I think there are two sides in our mind, one child and many adults.
your own child are likely to be curious ,energetic, honest ,impulsive etc, on the other hand adults are logical, minimum responsible cowards etc.both can look kind and cruel depending on the situation
I think it's important to find your favorite adult out of them listening your only child and enjoy your journey communicating each other.
These days , I think it's tend to justify making child give up at the same time adult make excuse trying to stop child cry or mad
No one can hear your own child's voice even parents or lovely friends.
So stop listening what adults say except for adults your child like and wanna listen somehow.
Stop thinking what your own child do, just support!!