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The truth on this video is amazing, it's talking directly to me. Thank you so much for opening my eyes.

Please do not stop from spreading this divine wisdom. I wish that this channel and such others alike can thrive so others with the hunger to learn remain motivated to continue to grow mentally, emotionally and physically. 🙏🏾

Thank you ❤

That was great❤

Solid advice bro🙏🏽 gonna teach some of these to my students

Have you read the book u r giving as reference. What other references you follow? Do you inculcate or try to adopt the ideas u mention in video?

Very interesting. Thanks for sharing. 😊

I'm confused. If we stop being nice to each other, how should we be to one another? Do we want to be treated nicely or the opposite? Does it mean being an A-hole, being rude, or being disrespectful is OK? Can somebody drop a different angle so I can understand this lesson?

There is no calm here !! Your crazy ass eent called a freaking thief i never met nielr that had tge right to have my information an investigator!! Than went and accused us over a man tgat didnt even worked !! And now desperate truong t9change narratives!!!!

Grateful for the knowledge. God bless your effort.

Horse shit being nice and respectful has given me a good life and I’m surrounded by positive people

To hard

If you have ever mistreated/abused someone for no reason and didn't care how it affected them mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually, healthise, time wise anyway of life really.... basically didn't care about their needs and wants..... don't be surprised in the future when they don't care about your needs and wants as well. It's not karma Its called we are all adults and the world doesn't revolve around you. Treat people how you want to be treated If you didn't care about their needs and wants and they accepted it without trying to you back for hurting them or be in a back and forth with you You should accept it too when your needs and wants aren't important to them as well It's not being mean. It's a grow up. Treat others how you yourself wish to be treated It's having standards It's having boundaries It's having self respect It's having self love Also it's having platonic luv for others and acknowledging that if someone treats you bad for no reason and you have never hurt them or done anything wrong to them. Their ill behavior towards you was never about you It's okey to let people you have hurt move on if they don't want to be in your life. It's called taking accountability and letting them do what makes them happy By clinging on to someone you hurt that never did anything to you. All you are doing is making them resent you Having the skin colour as me doesn't give you a pass on what i accept in my life and don't accept and it doesn't give you a pass on abusing me or disrespecting me So don't ever come up to me after hurting me for no reason to update me on your personal growth on how you have changed It's your growth not mine You can update your therapists. Not me

Nice and enlightening, thanks for sharing. What tool did you use for the video effects? Im a hobby video maker :D Keep up the good work.

“Difficulties strengthen the mind, as labor does the body.” - Seneca

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Im beyond advise !! I want this petson here !! Who sat here did all this being wrong for such a long time 4 years !! Tryong to traumtaze me for a story tgat could nit even be verified because it was completely false !! And nows person plans to keep going tryi g to traimatize my don ??? You should be in court with me !! Everyone knows you a damn liar !!! Tgey see you doing all of this and here you are deny it !!!!

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I like to manipulate so I have to be just nice enough to remember I’m also not.. which sounds different than it reads. I use it to subconsciously maintain dynamics and situations when the only way to do so is implant the idea as there own. I am nice but realize the truth now..that being said tact, cohesive compromise and respect are indispensable.

Love this!!!

Sometimes it's good to take a short break from all the seriousness. A brief smile isn't always disastrous.

Is self-hate related to over- or under-estimation of the self, leading to self-disapproval?

This video challenges the common notion of being 'nice' and reveals how it can be a hidden prison, preventing us from living authentically and reaching our true potential. Through Stoic wisdom and self-discovery, we learn the power of assertiveness, setting boundaries, and cultivating inner strength. A powerful reminder that true strength lies in living authentically, not just in pleasing others!

Never again

I thank you for sharing such an indepth wisdom.I need this since long ,I have been raised and taught "OTHERS BEFORE SELF"I practiced all my life till I got desperate.I was taught GOOD KARMA will come in full circle in future.

And that fuclin annoying,bland,monotonous, senseless, insipid, distracting back-ground noise is awful!

This narrator's 'Vocal Fry' voice is so fuclin annoying!

I have very bad mental health problems and specifically social anxiety problems and I find that being too nice leaves u feeling as though you're treated like an idiot by other men. So I'm going to try my best to stop being nice, because it gets u absolutely nowhere, be authentically yourself instead

I stopped being nice, after my mom died, I now have no one I need to be nice to anymore. So fuck them all

Ouch! This resonates with me a lot!

The juxtaposition of kindness and Stoicism presents an intriguing philosophical inquiry, as these concepts, while not mutually exclusive, emerge from distinct ethical frameworks. Stoicism, a Hellenistic philosophy founded by Zeno of Citium, emphasizes the development of self-control and fortitude as a means of overcoming destructive emotions. The Stoic sage ideally remains unmoved by both misfortune and good fortune, cultivating apatheia (freedom from passion) and ataraxia (tranquility). Kindness, on the other hand, is often associated with empathy, compassion, and active benevolence towards others. It implies an emotional engagement that might seem at odds with Stoic detachment. However, a deeper analysis reveals potential complementarity: 1. Stoic ethics fundamentally aims at virtue, with justice and benevolence being key virtues. Thus, kindness can be seen as an expression of Stoic virtue. 2. The Stoic concept of oikeiōsis (appropriation or orientation) suggests an expanding circle of concern, from self to family to all of humanity. This aligns with the universality often associated with kindness. 3. Epictetus's dichotomy of control can inform our approach to kindness. While we cannot control others' reactions, we can control our own actions, including acts of kindness. 4. Marcus Aurelius, in his "Meditations," frequently exhorts himself to treat others with kindness, viewing it as part of living according to nature and reason. The notion that "kindness opens doors" and "changes people's minds" can be examined through various philosophical lenses: 1. Virtue Ethics: Kindness as a virtuous act can inspire others, leading to a ripple effect of positive behavior. 2. Consequentialism: If kindness leads to positive outcomes (opened doors, changed minds), it could be considered ethically valuable. 3. Social Contract Theory: Kindness can be seen as fostering social cohesion and mutual benefit. 4. Kantian Ethics: Treating others with kindness aligns with the categorical imperative of treating people as ends in themselves. In conclusion, while Stoicism and kindness may seem paradoxical at first glance, a nuanced philosophical examination reveals potential synergies. The Stoic emphasis on virtue and rational action can provide a stable foundation for consistent kindness, while the practice of kindness can be a practical application of Stoic principles in social interactions.

Stoicism meets kindness: inner strength, outer grace. Stoic resilience fuels consistent compassion. Kindness, a rational choice, aligns with virtue. Together, they form a powerful ethic-unmoved by fortune, yet moving hearts. Doors open, minds change, through reasoned benevolence.

Thank you for this. As a person with ADHD, I depended on people pleasing which contributed to my burnouts and feeling disrespected not knowing it was my own fault of pleasing others. I'm a changing man now.

I AM Reminded of "THORN IN THE FLESH " BIBLE. WAY is not only Bed of Roses But THORNS TOO.

Being too nice is a scam to oneself

No problem I really appreciate these videos

SO LET IT BE

SO LET IT BE 🎉

Living in the United States? Be an asshole if you have to.

I think this problem is responsible for more of the misery in my life than any other single thing.

I’m nice until I have to put the gloves on. I do that when people think my kindness makes me less of a man. I choose to be nice and choose to be a good person but that don’t mean I won’t stand up for myself. My best line is I got gloves in my trunk.

WHIES NICE SHE AINT FUCKING WITH SOME IF U EITHER!!! Universal with mines an fuck all hatters an forms BASICALLY…

After being put down by others I need to build up my self confidence in my self

It’s clear on how and why my parents react and respond the way they have.. now thinking back to school days and how we were taught to behave

She was my mother. She was not charming, diagnosed as a psychotic.