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mfw when gay people are gay:

Having recently come to terms with the fact I'm transfem, I've elected that i don't think I'll change my name. It's a pretty unique and unisex name, and I think I'm lucky that I'm so comfortable with it.

When it comes to gender envy characters, literally every show and game has one for me, and its usually a woman or a robot or both. Sometimes its an Eldritch horror Rebecca from cyberpunk edge runners Levie from scavengers reign Gravitals from all tomorrow's This is how i figured out i was femenby

i went from pan cis boy to lesbian trans cat girl, the way i experience my gender is tied to my perception of myself as kitty cat :3

RAILGUNNER GENDER ENVY? You might be cooked actually

1:00 femby

Realizing all those goth alt girls that made you feel euphoric through your teenage years might be more gender envy than attraction hits you like a plane in the world trade center

the way i put it for myself: gender is a soup and i’m eating around the vegetables

2:10 THAT WAS YOU?? HOLY SHIT I NEED YOU TO KNOW THAT YOU'RE A TUMBLR ICON

peak music choice lmao

Bro intro😂

I dont have to worry about my identity because it matters to and effects no one

Neat 👍

Hi gay I’m dad

Being agender is pretty cool. I didn’t change my presentation or anything, and I still use gendered pronouns (although I added they/them into the mix), they just don’t mean much to me. It’s just comforting to put that stamp on myself that says “I do not have a gender and I don’t need one; any resemblance I display to real life genders is purely incidental.”

femboys are not gay

Evil Yozuli: Heterosexual Bathtub Ruminations

I also don't mind my dead name. Noah is a nice name, almost androgynous, but my chosen name, Sage, is just better for me. I say chosen name but it's literally my middle name.

dungeon meshi fans are always gay, gooners or having an identity crisis no expectations

hi my chosen name is jay we’re bird name twins

Best part of being trans, to me, is when someone you admire says your chosen names, uses your pronouns, compliments you how you want to be, etc. Especially when it's someone you haven't seen in almost a decade. Happened half a year ago and they and I have been dating pretty much since that, it's a cool feeling. Polyamory is also cool because there's just multiple people to turn to for affection, affirmation, etc and you're just closer to them.

bro the "girl terms in a cis way" is so me but for guy terms we're like the same gender kinda attractive

great vid, nice lols, amd very relatable haha

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Bless UA-cam for recommending me this video. It's super chill and feels like having a laid-back, casual conversation with someone. And I felt that 'do I like this character because I like them, or do I like this character because I want to be them?' sentiment. I've recently been questioning if I'm agender (I don't understand the concept of gender in the first place, to be honest - right now I'm referring to my gender as 'Schrödinger's gender' lmao), though I've decided I'm just me. But the amount of characters I've felt an attachment to because 'I need their essence' (I'd say 'gender', but again, not sure if I feel a sense of gender exactly) is insane lol. Izutsumi and BoTW Link are on my list, also (as well as characters such as the P3/P5 protags, Robin from FE Awakening, Haruhi from OHSHC, etc.). Anyway, fantastic video, and I'll definitely be sticking around for more!

I’m still trying to figure shit out but I know I’m bi. This video made me feel less weird about being unsure of stuff. Thanks 👍

Your experience is highly relatable.

I'm gonna start using themboy as term for myself from now on ty

have you read/watched nana

banger

Get a tumblr. No irl friends there 😂

Another person with a bird name! I must subscribe (my name is Ibis)

Slayd

"Is it gay to-" Everything is gay if you frame it a certain way, so why care? Be gay! Be straight! Be bisexual! Be none of them! Be something only you can relate to! None of it matters so long as no one gets hurt (without consent 😏)

i loke men. i am a man. i like men and im proud of all the. queers. 👍 lol this comment sounds like it was written by a bot but could a bot say… idk idk what a bot couldnt say idk srry. subscribed :3

1:20 Its more like we’re trying to figure out if we are. Cause sometimes it feels to specific and its like maybe, maybe not, I dunno, “is it gay?”

hi little friend

I have a visceral reaction to my deadname, even when it’s used as someone else’s name, and I think it’s because of my childhood trauma. I must’ve developed an association between my deadname and being reprimanded that has caused the former to become a trigger for me. My current name not only validates my (lack of) gender but also allows me to distance myself from my past. I haven’t revealed it to anyone in over three years and it’s gotten to the point where a lot of people who met me after I started going by my current name don’t even know I have a deadname. The only person who purposefully deadnames me is my great grandma, but I give her a pass because she’s a product of her time (born 1922) who is otherwise very kind and wise. I don’t think she even understands that I’m trans, especially since she only speaks Spanish and there are no gender-neutral pronouns in Spanish. I think she just prefers my deadname to my current one.

The shower bit got me to subscribe got good jokes

omg wet cat! :3

I claim Themboy as my gender now fr

it may not be pride month but god i am so aroace

i love being nonbinary and being an izutsumi stan

funny cat in thumbnail activated my braincell thank you

HI gay I´m Rubén

Admire your transparency in sharing your experience with gender. It's so weird and confusing. I always get scared when I try to talk about it 🙈

themboys should be a thing

yo im also in nocal and need friends :( wanna hmu on discord maybe?

"in a cis way"

7:35 is EXACTLY what happened with me andd the name JIll/Jillian (moreso Jill). But for me for AGES I was name swapping like crazy and thought no names would stick at all for me like EVER, and one day I'm watching a woops video that has his editor Jill in it. She's fucking awesome I love her SO much as a person when she's in the vids. But when I was watching my brain went "what if you used that" naur I'll go by blake or something pseudo fem. remembers old twitter moot "J I L L I A N" naaaaahhhh I'll go by fuckin V for something. "J I L L A A A YYY". Suffice it to say after plastering the name to myself, I've never once thought of changing it, it stuck like glue straight to my dome piece. And I'm happy to be SO done with my name search. And with my deadname? idc about it, I've used so many names someone could give me a new one at work and I'd probably respond on instinct (I did that to myself with not being able to 1. hold a stable name for myself, and 2. changing usernames so much LOL)