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Help me understand what's wrong with the thought process.

@@jayhurtcoachingThe mental gymnastics of it all. Respect for the information (because it is beneficial) but some women (and men for that matter) have a hard time with accountability in my experience. It’s that simple.

@@DarrellRJr Very fair point, and also true. Women (and men) often have a hard time with accountability. For some men though, it's seems disrespectful and/or a double-standard that a woman doesn't have to apologize, but it's not the same for us in a relationship. We can't make her apologize, but if we have context to understand the why behind the situation (sometimes lack of accountability), we can navigate it better. I appreciate your thoughts!

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Some of us have to refine those skills, so we don't have to wonder. Thanks for the comment!

Respect is most often earned. I would add her respect is won when a man shows himself to be the man she expects him to be. Kind, faithful, trustworthy, considerate, selfless and loving are a few of the traits that help to win her respect.

I'm not sure which part you see as contentious. You can earn a woman's respect in many ways. I appreciate your comments!

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Ha! I hope they don't...but I appreciate the positivity! Thanks for the comments!

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Culture definitely plays a part in how she decides to respond (or not). Thanks!

This is a great question. Women stop respecting men if she succeeds in asserting dominance, because it's more of a challenge she wants to portray than a reality she's trying to attain. Rarely, if ever, do you find women that want a dominant role in a relationship. What she wants is to know that a man is capable of being the leader she wants him to be. In my experience, I haven't encountered even one successful relationship where the woman is the dominant partner, but to your point, there's probably some out there. They are the exception, not the rule. Thanks for the comments!

I don't think women are sneaky and devious. Women see life differently than men do. As I mentioned, women actually apologize in general more than we do. If we listen to them and find out what they think is apology worthy, we'll understand their perspectives better. I appreciate you chiming in!

I think many of the books that target men around self confidence and self-esteem leave a bit to be desired. A great book to start with is Brene Brown's book, The Gifts of Imperfection. It helps with regain that true believe in self. I appreciate the support!

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Nah...quite the opposite. It's not what you say and do, it's how you deliver it. That's what makes banter not just a skill, but an art. Appreciate the comments.

We differ on the point of "What women consider which men are worthy of their attention to begin with." Men choose women, not the other way around. Speak to some women and you'll be surprised how many women would be happen to be "chosen." If we engage with more women that match our values, we'll find more women that desire our attention. I appreciate the thoughtful comments!

Not really. I'm describing how to deal with the fear and intimidation that resonates in our head. If we can control the voice in our head that's making our interaction with women more challenging, we can date any girl we want. You're in control of your outcome, not the negative stuff in your head. Appreciate the comments!

@@jayhurtcoaching men are not intimidated by women

@@LinkinParked Not always, but sometimes this is definitely the case. Some men are intimidated by successful women, some by confident women, attractive women, a woman taller than a man, these are a few...there are a plethora of reasons.

@@jayhurtcoaching No, it is their attitude that repulses men, their masculine behaviour. No man is afraid of a woman. You are not a man, you have feminine thinking. Were you raised in a single mother home? probably.

The Power of Self-Confidence by Brian Tracy is a good read. I'll be offering a book and other content on this topic in the near future. Click here to get one of my free dating strategies and I'll also let you know when my book is released: relationship-strategies-intl.ck.page/4b99739033

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I appreciate you sharing. I wouldn't advise you to "forget her" so to speak. Like you said, you feel like you're forcing it. So don't force it...as a matter of fact, do the exact opposite of forcing it. You know how you feel about her and now, she does as well. You don't need to say it again, or even act on it. Live your life! Go and enjoy the things you like to do. The more you spend time being the best version of yourself, she will see you doing your thing (even though it's not with her most of the time) and she'll be intrigued and appreciate it. There's a chance she won't be into you, even after this...but you have to be ok with the outcome. Focus on enjoying and living your life, and that will stop you from forcing anything on her. I believe you'll be very happy with the outcome. Good luck!

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I think that is the core of the problem. We must learn how to interact in-person. Swiping left and right is fine, but then how do you interact once you actually meet? It's important for men to learn how to meet and interact with others in real life, not only for dating purposes, but in every facet of life. Appreciate the comment!

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Interesting take. I actually have a video coming discussing logic vs psychology - where we'll touch on how to understand psychology informs us about women more than what we would consider basic logic. You're saying a woman is void of logic, but please consider logic is not the measuring stick we should use for women. We would use that for us, because we're different beings. I can tell you that in my experience when a woman "wakes up" from that early form of emotional connection when we are both in our representative phase of dating, my experience has been those things I mentioned in the video, in addition to confidence, etc, have made our relationships even stronger. There's more depth to women than we sometimes give them credit for. Thoughtful response, thanks.

I talk about attraction, compatibility and chemistry in other videos. I agree that they are foundational to successful relationships. These points are the next step--conversations points that are intriguing and get you to the 2nd date. Women are interested in what your goals, dreams and aspirations really look like? To your point, you feel what women say things that are opposite of who they are, these are the things that fill in those blanks. Women generally like men who are ambitious. To be ambitious, you must have vision. Passion is an attractive trait in a man, so back to your point of women being attracted to a man...she's often attracted to more than just your physicality, she's attracted to things such as passion. I appreciate your comments!

Respectfully, this perspective is literally a lack of confidence. First of all, why is my goal getting to third base? My goal is getting to know her. The requirements I mention serve every man well. Have you ever noticed that there are beautiful women out there that date men that wouldn't "measure up" to her standard physically? -- and they aren't wealthy or badboys. Do you know why? They are confident in who they are. Average is a state of mind. It doesn't exist - only in our psyche. Rich guys, "badboys," pretty boys, etc...they don't get women because they are those things...they get women because they're confident.

Exactly. Great response!

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