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Rabbinic Sex Abuse Imagine having the guts to call out a sexual abuser in your community only to be blamed, bullied, shunned, not believed, or otherwise merely tolerated. Imagine sitting in synagogue through inspirational songs and sermons about spiritual progress, fully awake to the atrocious hypocrisy and unrepentant corruption behind the scenes. Imagine sitting with your family, cheerfully gathered around the table for a holiday meal, unable to be fully present because your conscience is wholly occupied by the unimaginable things that you have witnessed, and the trauma of it weighs you down from even speaking, as you have no words to say. Every day for years you wake up each morning and the first thing you do is Modeh Ani followed by a check to see if maybe this time you actually woke up from the long nightmare. But it is not a nightmare, it is real, and you cannot unsee, unknow, unlearn. How do you make it through the High Holidays? How do you stand in a crowd and listen to people talk about teshuvah who know nothing of it? When the community remains silent, callous, intolerant of victims but tolerant of abusers? Like my predecessors a couple of generations ago, I took flight to New York City where I could be safely Jewish - only this time, I was running from other Jews. At this time last year, I had reported my abuser to the CCAR. He was suspended just prior to Rosh Hashanah. But his appeal deadline was Yom Kippur. It just worked out that way, apparently. “Days of Awe” took on a whole other level of meaning that year. I had no ‘safe’ congregation or rabbi in my own region. Like my predecessors a couple of generations ago, I took flight to New York City where I could be safely Jewish - only this time, I was running from other Jews. Read: “Taking Back My Religion (After Rabbinic Sex Abuse)” A lot has changed in the last year. At this time last year, there was no support group for Jewish adults abused by clergy. At this time last year, my blog and the blog of Rachel Cohen did not yet exist. Between just the two of us, there are more than 30 posts, when at this time last year there were none to speak of. We are here, and we are talking about rabbis who sexually exploit adults, and by doing this, other women are better able to heal and to make choices about how to move forward. Now that I am through the first year, which is always the hardest, I look back and I ask myself, “What things did I wish I had at this time last year to help me through?” The number one thing that comes to mind is some kind of resource that I can keep with me during the High Holidays, so that I don’t feel alone in my pain and trauma. Something that is written by other women like me, who went through what I went through, and who are dealing with (or have dealt with) the same struggles. Real women, whose realness leaps up from the pages. It would need to be visually beautiful too, because art is healing and we are in need of healing. And it must contain guidance for dealing with PTSD symptoms in synagogue, and ideas for making the Holidays one’s own once more. And it must have something to say to combat the Christian-like forgiveness doctrine that is making its way into our synagogues - a sign that assimilation is beginning to not only alter the appearance of things, but to alter the religion itself at its very core (in my personal opinion).

I like how the interviewer asking Cillian about Harry Styles is immune to his sarcasm

0:43 and 2:36 definitely my mood i have on a daily basis not gunna lie honestly 😂

I swear I’ve been in love with this man since 28 Days Later.

Am i the only one who thinks cillian looks so gay out of character? Lol

The omg part is just so cute and innocent 😭❤

1:53 in life i am Cillian

I really love right for you and ain’t got you

Idk there's just something so Taemin coded about Cillian 💀

“NO FIGHTING” Some guy: bumps Tommy Tommy: pushes him Arthur: yea fuck you

I just like how Charlie stands there thinkin: my fucking god...can ge just stop the drama?" At 1:24 .🤣🤣🤣🤣

What’s the subtitles for?

"what's a mim?"😭😭😭. no sé explicar como amé esa parte

"Do you think you'd like to work with Jamie again?" "No." *Grins* "HaH hAh"

"What's a meme?" kk

cok brgrndim harika ❤

"I'm Still Mourning"

I love him! 😂 His annoyance is so relatable! His face says all of it!

Too political gor me.calls the British but quite happy too come and earn money there.twomfaces

Recently,a good friend of mine told me that I have exact the same reactions with Cillian. And you know what?! It was the best compliment I have ever received 😅💜

His voice ,accent,red hair blue eyes seriously hypnotic good lord 😍😍😍

u have to love this man

I'm a new Cillian Murphy stan lately, I have been trying to learn how he is, what characters he typically plays in films, watch movies of his work to see and learn how he is. So far, it's like I'm watching another Elon Musk talk, they both seem thoughtful of their words and their answers varies in short sentences, not longated. Just a analysis of Cillian Murphy; I have a thing for personality.

1:00 😂😂👌🏻

“What was the question again” 😂 honestly so relatable. Sometimes I’ll be talking, had the idea in mind but then forget what the question even was.

I just love him 💖

They can’t yuck my yum! I love me some Cilian baybeeee!

version young cillian murphy i want a man like him.Married 😊

I love Cillian. Such a talented actor but amazing goofball. I think Cillian and Jamie would be really funny together in like a buddy cop film or something LOL

Missed the part where Tommy said he’ll flip a coin for Aberama’s daughter 😭😂

How do i be like cillian murphy where he doesnt entertain but still like by everyone?

When Cillian was talking about the clicking sounds on your phone, I FELT THAT. It's not like the year 2000 anymore, you can use your eyes and see if you typed something. Ya ain't gotta let everyone know that your typing on your phone.

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And 1 second?

4 minutes that didn't felt like 4 minutes...

At the latest after seeing this edit, i fell in love with him 🤭

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The Cillian-Jamie Irish bromance is just peak happiness.

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Cillian should be the next James Bond ❤

He was 15 in April 2018 because he ........... quit and graduate school, but he starts his job of becoming a singer and rapper😮😢, he did not go to college. He is the same age as me!

I’m still mourning ☠️

What's a meme you're hot

We're too old for social media he's so right

"Hang on you were just off CARBS or something" 😂😂😂 Cills has no chill for Jamie 🤭

OMG. The music is so loud, you can't hear what anybody is saying. Do you ever watch your own videos to check them before you post them ????

0:18 Jeremiah : Jesus Loves You Barney : So, Where The Fuck Is He? Got Me Dying 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

My gawd! LOOOOOZE the background music. It’s completely unnecessary, waaaaay too loud, and drowns out everything people are saying 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

So sigma 😏🪨

Cillian Murphy.. the world is beautiful because you are in it!❤