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I was married at a young naive age to someone who slowly became this and sabotaged everything in my life. I escaped finally at 53. 10 years of deep intensive therapy. I wish you had had a counselor and a victims advocate to help you get out. Womens shelters could have helped you. But I know what being under the “spell” and its all you know. School Counselors need to be trained in this to help with planning. The pie- could have been taken to poison control and analyzed and then had them arrested and a file at police department and domestic violence advocate who can help people create files. This is domestic abuse. It is cult control behavior and grooming to tolerate. There are detox plans for people who have been part of these toxic systems. I understand that the nervous system becomes paralyzed in fear from their paranoid and overbearing control tactics. It is straight our of ancient chinese texts on how to control people. I am glad you are out. These people are incapable of changing. It is most definitely Programming. Thank you for sharing.

Much love and respect. Been there. Don’t look back…..you’re not going that way.

This is EXACTLY what I’m going through RIGHT NOW

I’m so proud of you and happy that you recognized this abuse. I think the cognitive dissonance is the hardest part!! Sending love and light!!

I smile because if i show how much it hurts it leads to me having to comfort them for my pain.

I planned my escape for two years. I finally made it out, 8 years later I am reeling from this painful life. Thank you for sharing your story.

Woah, that was inciteful and hit a little to close to the bone. It is going to require some serious contemplation. As usual - excellent epiode

I like your video, its so true Narcissist people have very low self confidence and its a personality disorder that cannot get cure or it may but they need to accept they need to get treatment,

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love the vibes of this :)

yay new podcast episode :)

I think I identify with disorganized attrachment style! Even with the same person I now see myself going from extremely anxious to extremely avoidant. Is this even possible??? It feels kinda.. well, disorganized! But seriously this episode helped me understand more about myself and hearing about different attachment styles separately made me realise how much ambivalence (like you said) is in me and my actions. Great episode, thank you for this and glad to see you back!

Now let’s dive into the discussion-I’m eager to hear your thoughts and experiences. Have you come across narcissistic behaviours in your relationships? What questions or insights do you have about the concepts we covered? Feel free to share and let's support each other 💜

Surviving narcissistic abuse and cult trauma can leave deep scars. Have you ever experienced survivor’s shame or found it challenging to adopt healthy coping strategies? I’d love to hear about your healing journey and how you’ve worked through these struggles 💜

As we heard in this episode, co-dependency can be incredibly challenging. Have you faced the struggle of reclaiming your identity after leaving a controlling or co-dependent relationship? I’d love to hear your story-share your experiences in the comments 💜

What about you? Have you faced challenges in finding mental freedom after leaving a toxic relationship or experiencing social exclusion? How has society welcomed you back, if at all? Share your experiences, and let’s support each other 💜

I'd love to hear from you! Have you experienced trauma bonds or stockholm syndrome or seen it in others? If so, have you managed to heal from it or find support? 💜

How has your understanding of love been shaped by past experiences? Have you ever felt uncomfortable with the idea of unconditional love or struggled with seeing love as transactional? Feel free to share your thoughts 💜

What about you? How has your childhood shaped your adult life? Have you ever felt like past trauma leads you to attract problematic people or struggle with self-worth? Share your experiences and thoughts in the comments, and let’s support each other 💜

Now let’s explore narcissism together. Have you encountered misconceptions or traits that seemed to come from someone's environment? Share your thoughts in the comments, and let’s discuss 💜

You are now welcome to share your real-life experiences on this topic. Have you encountered gaslighting, love bombing, or any of the other tactics mentioned in your own life? How did you handle it? Let’s learn from each other's stories 💜

What is your experience with complicated dynamics? Have you ever found yourself in the roles of scapegoat, enabler, or flying monkey? Have you ever confronted someone about their toxic behaviour? How did they react? Share your experiences in the comments, and let’s keep the conversation going 💜

Manipulation tactics can be hard to spot until it’s too late. Have you ever experienced any of these tactics firsthand? I'd love to read your thoughts or personal experiences. Let’s empower each other by sharing and learning together 💜

Let's support each other through these conversations. Have you experienced situations where things seemed perfect on the outside but felt completely different on the inside? How has your journey with trauma or healing unfolded? Feel free to share your experiences in the comments 💜

I’d love to hear your take! Have you had personal experiences with narcissism, either in yourself or others? Share your thoughts in the comments, and let’s dive into this important discussion together 💜

I’d love to hear your thoughts! Which attachment style do you identify with, and have you ever felt it was a barrier in a relationship? Do you think your attachment style changes over time or with different people? Share in the comments, and let’s keep the conversation going 💜

Thanks for sharing. best of luck.

Here from Threads! best of luck to you 🤍

❤ thank you for sharing and talking to us

Thank you. Thank you for talking about what's really important.

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Thank you for sharing, I know it took a lot of energy and work put into this! 💜 you're helping so many by sharing your story.

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Thank you for sharing 💜

I think I fake it every day

I'm glad you escaped at a young age. I'm still trying to figure out how to let go, and I'm 61 (and they're gone)!

Thank you for opening people’s eyes to this… Your story really resonated with me; and I know that you’re making people feel less alone in their situations dealing with individuals like these.. ❤

BOOM!!! I kept telling myself i would do fix it this time. This was on a daily basis

You mean woke 😂😂😂😂

It can also get you knocked on your butt, which will remind you where your limits really are.

Fake it til you make it! Sounds crazy but I think it make sense. I like that you go more in-depth about this on that last podcast episode you posted here. Thanks for explaining 🩷💞♥️

Interesting.

I had many narcissistic traits growing up, lucky it was not NPD because I've unlearned it through thoughtful introspection after fallouts and relationships ending. It was enough to convince me to change but I can imagine it wouldn't be for many... Yeesh

Thank you.

Thank you for sharing your story 💜✨ it means a lot to so many 💜💜💜

Keep going 💜 ty for sharing

Thank you so much for sharing Jen 💜

I love these videos, thank you so much for sharing this info, I think this way we can recognize some narcissistic patterns in people surrounding us and in ourselves too.