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My best friend had just gotten killed in gang violence before I got my Queris. She was so sweet with people and loved to try to make me feel better when the nights I would wake up screaming from nightmares and crying to sleep. I love this dog. Unfortunately, it looks like I will have to move from my place, and I will not be able to take her with me. It absolutely breaks my heart that I can’t help her like she has helped me so much over the past 6 years. I will never stop beating myself up over it. I feel like I’m betraying her. She became my only friend after my best friend died, I don’t know what I’m gonna do if I get rid of her or what will keep me getting out of bed in the morning. She got my life back on track in the darkest of moments.

I am searching for pet grief videos because what happened to me was weird and this video really helped me. l was walking with a friend to his house which was really far, in the process l petted this stray dog which was really dirty; but very, very kind. Because of this one affectionate action that I gave him, he started to follow us; every kilometer or so we would stop to pet it and we must have walked for over ten kilometers, when he sadly took a wrong turn and got hit very violently by a car. He must not have suffered for more than ten seconds, l say to myself. l barely even know this dog, l tell myself. lt is unimaginable how many dogs die this way every year, l tell myself... and yet, l still feel sadness and guilt and shame for simultaneously being responsible for this dog's death and for inadvertantly putting my poor friend into this horrible situation. l will honour this dog by not stopping to pet strays (as at first l though I should do), but instead I will remember this dog for the rest of my life by actively being more mindful of my actions and by realising that, yes, l am not entirely to blame; but next time if a stray dog is following me for too long and l know that I can't keep it safe... I'll call a friend to pick us, both me and the dog, up and I'd put him back where I found it. This has happened less than a day ago, because of how raw this wound is, my brain is probably worried that l'll feel this way forever, but l'll be okay soon and l will keep petting strays.

I found this video via a article. I’m rehoming my dog tomorrow after having her for 10.5 years. I feel so guilty and I’ve been crying for days now. I’m crippled with anxiety and I feel worthless. But your letter helped me and I really hope I’ll feel less guilty in the future. She will have 2 sisters, a loving home and much more than I can give her right now. It’s just very hard to let go.

Thank you

What incredible work! Profound.

What I’m having difficulty in understanding is why didn’t you take on these new activities while with your husband. There are different stages in life and marriage. It takes time to settle at these different stages and development of your relationship. For example newly married you might be very romantic and excited with your new life but you hit a road block, it can become boring, too comfy and guess what children or maybe pets come along, very exciting, shared interests and then it becomes stressful and very busy as careers and family life grow. Then you get older, a bit more settled and the kids leave home and you are looking at each other saying where is the young exciting person I fell in love with, well they are still there but different. Take time to find them and yourself, new joint interests, new friends, travel, move home, new adventures. It’s before this last stage that it can go so wrong, the restlessness kicks in and conversations don’t happen and maybe it’s easier to go I love you but I don’t want to be with you and maybe you start separate lives, and it can be too late to rekindle what you have just lost. I do speak from experience as my husband did exactly what you have done and I was having none of it and I kept working on our marriage and supported him in his crisis and we started that very old fashion thing called courting. We found ourselves very much still in love and enjoying our life together but with a much deeper respect and love for each other. Sadly he died over a year ago and I would do anything to have our time again, it’s very lonely not having your best friend and love beside you. So, don’t be so quick to separate from your love, time is short.

This is awesome. Laughed all the way through. Now It's time to cut my hair with similar energy because no, I can't follow instructions :P

I had to rehome two of my Bostons Terries due to dog fights and my older ones getting hurt. It been three weeks and I’m still devastated. I rehome through a Boston rescue and I’ve been sent pics and updates. I miss them and still feel lost but I know they are doing better and are adjusting greatly!!

felt like i just died from the inside

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My dog had 5 of these 6 signs. (He werent snappy towards people) He was suffering from kidney failure. We put him through the procedure to help him recover but he came out of hospital looking much worst despite blood levels improving. Screaming and suffering. I took him to be put to sleep last night and my heart is broken. 😢

i just had to give away my dog who was rehomed, we only had for a few weeks, she was a border collie german shepherd mix

Your personality is just lovely. You look great!

How about flipping those windows upside down. giving you air at the top. I see now that it has be suggested before. Did you try it?

I am grieving rehoming my little girl cat of 2 years. I think it's the best decision, but my heart is so hurting. Every time I pass her room, and every morning routine, every afternoon routine, and every bed time routine, is broken, and I feel such a big void in my heart. I am a strong person but rehoming this little animal feels like giving a baby girl away. She is like my little animal child and as a mother I can't imagine how terrifying she is right now, being caged away at the Humane Society. We found her a good new human parent but this time is so, so, so difficult. I knew she loved and trusted me 1000% and here I am, away from her. I feel like I've made the wrong decision, and I miss my little girl. Rehoming a cat is more difficult than anyone has talked about, or anyone could imagine, or I could have imagined. Hugs to everyone who has had to rehome their furry baby, true friend, loyal companion. God have mercy on all of us.

Nice to see you’re still posting. Hope you are well. I’ll check out your blog! God bless!😘

Ok I have to chime in here. Being the oldest sister of three, it has been heartbreaking to me to see my two younger sisters floating away on me. I get the blame for what our parents did. My parents can do no long as far as they are concerned. They are both deceased now but my sisters still want to hold our parents up on a pedestal, despite all the dysfunction in our family. Being the oldest daughter, I got the brunt of it. My middle sister got some of it too but the youngest one was not as rebellious as me and the middle one and she got the best part of it. So that is the way it is. Thanks for this advice. I guess I have been giving them their space all summer to be apart from me. I am lucky if I get to see them once a month. I have no vehicle to get around to see them and that makes it even worse. And I am the poor one too so I get shade for that. Or silence...it seems like once they both had their menopause, a big light went on in their heads and they just aren't interested in me anymore.

Love it , it looks so good .Take it one day at the time.

The message of the gospel is very similar to this the veil, the dust, the armor of God. Except there is hope at the end. Hope and peace in the suffering of the mundane.

But how is this enough? How is just simply living because you are here and the world is shit and no one cares and nothing matters. How does that have enough sustenance to carry you?

Only knew my dog Asher for 4 months yet I cry myself to sleep sometimes, we can’t afford a lot of things despite liking my dog which hurt me a lot

Thank you for your words, this is what I needed to hear as I am 4 days away from moving from the USA to Sweden. I have never even moved out of my state. This is big for me. Thank you for the reminder of why I’m doing this!

Thank you so much it was very insightful and real.

OMG! I guess it is something tondo with us being the same age, but I just said the, "one bite at a time," to someone this morning! 😂😂 Your living my dream!

My parents got divorced and my dad and I didnt have enough hands on deck to look after our two new Dachsunds. They needed way more attention than we could provide and he made the decision and I wanted to support him. Thank you for the video. It is a uniquely strange experience because it is a decision born out of care, but you cant help but feel terrible, like you let them down. Banksy and Lola, I will miss you so much and I hope you remember us fondly. I love you both

This is very relevant for me right now.

I had to give away my sweet baby a couple days ago. Out of no where he started attacking me, which completely destroyed my comfort being near him. I knew I couldn’t have him around anymore. What kind of life would he have while I need to keep my distance from him. He was always the sweetest baby… my heart is broken and I am grieving so deeply. I am missing him every moment of the day. I miss who he was a couple weeks ago. I wish this never happened. This video makes me cry, because my baby’s name was Georgie too.

Look what you have to say, and after 2+ years with my daughter and the generational estrangements, I have come to accept many of the things you have said. I have my moments, and acceptance has not been easy, but in the end, much more freeing. I come to a much more positive experience of myself and the estranged people in my life. Thank you for sharing this, it is one of the best UA-cams I have watched on this subject.

My dog died a week and a half ago. He was only 9. I feel tremendous guilt as he was unwell and not himself on the Friday which with hindsight I see so clearly now. I went out to a concert with my mum thinking he would be fine. I did bring him to the out of hours ED that night and what followed was a horrendous 2.5wks of vet hospital admission, ups and downs and an eventual heart attack when he passed away (he had a flare up of his IBD and was diagnosed with PLE which seemed to be aggressive). I always think every experience we have in life is trying to teach us a lesson. I think the lesson in this for me is to not take the people and animals I love most in life for granted. I always assumed my darling boy would be with me until he was at least 12. I took him for granted and was not in tune with him and his needs and was often selfish. It’s been the hardest lesson of my life to learn but I know I will be a better dog parent moving forward to any dogs who will hopefully come into my life in the future.

My 13+ year old Golden Retreiver is 3 out of 6. The pain meds. aren't cutting it and she can barely get around anymore. Poor thing falls over when she squats to pee 50% of the time. My husband and I have to lift her off the floor all the time and she weighs 90 lbs. According to the age chart for her breed she is now over 85. I hate to lose her, but I fear she will die at the side of my bed while sleeping at night. I think it's time and I don't want to feel the horrible guilt I felt the last time I put a pet down. This time though I feel the decision is being made for us and she doesn't have much of a life at all anymore. It's getting near fall time here and I don't see her making it though another winter in a million years. I'm just here preparing my mind for what will come whether I do anything about it or not. She has a vet appointment in two weeks.

I really needed to see this. I’ve been struggling with my brothers estrangement for the last two years, and I was at my wits end. Thank you for this ❤️

My dog has been a little depressed recently. I think he knows..

im thisclose to giving my dog up. it's becoming more than i can responsibly handle trying to take care of Ebike and run a new business. not sure, but im close. /Bklyn👑

I cannot express how much satisfaction I got after watching this video of yours. We had to rehome our 3-month-old lab. He was only with us for one week, but that one week was beautiful. I cannot imagine people rehoming their pets after months and years. This one week was filled with beautiful moments and lots of cuddles. I cannot handle this. I don't know if I would have been able to handle it if he had been with us for a longer time. My husband and I cried our hearts out, and it aches. But I hope my Whiskey is happy in his new home and that he gets the best life he deserves. I love him so, so, so much! This was the best decision for us and for him!

When someone says you feel it is often gaslighting. The truth is I am xxx no i feel xxxx and it is indeed a totally fine thing . Next time please don’t use the word feel because I v seen a lot this from ppl use it for gaslighting others truth ❤

My mom and dad and aunt and coworker (1) truly show they care for me. I do compare myself to someone I associate with. She gets all the gifts during our birthday at our job while everyone forgot about mine lol. She got 50 dollar gift card 100 dollars from the boss, flowers, a purse, a cup cards. She also got a 3 doller raise. This person started working here about 4 months ago after I trained her. Ive been here for a year. The one coworker I love got be a card and I treasure our relationship even if she didnt get me anything. I also still have the same pay as when I started. I just feel forgotten. There not rude and I always feel guilty for being envious. But I work hard too. I always wonder what Im doing wrong especially when the new employee also just got a raise. Idk im just struggling and feel terrible about the outcomes of everything

Thank you for this!

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Beautiful dogs and home, stunning views of nature 💙☀️🐕🐾🐾

MY boyfriend used to be a Christian but he isn't anymore , and he wants to get married but im scared because of this fact. He treats me really really good always has, but it gets hard when we discuss religion. I just wish i had someone to cover me in prayer or stand with me on something im being tested in, or to even attend church with me lol so I'm so confused on should i stay in this relationship. I love him so much but I've only had one relationship in my 50years on this earth , where my partner was a Christian.

I am not here because i plan on giving up my dog but times are tough financially and how do you get started when your consistently consistent on day to day tasks but have no money or work ethic or people that believe in you so on and so fourth. Life is tough. People dont care. You can walk into a place of business and not ask to speak with the manager and then leave there not even asking or having the thought that no one cares and yes no one actually cares enough about you there all coordinating there lives fending for the families, im so horrible at coordinating with people but im still kickin' im having a health condition i have no idea if its anxiety or i just need a sippy sip of water but the amount pressure the amount of pain i feel i am exhausted, i slept today, im trying to pick up on new sleep habits, im not taking any medications, i am consistent, just tired, but im kicking, why am i allowing myself to stuggle so much? Any ideas?

Hi there, looking for answers please. My son got a dog 8 yrs ago even tho i told him his lifestyle and mines cannot accomodate a dog. He went behind my back and got a Pitbul bluenose female , she is just the best dog ever but was never trained . My son got injured a month later and i was about to give her up but he told me no, since then ive been taking care of her until he got better then he moved kn and had a baby and didnt want her anymore so i kept her and promised i would take care of her becasue she was always getting sick since she was neglected and no one wanted to walk her. As im getting ita affecting my mental and physical health, i am diabetic and suffer wirh depression, i cry every day becasue i dont wanna walk her, ive neglected my health for so long and now i cant see the fun and joy of having her. I live in an apt and theres not much space around so i walk her further so she gets her exercise. Theres so much i still wanna do in my life and visir my family in another country but i feel restricted cuz i have no one to watch her. For months now i feel like giving her up but i dont k ow if anyone will want her at 8yrs old. I left her for one wk and she got depressed and wouldnt eat so idk what to do, I would like some advice please

So? Where are your cats?😅

Thanks a lot . It’s getting difficult for me to rehe my pup . I am single and am not able to handle him and balance my house job and his schedule . I feel bad when his food time delays . It’s gonna be tough for me to part away from him .

I am more bothered by the fact that nobody cares about me so much / deeply as I do for others. For example; I met someone online, we click together and that person starts to matter so much to me. And when something bad happens to this person, it also makes me feel bad. Like, I start to care deeply about this person. But even despite of us "clicking" together, the other person never care so deeply about me. Not even sure If they slightly care... Even when we spend whole day talking and sharing stuff - its not like in my mind that we are close.... I just keep meeting people who either don't care so much overall about others. They don't attach to other people while I attach quickly. I don't understand how someone can be social butterfly, claiming he loves people and talking with people, helping people but he has no deeper care about people.

I left my French bulldog outside to use the bathroom but I left her because I thought my sister would let her back in but I forgot about her and my sister left the room and my mom was sleeping and I was in my room so no one herd her scratching at the door. It was really hot outside I then found her laying down in her favorite spot I wished I could tell her sorry or how I should’ve let her in to give her water I still fill guilt and blame myself. She was so loving I miss her so much and it was July 23 24 I miss her more and more every day thank you for helping me grieve 😭😭😭😭😭

Im giving away my chihuahua today thank you

What if you live in the same home with a man who already has 2 teens from another woman, even if they broke up 13 years ago, i come in their lives 3 years ago, and moved in 2 years ago, and still feel rejected, unwanted, like im bothering them, they’re annoyed of me, they have never asked anything about me and who i am and where i come from, and even i tell all that to my bf, he doesn’t do anything, saying im the adult here and it is my job to break the ice, but everyone around me tell me to leave them be and not to go fast and let them come to me but still have not changed since i started going out with their dad? But have no money to move out yet… and rent is extremely high right now… and my job doesn’t pay a lot… what do i do….

Thank you so much I was pushing against my partner, oh honey, thank you <3

Thank you for this video I just put my dog to sleep 3 days ago. I feel like a monster. I feel like it was the wrong decision. I feel terrible admit. I'm miserable. The mornings at the nights have been the worst. I'm blind, so pictures aren't really helping, but it's cool when people describe them to me. Put watching videos and hearing her bark. It's great, but. Once the video ends, I just feel the emptiness again. But after seeing this video I did c. That I guess she had all 6 of those things. She was about to be 11 years old next month. I just feel like if I had the money to do all the treatments and the tests. There was a possibility to save her and since I couldn't afford a bunch of that. I want West putting her to sleep. I feel like I gave up on her. I'm sorry I'm sorry. Xena