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How are you doing now? ❤

Im not formally diagnosed with BPD, but I am coming to find I have it. I am clinically diagnosed MDD with Anxiety. I think I was misdiagnosed. BPD co morbid MDD. My suicidal thoughts are only internal. I'll close myself off and I know that hurts the people I love, but I feel like I am too much to handle. Im loyal, empathic, kind, giving, hilarious, but yet I have this little entity in me that switches the dial so quick.

I feel ya

I am crying watching this. I am 42 only realised recently I have this! Another failed relationship… I feel you and see you 🌻

I visited today

Girl i wish we were firends !!

heartbreaking ... traumatized people who get incessantly traumatized by their trauma

Thanks for this revelation… hope you are doing better

Whoah, whoah. (Non-BPD person here) No one is really "whole and complete" and you can't expect that of yourself. Life is a journey full of mistakes, and it's only through these mistakes that we learn and grow. Part of a healthy relationship is being comfortable with your own and each other's weaknesses, and growing and learning together. A good partner will make you a broader and rounder person. It is not your job to be whole and complete before they arrive -- that person doesn't really exist. Telling your partner that you're suicidal isn't manipulative and there's absolutely nothing wrong with telling your partner that (after all, that's kinda what they're for). If someone has told you that you were being manipulative, that would be because you attached something else to that expression of suicidal urges -- something else that would have made the person feel manipulated.

Incredibly honest brave and self aware. 👏

i love it

Yes that’s awesome love your fur babies

These videos are so valuable for those who were struck with their partner's BPD. How's it going right now, any plans for making new clips?

This is so true, I lost my dad in an accident when I was two 2. It always felt like someone was missing even without knowing him, because people imprint it on you. There are so many, "what could have beens." Parents form a foundamental part of our identity.

Thx for sharing

Just from listening to you for a few minutes, I would probably make the assumption that you have a very high chance of overcoming some or most of the negative aspects of your symptoms..... I think the reason you have a high chance of overcoming the majority of symptoms is because you own your own issues and you're not deflecting them on anyone else. I think that offers you a much higher chance of success. People forget that people with this diagnosis can be sensitive, kind, and smart, but that definitely depends on the person. We like to categorize people and put them in boxes, and nobody was meant to exist in a diagnostic box

Aerielle, after what happened to you as a child i have not other feelings than deep admiration to you. you are brave by fighting these demons and you deserve the best in life. God bless you.

Thank you for the vid

What I wouldn't give just to hear my girlfriend say these words. ❤

Thank you for all your videos. I hope so much you are doing well.

I have a loved one w BPD (symptoms at least) - undiagnosed and untreated - you are helping me understand. Thank you. I just want her (and you) to be okay.

Totally dont care. Borderlines are evil and have no empathy and complain about how they feel only and ruin everyones life. Who gives a heck what serves you? I only care about the people you hurt not you

Wonderfull!!❤❤❤

I partiallly disagree. Iam perfectly fine with a partner being clingy and i suspect a lot of people are. Iam not okay with the devaluation and the constant insatisfaction side of a bpd partner.

I have hope for you too. Thank you for this video. I am trying to understand someone better and these are helpful.

One of the most underrated videos on UA-cam. Well done. I recently realized how toxic I was being, it’s humbling.

Very well explained !!

This is the most honest explanation I’ve ever heard . Thank you

Accurate ❤

Conceptual knowledge and apply knowledge are two different thing. Think about it this way if there were a supercomputer telling you what to do base on the accumulated knowledge of all human experiences, it'll give you perfectly objective conceptual advice for each situation. By applying those advice you'll end up realizing that it's a far more efficient way to keep those you love around you. The experience of applying those advice and enjoying the fruit of their effect will convince your brain to keep doing them. Systematically apply better behaviour and the result will come and the result will then encourage futur healthy behaviour. Also both bordeline and narcissic end up destroying their own potential because of their own incapacity to turn down the negative side of their personality. The fascinating truth is everything their so desire is very often atteingnable because those personality actually have strong and quality it's their inability to control their negative tendencies that end destroying what they have themselves built. As someone very avoidant one of my ex was bordeline and autistic. Her love bombing, constant attention and overt insistent on having sex actually work with me but everytime I give our relation a chance she'll end up asking more and more until I get tired and leave. It's as though the very quality that would bring me to be intimate with her in way that iam usually not with anyone were constantly undermine by her negative traits. In the absence of those negative traits both (Healthy) narcissic and bordeline could actually be far more achieving then your average man or woman. Control your energy, canalyse it. You ll be far more successful at a lot of thing than you might thing.

God bless your soul Aerielle. You deserve a happy life

Lots of love from a fellow BPD 💞

God bless you Aerielle and people like you. Its like listening to my ex. Firstly, I thought she was just crazy and I discovered the bpd world... sad but it is what it is. She hurted me a lot even physically thats why I was done with her. However, now that I understand bpds I want her to find help so she can be happy and find love and love somebody. you guys suffer same or more than the victims. I am assuming that npd is not your trait.. npd is another animal and I see them as just psychos

I have dissociative amnesia. There is nothing scarier, than being scared of YOURSELF!

I agree so much with this video. My dad overdosed when I was 3 (not sure if it was intentional or not) and the part about mourning someone you never knew really hit me. Father's day activities at school always felt so isolating as a kid

He's better than ever

Cool name

Adam.....Please take back 3DG! You are, and will always be the band that I grew up knowing. Brad's brother was okay for holding your spot for a time. We need you back!

Why did this make me cry? 😭🤍

What a beautiful spot. Otherwise same script more eloquently stated nevertheless. Disconcerting ! Thanks!

I wish he never left 3DG man

Whenever there is a bpd video there are so much losers that come here to hate. And usually are unable to differenciate bpd from bipolar, npd and other disorders so say things that dont make sense. Also the things this girl said are very personal to her. No two borderline are the same.

I grew up in a narc family system and boundaries have been very helpful for my true self to come out ........... I actually had to walk on eggshells around a narcissistic parent it was pretty harmful emotionally and im so glad I found safe enough support groups to process and share about with a person and be validated as a survivor and understand it was abuse, having the tools of self compassion and healthy boundaries modeled to me until I started applying them and my inner child and true self came out . Now im the loving parent who loves honors protects and speaks up for my inner child and finds safe enough connection where I can get my needs met and share my true self im worth it in a good way, im open minded and not judgmental , I dont really need to enable or excuse abusive behavior because its unhealthy rather chose self compassion and healthy boundaries to keep my inner child safe and find safe enough connection where I can share my true self and get my needs met ,and continue to heal , and unpack, safely, and with safe enough connection. and trust were worth it. my heart is open and I dont stigmatize but I do keep my self safe and dont like games or manipulation I prefer honesty and accountability and workable relationshipsss and communication as clear and direct as it can get, and authentic connections im worth it in a good way were worth it.!!!! its not about perfection. but self care integrity and progress ....... were worth it.

were all doing the work in healing mate , im a highly sensitive person, grew up in a narcissistic family system, have benefitted so much from boundaries, my true self came out now im the loving parent who loves honors protects speaks up for and takes care of my inner child, and won't compromise my authentic self in a negative way, the famous abandonment "melange" as Pete walker calls it , is something all survivors of CPTSD have to sit with reparent reprocess externalize, feel, share, and grieve , as they say the only way out is through , with gentleness humor love and respect and healthy boundaries and safe enough connection where I can share my true self and get my needs met were worth it ...... mate! :) thanks for the video!

I'm sorry to hear you have this disorder , I'm sad You Tube has sent me this video as my algarithoms seemingly like to paint a picture on me , I don't have this disorder , but GANGSTALKING Unfortuantly is a crappy reality now in our society and big brother wants to control all fascists of our life , including our relationships and media content , like we are not complete , typical ! It's a pathetic notion ! Law of attraction is a lie ! Mkultra is a reality !

Awesome timing 0:58

wish i could have gone :/

I am at borderline

I am at borderline

Ayo, why did you record it only half ?