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thank you for your valuable videos!

thank you for your summaries and tips on all of these points, what an efficient and valuable video. i find myself wondering if you are enneagram 3 or with a 3 wing because you work fashions that seemed to go with each number you were describing! it was cool. i especially loved the shift for the enneagram five which makes me think of the kind of clothing my enneagram five brother often wears. i am enneagram four with a three wing though some sort of a five wing is there as well. i find your videos very insightful about my type.

very helpful thank you!!

Oh my Goddd, the deflecting responsibility by blaming others. Something I have been experiencing with three unhealthy 4s over the past two years and cannot deal with it anymore. Wish a healthy 4 could make them understand my position because I am way too emotionally reactive to these change-resistant people who keep clashing with each other and gaslighting those who criticise their behaviour, viewing themselves as the victim, nevermind if they’re in their early twenties or fifties. As you can read in this comment. I am way too aggressive; years of frustration; need to step back from situations early but don’t seem to learn either. (This is not about any other 4 than the three folks in question btw, so if you’re a 4 and reading this, please don’t feel attacked, I am not talking about you.) *Edit:* And yeah, the “those who criticise their behaviour” does mean plural because I am not the only one who called out their emotional coping mechanism of constructing twisted narratives that make them look and feel better but have been witness to how they badmouth these other people afterwards to discredit their arguments. (What exactly is authentic about that?) Guess that’s gonna happen to me too now. Oh well. Regards, a frustrated 5w6.

Im a troubleshooter into computers, DIY, cars, reading and I dont like to create art, so 5w6. I do like art such as movies and music though and I hate when people are emotional over little things

Thanks for these videos! I suspect that a pastor I know is an 8. Now I have a starting point on how I can effectively communicate with him.

They say we need a Strong authority figure in the workplace to have clear instructions and guidelines for us since we don't typically like group projects.

Thank you!!

Thank you!!

You truly are a gift! Thank you so much. I amotally a one.

5w6 - very helpful! Thank you for the video.

"Self care isnt selfish" is such a hard thing to get in your head as a 2. I still struggle with it. Luckily my amazing husband us always reminding me

This theory is literally pseudoscience, and everybody that TRIES their hardest to substitute therapy with enneagram is insane. Not only will enneagram never be scientific, it will never know the way trauma actually works in the brain or how to heal it. Most traumatized children have ALL of these cores, some might show harder in certain ages, situations or periods in life. The fact that you need to have one, or at most three if you believe in tritype is not helpful at all. Childhood trauma is MUCH more complex than this and certain coping mechanisms are there to help you survive. Trying to stop these mechanisms is irrational when you don't heal the actual problem.This is gonna fuck up truly mentally ill people even more. If you wanna heal yourself get therapy, and stop relying on random "enneagram coaches" or spiritual activists. Disintegration/ integration lines are bonkers again, because any rational human being would tell you that any type can become bed ridden and narcotic at their worst. Because it's clinical depression, it doesn't care about your personality. Does this mean every fucking enneagram disintegrates to 9 towards the end? No. And trust me, depending on circumstances you could and would disintegrate into any enneagram. Use the enneagram as a fun self identification tool, because that's all it will ever be. It's trying so hard to "fix" certain types but in the process forgets that different world views exist, which was the whole point anyway. 1's can overwork themselves , but do you seriously think you can just change their worldview because you don't understand it? Wings are absolutely useless since they can always alter. It doesn't even take into account adult life trauma. ANY trauma will change your personality, at ANY point in time. Why exactly does the enneagram think it's always going to be fixed? God knows. You might tell me right now, "YESS, of course!! You should obviously go to therapy for these issues". So then what is the point of the enneagram? It obviously markets itself as a healing tool, and it doesn't do it's job. It's a romanticized version of real life and psychology. It's pop psychology. So, again, see it as a fun quirky personality test. Rationalization in the comments, here it comes...

Two people in my family were 8s and looking back, they enjoy making people walk on egg shells. What fun…

I can't box myself into either wing. I have qualities of both. Makes sense because I am a Libra sign (indecision, swing one way or the other). Anger is also an issue for me (very typical 8 quality) due to my emotional Moon being in the sign of anger, Aries.

I’m an 8x7. Thanks for this video!

The fact that type 6’s have so many diverse career choices is a big problem itself. Too much indecision. That’s why I am still unemployed and paralyzed as far as career options go.

7w8 xD

I want everything the 3 wants but my temperament is more the 5. Basically? i want to be Picasso, hahaha.

Your videos are good and explanatory. Can you make a video on 9w8 forgetfulness and give examples of people?

Stress is fun for no one. What I like as a TWO is pay attention to self care, thank you.

You are cute 😊

Wow, you're really, really good at this. Some people on youtube, it seems like they've only got a general grasp of what a type four is, embellish inaccurately, and I disagree with about half of what they say, you on the other hand not a single sentence did not resonate with me, so fascinating. Do you have any top enneagram books I should be checking out to not just learn more about us type fours but other enneagrams in general? I'm actually finding this as a potential way to relate more with other people which has always been kind of a difficulty for me, and whatever/wherever you have studied appears to have the info spot on.

🤙 Determinism is Freedom 🤙

Learned about ennegram recently, and 9 seems to be what I get the most, however, if they show any wings, no matter the test 1 and 8 are nearly split evenly with one sometimes being only 2% stronger than the other. Interestingly though, neither wing is the type that is second highest, which is 5 when taking the tests.

I am a type 1 and my husband and type 8. It seems clear to me we are both in areas of stress, and it's forming this harmful feedback loop. Watching these videos is helping give me ideas for how to break the cycle and jump into something more positive. Thank you!

Stop it... this is too accurate 😂

I dont understand why there's always an advice at the end. I hate tips and advices

Tritype: any subtype, growth, stress point of all 3 intelligence centers are the same So sx 2, but so 6 and sp 9 dont exist as tritype for example

Omg im unhealthy for like 10 years

I’d consider myself a healthy 8-7 overall. But there’s always room to grow!

I think I'm a 9w1sx, but this sure does sound like me right now. And I'm a creative type, so that resonates too. 🤔

Create a list of why I want to become more vulnerable? 0 understanding here.

New to this but have had a coach assess me as a 7W8 (strong) which i def relate to. I feel I am thoughtful AND intuitive but incredibly annoyed with how slow things travel at work which causes me to speak up strongly. I would like to mitigate this, I'm not sure it's always helpful even tho my colleagues say it is. Thoughts?

Hmm, what if you behaved like the types in the aggressive stance as a child or teenager but got punished a lot because of impulsive actions that had bad consequences, so you learned to withdraw and thoroughly think things through to avoid further pain? I am now in the withdrawn stance. I rarely act on my thoughts and feelings but overthink a lot. But as a child/teenager, I didn’t care about consequences and just acted in the moment.

You explained 5w6 very well Although in 5w4 only focused on their bad side . You didn't covered it as well as other some. Videos For example 5w4 are more likely to understand the feelings and emotions of others

I am both. I balance it well. I love knowledge a lot. And ı socıalize. Sometimes I sisolate myself as well. Depending o the groups of people.

I find I lean more heavily on my 6 wing at work and when I’m recharged before attending a planned social gathering for work. However, outside of work and in regular day to day activities and life, my 4 wing shines through

I now understand why I've rejected perfectly decent men because I was just a place holder and knew I was one of many that could hold that place. I wanted all or nothing. Still not married, but no regrets!

1:53 : True, though I think the causality flows this way: context creates lots of demands from others ⇒ 9 concedes to the demands as they always do instead of exploring their own interests ⇒ general underlying sense of anxiety ⇒ 9 becomes unhealthy (ie. exhausted) ⇒ 9 starts avoiding interactions to recover

Yeah I notice both wings in my life.. sometimes I think it depends on how I’m doing and what I’m doing…

I think, I relate to both. But if I have to choose it will be 5w4. But it's a tough call. I am more withdrawn, less social. But it's a tough call. I could be slap bang in the middle.

Thanks for your effort

Great ! The most clearly and concisely explained about enneagram types ever I have read and watched. Thank u.

no type 2 and 1?

Great and Truth !

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Thank u. Informative.