7 днів тому

      @@LaYinkaSanni when joy becomes our deity. Allah is Allah sis ♥️✨

    • @ess70028
      @ess70028 7 днів тому

      @@LaYinkaSanni . بسمالله .

    • @LaYinkaSanni
      @LaYinkaSanni 6 днів тому

      No one mentioned joy becoming one's diety, nor making it the focus of one's attention. ​@@ess70028

  • @groms3230
    @groms3230 8 днів тому

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Layla6793
    @Layla6793 8 днів тому

    Subhana Allah

  • @BI99373
    @BI99373 9 днів тому

    Subhanallah so true

  • @halimatolatunji5672
    @halimatolatunji5672 9 днів тому

    The signs have been coming but I kept ignoring them. Not until recently I reflected and realized I didn't want to let go of that thing, so I ignored and held onto it.

    • @LaYinkaSanni
      @LaYinkaSanni 9 днів тому

      I appreciate your honesty in recognising that the signs HAD been sent.

  • @goldenashtv5136
    @goldenashtv5136 11 днів тому

    Thanks dear

  • @elfazaziaomar1457
    @elfazaziaomar1457 12 днів тому

    Thank you so much dear sister Layinka. I can remember that This was my first time in dunya me hearing the verb alchemise. And what a beautiful way of learning this word. Thank you so much 🤍💛🧡

  • @hridhayisthecutestpie2194
    @hridhayisthecutestpie2194 12 днів тому

    I think I can say I found joy by choosing it when I know I had to reason not to. Choosing joy when I just woke up, when I look up at the sky, when I make a weird laugh or look bad in a photo. I think there's a lot more to be said on how happyness is not supposed to be earned, but shared. In my personal experience, it's always better to just allow yourself to feel joy whenever you want.

    • @LaYinkaSanni
      @LaYinkaSanni 7 днів тому

      This is such a wholesome and beautiful comment. Joy can be felt in such simple things, subhanAllah, it just requires our presence.

  • @muhammadalfazazi8396
    @muhammadalfazazi8396 13 днів тому

    Wa älaykum assalām wa rahmatullahi wa barakātuh. Thank you so much

  • @muhammadalfazazi8396
    @muhammadalfazazi8396 13 днів тому

    Wa älaykum assalām wa rahmatullahi wa barakātuh. Thank you so much.

  • @muhammadalfazazi8396
    @muhammadalfazazi8396 13 днів тому

    Thank you

  • @muhammadalfazazi8396
    @muhammadalfazazi8396 13 днів тому

    I personally found joy with my new born niece. And I am finding/refinding it more with you dear Sister.

  • @muhammadalfazazi8396
    @muhammadalfazazi8396 13 днів тому

    God bless you. Dear beloved sister you can consider this from a sister the way you portray yourself reminds of a beautiful relationship with ALLAH so thank you so much 🤍❤️ and thank you for who you are 🤍🩷💜

  • @muhammadalfazazi8396
    @muhammadalfazazi8396 13 днів тому

    Thank you so much. Jazākumullahu khayran

  • @salmaomar5494
    @salmaomar5494 13 днів тому

    Lookin forward to it... For one person... Oh I tell u oh😂

  • @halimatolatunji5672
    @halimatolatunji5672 23 дні тому

    May Allah reward you for sharing this. I Cannot afford it, so i'll just pick my lessons from the bits of the podcast you share here.😍😍

  • @Xiaolongbaokid16
    @Xiaolongbaokid16 23 дні тому

    My greatest Du’a is Dua Lipa

  • @halimatolatunji5672
    @halimatolatunji5672 27 днів тому

    The Nigerian accent came out there!!! "For one person" 😂😂

    • @LaYinkaSanni
      @LaYinkaSanni 27 днів тому

      😂 my mum came through, right there! 😅

  • @quietE23
    @quietE23 Місяць тому

    I love this, jazak Allah khairan dear sister. It has always been an issue to separate arrogance from self confidence, which now I will call celebration instead!

  • @sunnyraindrop582
    @sunnyraindrop582 Місяць тому

    The “What?” Confusión o felt with my wholeness 😂 I’m trying to get spiritually fit and financially fit like sis إِنْ شَاءَ ٱللَّٰهُ 😭🤣

    • @LaYinkaSanni
      @LaYinkaSanni Місяць тому

      The confusion at the time was so real! 😆

  • @Layla6793
    @Layla6793 2 місяці тому

    Free Palestine 🇵🇸

  • @Layla6793
    @Layla6793 2 місяці тому

    I can’t wait sis

    • @LaYinkaSanni
      @LaYinkaSanni 2 місяці тому

      You can tune in by joining the podcast and community here, my lovely: layinkasanni.com/quest

  • @bainunrafi2329
    @bainunrafi2329 2 місяці тому

    Assalamua'laikum sister. I cant wait to watch and listen to your podcast. Your words are always so profound and deep and your words are like precious pearls ❤❤❤🌹🌹🌹And can I say something, I feel like something is going on around me but i just cant get hold of what im feeling. I feel like I need help and some clarity to clear up the confusion 😞💔 insha'Allah by listening to your podcast, I will get some clarity. May Allah guide me and my mother 😭😭😭

    • @LaYinkaSanni
      @LaYinkaSanni 2 місяці тому

      Wa alaikum salaam, sis! What generous words! I'm grateful my words resonate with you, my lovely. You can tune in to Quest for Alignment by joining the podcast and community here, my lovely: layinkasanni.com/quest

  • @Layla6793
    @Layla6793 2 місяці тому

    Wa Caleykum wasalam my beautiful sister

  • @familiedattel-playmobil
    @familiedattel-playmobil 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @halimatolatunji5672
    @halimatolatunji5672 3 місяці тому

    Subhanallah, this is deep! Thanks ma'am

  • @adwoaosei8892
    @adwoaosei8892 3 місяці тому

    Wow ❤

  • @alfatimahscorner6124
    @alfatimahscorner6124 3 місяці тому

    Masha Allah.... jazakallahu khair ma'am ❤❤❤

  • @abadal7078
    @abadal7078 4 місяці тому

    Thank you sister I am a Hebrew Israelite and your videos inspire me so much thank you very much keep doing what you are doing, I'm using my husband's account my name is Alazah.

    • @LaYinkaSanni
      @LaYinkaSanni 2 місяці тому

      Thank you for stopping by and tuning in, Alazah.

  • @rl12399
    @rl12399 4 місяці тому

    How do we know when its time to mobe forward? How long does one with with the grief for it to be clmpletely processed, how do we know?

    • @LaYinkaSanni
      @LaYinkaSanni 4 місяці тому

      This is a great question, and one that's answered in the book because essentially: Grief doesn't have a time limit as the reality of the loss never ever goes away. BUT, the size, the intensity, and the manifestation of that grief will evolve. Asmaa describes hers like a small charm she gets to wear around her neck, so it no longer holds her still in place and she no longer feels stuck. The reality still remains: her husband and the father of her daughter is no longer in their lives, and moving forward doesn't change THAT reality.

  • @lisathomas5812
    @lisathomas5812 4 місяці тому

    As Salaam Walaikum 🤲🏾

  • @tinamaps1605
    @tinamaps1605 4 місяці тому

    Wow. 🤔. That was very insightful. I've been struggling with commiting to my commitments , and now that uve put it this way I'm not going to be hard on myself anymore.. 📍🇿🇦. Thank you.

    • @LaYinkaSanni
      @LaYinkaSanni 2 місяці тому

      I'm so glad to hear that! Be kind just as Ar-Ra'oof is kind to you.

  • @deemichele6851
    @deemichele6851 5 місяців тому

    Jazak Allahu Khair❤️

  • @deemichele6851
    @deemichele6851 5 місяців тому

    Masha’Allah ‼️ Deep and Profound‼️ Jazak Allahu Khair ❤️

  • @sairish1984
    @sairish1984 5 місяців тому

    💯

  • @S.Aktar.K
    @S.Aktar.K 5 місяців тому

  • @specificfemale3863
    @specificfemale3863 5 місяців тому

    Same goes for small things that make you unhappy. When someone tells me it‘s not a big deal even though it made me feel hurt, I need to remind myself that because this thing made me feel hurt, the other person (and I) needs to acknowledge these feelings, not dismiss them. It‘s the little things in life that really make the difference

    • @LaYinkaSanni
      @LaYinkaSanni Місяць тому

      I absolutely agree. And if someone else chooses not to acknowledge our feelings, it's important we still acknowledge them for ourselves.

  • @summeiyyahsaid2489
    @summeiyyahsaid2489 5 місяців тому

    It starts inwardly Hard battle to self but it’s worth it I agree 👍 Well said

  • @sadia_s
    @sadia_s 5 місяців тому

    Allahu Akbar ❤...I needed to hear this 🎉.... May Allah bless you sis Layinka❤

    • @LaYinkaSanni
      @LaYinkaSanni 2 місяці тому

      Allahumma ameeeen, and you!

  • @rehemamuhamed6798
    @rehemamuhamed6798 6 місяців тому

    I believe, and I see it, AllahuAkbar because I believein my Rabb!! May Allah bless you ❤

    • @LaYinkaSanni
      @LaYinkaSanni 2 місяці тому

      Allahumma ameen! And you! 💛

  • @livinghapilly
    @livinghapilly 6 місяців тому

    Jazakhallahu ❤

  • @rehemamuhamed6798
    @rehemamuhamed6798 6 місяців тому

    SubhanaAllah, we are the ancestors who break the patterns of generational trauma... a profound message!

    • @LaYinkaSanni
      @LaYinkaSanni 2 місяці тому

      We are! And what an honour it is to be chosen.

  • @TzefanyahBenAvrohom
    @TzefanyahBenAvrohom 6 місяців тому

    Absolutely

  • @TzefanyahBenAvrohom
    @TzefanyahBenAvrohom 6 місяців тому

    Let's be the ancestors we wish we had.