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WAKE UP & Take Responsibility For Your Life!
In this video, we explore the power of personal responsibility and why blaming others or external circumstances holds you back. It’s time to take control of your life and success by refusing to give others the power to dictate your outcomes.
Success starts with YOU. When you focus on self-discipline, accountability, and consistent action, nothing and no one can stop you from achieving your goals. This is your call to stop pointing fingers at others, society, or circumstances. Instead, take full ownership of your life and create the success you deserve!
💡 Key Takeaways from the Video:
1️⃣ Why blaming others is a trap.
2️⃣ How personal responsibility is the ultimate power move.
3️⃣ Strategies to build a life where YOU control the outcomes.
4️⃣ How to break free from limiting beliefs and outside influences.
📌 Who is this video for?
• Ambitious individuals tired of excuses.
• People looking for practical strategies to create success.
• Anyone who wants to unleash their true potential.
✨ Don’t just dream about success-TAKE ACTION. Watch the video and start changing your life today.
🔔 Subscribe for more videos on motivation, success, and personal growth!
👊 Let’s build a community of individuals who take ownership of their lives.
Timestamps: ⏰
Introduction-1:15
Positive Circles-1:16
The Hard Truth-3:00
You Have A Choice-4:14
Support The Channel-5:27
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КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @kittycatsdafs
    @kittycatsdafs 2 дні тому

    Okay...there is some good messaging in here, like you should try, you should be positive, you should take control of what you can. But outright denial of the empirical issues with the system is BS. This is classic survivorship bias from someone who made it, looking back at others and saying, 'why didn't you just do what I did?' Don't let the fact that you should do your best stop you from criticizing the rich bastards taking you for a ride. 'The only person that's gonna stop you from achieving your goals is you' is just a lie. It's demonstrably untrue and it's why I can't take you seriously.

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 2 дні тому

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts and doing so in a respectful way, I appreciate that. I am not attempting to deny that the system does not have issues, I am merely stating that I believe it is not personal, and if consistent enough and smart enough, anyone can achieve their goals (realistic). I am also not someone who has 'made it' I am very much in my own journey also and these are principles that I apply within my own life also. Of course things can happen to us that are out of our control and it can set us back. Happened to me plenty of times before. But my point isn't that, my point is that we have a responsibility to ourselves to not allow these moments to destroy us. We have a responsibility to try and take responsibility for every single thing in our control and with that responsibility yield it well and reap the rewards of life. In simple terms, shit can happen of course. Just don’t let bad shit that happens knock you off your feet and keep you down. You have a responsibility to keep going. And if you do that, I think you will win, in some small way.

  • @massimoluca5381
    @massimoluca5381 6 днів тому

    good vid Alf, all very true👍🏽

  • @christiescanlonoffical
    @christiescanlonoffical 7 днів тому

    Brilliant video! 👏 You’ve nailed it with this one!

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 7 днів тому

      Thanks Christie-glad the video resonated with you pal.

  • @test-pr9wp
    @test-pr9wp 16 днів тому

    6 days a week is a bit too much..

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 16 днів тому

      I completely agree looking back now. But the purpose was to callous my mind and discipline myself. And it absolutely helped me to do that. The full video should explain this better👍

    • @test-pr9wp
      @test-pr9wp 15 днів тому

      @@TheAlfPursuitOh, alright, that makes sense, didnt get a chance to watch the full just yet.

  • @The_Bean_Head_Men
    @The_Bean_Head_Men 16 днів тому

    Lick my bum

  • @ZBgyming
    @ZBgyming 16 днів тому

    More stories like this💪

  • @FurzilllA
    @FurzilllA 17 днів тому

    discipline is important but only in the right context. on its own it can be weaponized up to the point of your own decay.. look at soldiers for example

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 16 днів тому

      Hi mate, I agree. Too much discipline and you struggle to have fun and enjoy life. Too little discipline and your life is a mess. It’s about finding that balance somewhere in the middle.

    • @FurzilllA
      @FurzilllA 16 днів тому

      @@TheAlfPursuit indeed, but what i ment was.. what are we disciplined for? we could be disciplined psychos for all we know.. purpose is key

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 16 днів тому

      It’s pivotal and paramount to every persons life to have that purpose. For me I am disciplined because I want to shape the man who is the best father to my future kids one day. What about you? What’s your why…

  • @ClutchCore42
    @ClutchCore42 18 днів тому

    Thank you so much brother

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 18 днів тому

      No need to thank me man, Thank you! I am really happy you took some value from the video. Make sure to check out the full video below to get as much as possible as this is only a short clip from that video. Subscribe for more from me. I wanna take this channel to the moooooon! 🌕

  • @una341
    @una341 19 днів тому

    Interesting take on it. Self development is not just about goals, inner work is also a part of it. There could be some unhealed trauma leading to substance misuse and violence. I'm not making excuses for him coz it is still his responsibility to deal with these issues appropriately.

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 19 днів тому

      Hey man, good point. If you don’t have good people around you, money can break you. A really terrifying reality unfortunately.

  • @A10-y4r
    @A10-y4r 25 днів тому

    Nice content Alf

  • @noblepolygon8694
    @noblepolygon8694 25 днів тому

    500th subscriber (I have the screenshot). Great content 🔥

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 25 днів тому

      @@noblepolygon8694 That’s a big number for me man, and I appreciate your words and thanks for being the long awaited number 500!! Let’s go to 1000💪🏻 All the best man. -Alf

  • @FurzilllA
    @FurzilllA 25 днів тому

    first.. i should have a honest conversation with my self, for not having goals in the first place.. thanks

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 25 днів тому

      Some good self accountability here my friend. Come back to this comment in 6 weeks and see where you are. Good luck and thank you 💪🏻

  • @Fozbear-k8j
    @Fozbear-k8j 25 днів тому

    Good stuff mate, great mma journalism and reporting, hope your channel does well 👍🏻

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 25 днів тому

      Appreciate the kind words mate, this is not normally my sort of area as you can probably see by the channel. But I’ll definitely talk similar things again down the line.

  • @subtleinfluence9478
    @subtleinfluence9478 25 днів тому

    You can’t fall if you’ve never been up

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 25 днів тому

      @@subtleinfluence9478 I would take two things from your statement: 1. “Up” is a spectrum and hard to objectively measure. One man's bad time is another man's paradise and vice versa. 2. There’s falling and then there’s self-sabotage right? Cheating on the mother of your kids to go and sniff with a group of people in a hotel room to later be accused and found liable of rape is not just a fall. That’s a 20,000 feet bungee jump into a volcanic pit of your own making. The statement as a general rule is quite cool. But I personally wouldn’t use this instance as an example for a mere stumble or a mistake. It’s a different level of "fall".

    • @subtleinfluence9478
      @subtleinfluence9478 25 днів тому

      @ Falling is also a spectrum and hard to objectively measure, so if one man’s bad is another man’s paradise, who’s to say he fell? He only had to pay a fraction of his wealth and is back to his normal life

  • @DanBJim
    @DanBJim 27 днів тому

    if only my phone was a piece of toilet paper right now.

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 27 днів тому

      I would not recommend. Much better to suck it up and get in the shower if you are that desperate😂🤦‍♂️ Watch. The. Full. Video.

  • @jelle7933
    @jelle7933 27 днів тому

    Different take: You could argue that after he reached that goal of becoming world champion, he did set out new goals for himself. He created a successful liquor brand, owns bars and restaurants with his name on it, clothing lines, did movies and more. Even compared to other athletes with that amount of fame and money he did exceptionally well for himself after reaching this goal you're talking about. I can definitely see where you're coming from though. That initial 'fire' seemed to have gone out after fighting Eddie Alvarez. But his focus also shifted. However, in my eyes the reason he ended up where he did is also one that many can relate to and just as important of a lesson. Addiction kills you slowly and before it does it changes you into a ghost of your former self. He was always a bit of a partyboy but as soon as his goals no longer required him to be in peak physical shape he was seen a lot more often under influence of drugs and alcohol. I've seen people get destroyed by them, and with Conor it doesn't seem much different. People aren't rational when the use like that, and the more they do it, the harder it becomes to control yourself and think about concepts like long term future and like you said; the bigger picture (his wife and kids). Also yes, the case is super shady, but at the same time there have been other instances of Conor treating people like utter trash when high or drunk (hitting old men in bars for example), or both. That doesn't really give him the benefit of the doubt either. With use like that people change, and do things that maybe a few years earlier no one could've imagined. It happens all the time. My take is that instead of picking new goals, he should've been more self aware. He should've known he had a major weakness in his use and partying. And if he didn't he should have reacted earlier. But unfortunately that is what addiction does. You start living only in the here and now. If he would have truly recognized his problem and kept those needs under control after he accomplished what he did, he would've been able to put more energy into the things that mattered. I feel like that's more about facing your demons than setting new goals. But of course, setting goals in your life is very important to give your life a sense of direction. I just personally feel like addiction makes everything too blurry to focus on those goals.

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 27 днів тому

      This is a really well thought and thorough overall assessment of the situation. I can honestly see you know this subject well. The drugs and lack of self awareness clearly contributed to his deterioration over the past few years. Coupled with becoming distracted with other ventures (which of course is fine, but at the time he still spoke as if he was in the fighting mix, when of course he was not) and not choosing the correct goals or indeed any goals which would help him in the deeper and more personal aspects of his life. With all this said however… we don’t know the guy, and maybe we’re completely wrong! But we can only speak on the information we have at our disposal. Subscribe for more!

  • @vikinglofrooz
    @vikinglofrooz 27 днів тому

    Good point, I agree with your message here! Even though I will never fall for the presssure of this opinionated society and switch sides, i believe Conor is innocent in this case and I will support him untill proven guilty.

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 27 днів тому

      Hey, I respect your thoughts man. I do not honestly know what to think about the verdict as it did not take place in a criminal court and had some serious inconsistencies throughout. But I think these things are about balance. Sometimes taking a step back and looking at things from a distance can allow you to see things with more clarity. I guess we will see, but if he did do it, he deserves everything that comes his way. It’s bad enough to do that to his family let alone being guilty of r**e… Subscribe for more of the same👍🏻💪🏻

    • @vikinglofrooz
      @vikinglofrooz 27 днів тому

      @@TheAlfPursuit Yeah for sure! IF he did it he should be in jail. If he didn't do it, SHE should be in jail

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 27 днів тому

      @vikinglofrooz I can stand with you on that one👍🏻

  • @EH1293
    @EH1293 27 днів тому

    That Conor is innocent and that girl is all about getting money out of him she’s a lying c u n t

  • @davecoop9579
    @davecoop9579 27 днів тому

    I have absolutely no idea what you are talking about

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 27 днів тому

      From what I have heard, the CCTV footage contradicts a lot of her statements within the proceedings. Everyone in the hotel at the time testified against her but the judge told the jury to not consider this within their decision. The criminal prosecution service didn’t take this case and rejected it twice. She claimed at times to forget large parts of the night and that she was not conscious throughout the ordeal but yet there are coherent messages that were sent from her to her at the time boyfriend when she was at the hotel, lying about her whereabouts and saying what a nice time she was having. Also, McGregor was not the only person she accused of rape that night, his friend James Lawrence was also accused, that statement was proved by the court to be a lie. Either way McGregor should not be in this situation and has behaved terribly throughout the whole ordeal. But this is not that black and white in my opinion. I hope that clears it up.

    • @davecoop9579
      @davecoop9579 27 днів тому

      ​@TheAlfPursuit Nope. You talk about "her" and "she" and I still have absolutely no clue whatsoever

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 27 днів тому

      @davecoop9579 My apologies Dave. I clip up my long format videos and make them into shorts for my UA-cam page so that I can attract more people to the long format videos. If you give a crap feel free to check out the long video for the full context behind what I’m speaking of. Also, UA-cam's guidelines will not allow me to speak of the exact specifics as it is a sensitive subject.

  • @RVCInc.-zm9fw
    @RVCInc.-zm9fw 28 днів тому

    Let me give you some game and stick up for the guy bc everynody just jumps on the same boat, scared to take a position. That woman is full of crap. Ever since Connor teased running as a poltician they came for him. Now they can call him a r---. Any reporter who is being honest can look at the case and see he was setup. The girls friend (who was on the couch) testified against her. You're just as bad as the woman. Stick up for Connor.

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 28 днів тому

      Brother watch the last part of my video where I discuss openly that I think the case is weird and doesn’t make a lot of sense but that’s not the point I am making, I am saying that he should not be in that position in the first place. Thanks for being respectful and sharing your thoughts💪🏻

    • @RVCInc.-zm9fw
      @RVCInc.-zm9fw 28 днів тому

      @TheAlfPursuit my apologies. I will rewatch. Do you want me to take my comment down?

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 28 днів тому

      @RVCInc.-zm9fw No it’s not necessary bro just like and subscribe if you think I’ve made any good points💪🏻

    • @JohnWick-se8eq
      @JohnWick-se8eq 27 днів тому

      "Stick up for Conor"😂😂 Fanboys are wild. Mcgregor has assaulted an old man. Abused drugs & cheated for years on the Mother of his kids. Just because the woman in question was no Angel doesn't make Mcgregor a Saint.

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 27 днів тому

      Definitely not a saint. Completely agree with that. There needs to be some more accountability on every side.

  • @NameHierEinfuegenNr1
    @NameHierEinfuegenNr1 Місяць тому

    musk was already rich as a baby, cause his parents owned a saphire mine. and bezos also was already rich before starting amazon.... try again mate...

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit Місяць тому

      Wrong! Musk's father was rich yes but Elon had to work his socks off to get what he had today. You would be a moron to deny that. The wealthy his father had when he was younger is not comparable with the wealth that Elon generated himself with lots of risky decisions and investments along the way, namely Twitter and SpaceX. Secondly Bezos being rich before Amazon does not disprove my point. He made himself rich and is self made, also he came from a poor family. Try again mate👍🏻

    • @NameHierEinfuegenNr1
      @NameHierEinfuegenNr1 Місяць тому

      @@TheAlfPursuit first of only, elon says he had to work hard and is selfmade... or to quote his parents "no, he got born rich and got a fair share of our help". his father said that after elon lied about never have been part of the smaragd mining buissnes nor ever having gotten any money from his parents. so sorry to say but if you fail buissnes after buissnes until your parents give you the money to buy a sucsessfull one (Tesla) to then steal all the credit, then you realy havent taken any risk... so no. no matter how much you amerikans belive the bullshit elon spews on a dayly basis, the rest of us can see privilege when we see it. now to not disproving you. you said in your video that those rich people took great risks and that is just factually wrong. or to pup it into perspective. If i risk 10 bucks then that is the equivalent of the risk they took. that is not a risk. if you risk less than your dayly or in some cases hourly income, then you havent taken a risk but played it safe.... sorry to say. also musk is a moron. he overpaid massively for twitter and when he finaly noticed (only took a cuple of months -.- ) he tried to sue to not be forced to finalise the deal. didn't work there. than there is his absolute mismanagement of twitter and tesla as well as the fact that space x is looking to be a finacial failure and so my opinion of that moron is quite low. bezos parents where so poor that they could only invest 300k$ into his buissnes.... ajusted for inflation that would be 638,995.95$ that is quite poor, only half a mill to invest.. selfmade, my arse. if he had used his own 300k that he earned himself, that would be selfmade... so let me reitterate. TRY AGAIN but this time without the bullshit propaganda of the rich.... if i made any mistakes in my writing (gramatical and such) please note, english is not my native language, so those stem from there. that beeing said. its not a personal atack against you but it is fact that you where simply wrong in your video.

    • @NameHierEinfuegenNr1
      @NameHierEinfuegenNr1 Місяць тому

      addon. the risk, for example, in bezos case was taken by his parent who risked THEIR money for example. hope that clears up what i wanted to say....

  • @ZBgyming
    @ZBgyming Місяць тому

    What a video from the goat. Take this advice everyone. Taking action is actually putting this advice into practice.

  • @SuccessRedefined_1
    @SuccessRedefined_1 Місяць тому

    This was the message I needed to get NOW 🙌🏼 Thank you 😊

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit Місяць тому

      Like and subscribe for more of the same! So pleased I could help. You’ve got this!

  • @christiescanlonoffical
    @christiescanlonoffical 2 місяці тому

    Top video Alfie! Have you considered putting this into a podcast format? I could lead to more engagement. Just a thought 💭

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 2 місяці тому

      @@christiescanlonoffical Thanks Christie, I am not opposed to it at some point in the not too distant future. Would like to keep growing and see if there is further demand for that down the line.

    • @christiescanlonoffical
      @christiescanlonoffical 2 місяці тому

      @@TheAlfPursuit keep at it 💪👍

  • @RamblesBrambles
    @RamblesBrambles 2 місяці тому

    So many words...very little sense

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 2 місяці тому

      Hi! Thank you for your engagement and I am sorry to hear that you didn’t resonate with the message. I will take your feedback on board Rambles. Have a great night.

  • @franstef
    @franstef 2 місяці тому

    Hey Alf! Keep up the good work and keep the videos coming! I'm afraid I've missed a few of your past videos, but keep on sharing your words and wisdom with everyone here! 🙏🏻

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 2 місяці тому

      @@franstef Thanks Franstef! I appreciate this comment. I am also pleased that I have had some small impact. I hope all is well with yourself and you are living your best life.

  • @ahmedbaklam4580
    @ahmedbaklam4580 3 місяці тому

    Valuable lessons 👍 the ending though 😂

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 3 місяці тому

      Thanks brother, always time for a giggle😂 Like and subscribe for more ;)

  • @TheAlfPursuit
    @TheAlfPursuit 3 місяці тому

    If you enjoyed todays video don’t forget to SMASH the like button and SUBSCRIBE for more Self-Development content like this! 💪🏻

  • @OfficialTransformers
    @OfficialTransformers 3 місяці тому

    🤩🎬GREAT VIDEO🎬🤩 I’m glad I found your channel & I MOST DEFINITELY look forward to seeing MORE of your videos🔔 📺 I do mostly TRANSFORMER Stop Motion 🎬📸🎞️ I hope you enjoy my animation‼️

  • @TheAlfPursuit
    @TheAlfPursuit 3 місяці тому

    If you enjoyed todays video don’t forget to SMASH the like button and SUBSCRIBE for more Self-Development content like this! 💪🏻

  • @alexrisso532
    @alexrisso532 3 місяці тому

    This video should have millions of views

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 3 місяці тому

      Thanks for the kind words Alex, fingers crossed 🤞🏻😂 If you enjoyed make sure to subscribe to the channel for more of the same good stuff!

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  • @MystReveal
    @MystReveal 4 місяці тому

    1st one no, 2nd one yes

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 4 місяці тому

      The good thing is that you feel in control. Which honestly is more than most people can say so well done for that. Secondly, why do you think even though you do not get the boost that you want that you continue to swipe?

  • @EeenieWeenieTeenyWeeny
    @EeenieWeenieTeenyWeeny 4 місяці тому

    Thankyou. Currently feeling distant from my husband. He's always on his phone as soon as he wakes up untill he goes to bed. I can't help but think it's something I'm doing wrong. Maybe I don't show him attention why he looks for it elsewhere.

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 4 місяці тому

      For starters, you are not doing anything wrong! Make yourself at peace with that. Technology can play tricks on the mind and more than likely your husband is experiencing lots of small, quick dopamine hits from using the phone and apps a lot of the time so his brain is training him to conduct these behaviours more often. It is more than likely unconscious and not anything to do with you. Maybe a gentle conversation of how him spending too much time makes you feel might be a good idea. If after you have expressed yourself things persist, then maybe you can start to feel more concerned but more than often in these cases, this stuff isn’t conscious. It gets me sometimes too. It’s like candy for the brain and it never ever stops. Maybe share this video with him, or if that’s not a good idea, follow my page as I plan to make more videos about this topic and possibly the information might help the issue. Feel free to check out the full video which is available at the bottom of this short for a more full picture. I really hope that I can help.

    • @EeenieWeenieTeenyWeeny
      @EeenieWeenieTeenyWeeny 4 місяці тому

      @@TheAlfPursuit Thankyou for replying and for the advice I really appreciate it. Definitely subscribing thankyou again

  • @Meacci133
    @Meacci133 4 місяці тому

    No

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 4 місяці тому

      Then you are clearly one of the people who has quite a healthy balance of things. Good job bro!

    • @Meacci133
      @Meacci133 4 місяці тому

      @@TheAlfPursuit thank, have a great day

  • @schoolneverteach
    @schoolneverteach 4 місяці тому

    Thank u for sharing this in the most non-judgy way

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 4 місяці тому

      Thank you for your words-I think this is definitely a topic that does not require judgement but rather understanding instead. That way we can help rather than hinder. If you enjoyed consider subscribing for more of the same good stuff💪🏻

  • @TheAlfPursuit
    @TheAlfPursuit 4 місяці тому

    If you enjoyed todays video don’t forget to SMASH the like button and SUBSCRIBE for more Self-Development content like this! 💪🏻

  • @whenigrowup.podcast
    @whenigrowup.podcast 4 місяці тому

    Trying to disengage with the dopamine hit really is a graft, thanks for sharing

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 4 місяці тому

      Pleased I could be of some help🙏

  • @A10-y4r
    @A10-y4r 4 місяці тому

    Looking like Marcus Aurelius Alf😅💪🏾 True stoic

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 4 місяці тому

      That’s a hell of a comparison Angelo😂 I’m flattered. Thanks brother🙏

  • @Abdullahahmed-yw3gn
    @Abdullahahmed-yw3gn 4 місяці тому

    Love your videos Alf! I've some Ideas and suggestions to share with you, what's the best way to contact you directly? I'd love to have a conversation with you.

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 4 місяці тому

      Hi Abdullah, For enquiries my channel email is attached to my page. Thanks for the kind words.

  • @jishnu9636
    @jishnu9636 4 місяці тому

    Just what I needed. Thanks for the video man. I really wanna get in good shape and work on my self image and I'm commenting this to affirm that I will.

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 4 місяці тому

      Glad I could help! Keep coming back to this and if you have any friends in the same position, send them this video and then you can keep each other accountable together. You have this, thank you for your kind words🙏

  • @rocco-s-107
    @rocco-s-107 4 місяці тому

    Hi Alf, i just came across a coment you made 6 years ago when you were 14 😄ua-cam.com/video/moru6Ts2TEI/v-deo.html

  • @franstef
    @franstef 5 місяців тому

    Hi Alf! 😄Got your notification today, so it's working now! Knowing specifically what you want can help you reach your goals. Sometimes we think of "losing weight" or "learning a new language", but we don't know exactly what marks we need to reach to understand we made it already. Right now, for me it's "losing weight" and "earning more money" (or getting a better paying job), but I need to be more specific about those goals. 😅 Keep up the good work!

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 5 місяців тому

      Meu amigo, és o número um. Obrigado pelas tuas palavras amáveis e fico contente por as coisas estarem agora resolvidas. Your goals sound great and I hope now you can break them down and be more strategic in your approach. I know you have this!

    • @franstef
      @franstef 5 місяців тому

      @@TheAlfPursuit Thank you, Alf! 🙏🏻Also, thank you for the kind words in Portuguese. We'll make it! 😄👍

  • @franstef
    @franstef 5 місяців тому

    Hi, Alf! 😄 Great productivity tips and guide, it's short and sweet. If you keep it up, you'll reach your goal before the end of the year! 🙏🏻

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 5 місяців тому

      Thanks Franstef! I will keep going and going. How are things going with yourself?

    • @franstef
      @franstef 5 місяців тому

      @@TheAlfPursuit Not bad, but I'm looking forward to being better. 😄 By the way, your videos are not showing up on my feed, I need to look your channel up to be able to watch them. 😅 I'm just letting you know, as maybe you need to check this out.

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 5 місяців тому

      ⁠​⁠@@franstefHi man, we all want to keep improving, that’s the true beauty in life. Don’t be too harsh to yourself though🙏 Yes, there’s a setting I’ve been trying out for a while to not notify subscribers as it can sometimes expose the channel to more viewers. But I understand my current subscribers are not seeing the content as much. I am going to change this on the next video and assess the difference. Thanks for pointing it out man.

    • @franstef
      @franstef 5 місяців тому

      @@TheAlfPursuit You're welcome! And thank you for your words. 🙏🏻😄

  • @pavelisaev804
    @pavelisaev804 5 місяців тому

    I wish you luck brother

    • @TheAlfPursuit
      @TheAlfPursuit 5 місяців тому

      @@pavelisaev804 Thank you brother-words like these push me further and further. if you haven’t already, consider checking out the full video with the link below. If you like the content I would love to have you as a subscriber!

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