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Turning 30 & getting myself together
Heyy guys, just a quick video to get myself back into posting on here 🫣
I recently turned 30 so I talk a bit about that, getting back into a good routine after a busy period, generally getting my life together and my plans for UA-cam.
Talk soon x
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Відео

29, single, broke & burnt out
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Hi you guys, thank you for spending your time with me for another life update 🤍 this one is mostly about how I have been navigating recent changes in my life as a single girl in her late 20's, and finally facing myself after years of constant numbing and distracting me from me! 🫣 x
Passing my driving test at 28!
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I was finally able to take a practical driving test earlier this year so I wanted to share my experience of the test & the lead up to it, eek! I started taking lessons in June 2019 and took my test in March 2023. It's basically a (slightly chaotic) story time! (Filmed at the end of September ☁️ ) Some details I missed out: I learned and passed in a manual car & I passed my theory test in March ...
Moving back home at 27
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I filmed this last month...it's been a struggle to upload this and open myself up to the scary www 😂😩 Although it is late, (I turn 28 this weekend, eek!) I hope you either enjoyed or took something from it. I've just realised that I spelt 'families' in the caption wrong, it should have been 'family's' but hopefully you're not the grammar police and don't care as much as me! 😆 Coaches/content th...
Being 26 years old and still living at home
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An update to my previous video where I spoke about being 25 and still not being where I wanted to be in life! I was sitting on this video for a while because I didn't know if I wanted to upload it haha. But feel free to leave a comment, let me know what you think.. and lets have a discussion about getting older! 🥴 Thank you so much for watching x
I have to find my 5th driving instructor!
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At this point I should call these videos learning to drive during a pandemic, because wow... it's really getting in the way! My driving instructor is no longer providing lessons so I have to find another driving instructor :( hopefully 5th time lucky! Thank you for watching x My previous learning to drive at 25 video: ua-cam.com/video/56_jdi5m1DE/v-deo.html
Learning how to drive at 25
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I wanted to start my ‘learning to drive at 25’ series off with a bit of background and to talk about the lessons I’ve had so far! *This is a re-upload, I realised I uploaded the wrong edit previously! So if you happen to see this again... my bad* If you’re seeing this, thank you for watching! 🤗 x
Being 25 years old and still living at home
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Thank you for watching, if you're seeing this! I have made an updated video, if you're interested you can find it here: ua-cam.com/video/tVCul5v_axU/v-deo.html 💕

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  • @trashtocrafts951
    @trashtocrafts951 2 дні тому

    i am in the same exact situation here a real man wouldnt care about all that in reality

  • @noyoquese..
    @noyoquese.. 21 день тому

  • @daustin8888
    @daustin8888 Місяць тому

    You really remind me of Sade

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats Місяць тому

      I've gotten this a few times, I think it's just a similar face shape and complexion!

  • @Thatbakingblondie
    @Thatbakingblondie Місяць тому

    Love your vids by the way! I'm excited for your UA-cam journey!

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats Місяць тому

      Aww yay thank you lovely!

  • @randomess01
    @randomess01 Місяць тому

    Loving the subtle flex of filming in your car 😂 Congrats again on passing your test and getting a car ❤

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats Місяць тому

      Hehe 😂🙊 thank you Ore! 💕

  • @Lihle_Ndita
    @Lihle_Ndita Місяць тому

    Happy belated birthday ❤ So glad to see you upload.

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats Місяць тому

      Aw thank you lovely 🥰

  • @rayhan15243
    @rayhan15243 2 місяці тому

    Thanks for this video, you’re an inspiration

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats 2 місяці тому

      @@rayhan15243 oh this was so lovely of you to say! 🥺 thank you ❤️

  • @marcosjoel374
    @marcosjoel374 3 місяці тому

    I really understand what you’re experiencing and thank you so much for sharing~

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats 3 місяці тому

      @@marcosjoel374 aw thank you for watching! 🤗

  • @helge7392
    @helge7392 4 місяці тому

    I just wanted to say that you do not need to "level up" or "glow up". Although life is not where you want it to be right now, appreciate who you are and where you are :)

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats 3 місяці тому

      Thank you for this reminder 💕

  • @ShannonAlexis96
    @ShannonAlexis96 5 місяців тому

    I went through almost the exact same identity crisis as you, it's crazy how many things you said resonated with me!

  • @alishafariyike3132
    @alishafariyike3132 5 місяців тому

    I love the realness ❤️🙏

  • @skullcrusher-gw5sx
    @skullcrusher-gw5sx 6 місяців тому

    I turned 25 today 😢

  • @agbaya1000
    @agbaya1000 6 місяців тому

    I discovered your channel on my UA-cam homepage and I am so happy I found this video. I am going through the exact same thing as well (31, out of full time unemployment since December 2023, struggling financially, struggling to find a job, lack of social life due to lack of money and slowly slipping in and out of situational depression). I have a side business that is keeping me busy and bringing in some money to keep me going and if I keep at it, it will keep growing. It really brings me joy and I wish I could do it full time. I was blown between 22:40 and 27:00 cause I am experiencing the same thing! Limerence is something we are prone to as an escape from our real lives btw. Today I had to force myself to get out of the bed and into the gym cause working out helps me feel better loads. Also my screen time on my phone some days is 14h!! Which is insane. I want to bring it down to 4h. Thanks a lot for sharing. I feel less alone ❤

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats 4 місяці тому

      Hey, thank you for your comment and I'm sorry it's taken me so long to reply! I hope things are going okay for you? I love that you have a side buisness that you love and I hope it's doing well 🤗 Ugh limerence, it has actually got me again since this video ahaha. I need to do some more work around it clearly 😂 Hope you're doing well xxx

  • @Lihle_Ndita
    @Lihle_Ndita 6 місяців тому

    I love your videos. I wish you uploaded more often.

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats 5 місяців тому

      @@Lihle_Ndita aw thank you lovely! I wish I did too 😫

  • @p1x3Lm4z3-i4u
    @p1x3Lm4z3-i4u 6 місяців тому

    i am the same. most of the situations you mention are direct parallels to things in my life. a lot of that same anxiety you described turned out to be OCD, for me. i'm interested in your update

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats 6 місяців тому

      Oh really 😩 I was actually talking to my mum recently about OCD. Did you go to the doctor about it? Thank you 🤗

  • @42rose
    @42rose 6 місяців тому

    Thanks so much for sharing. This so comforting as a fellow 29 year old woman (of color) in a very similar situation. Wish I had sister like you to go through this stuff together 😭❤ Would you ever consider doing a video on your uni/post-uni experience? Cheers x

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats 6 місяців тому

      Aww that's so sweet, it would be so nice to have a sister to go through life with!! 🥺 I'm so glad you found this comforting & I hope you're doing okayy! 🤗 oo that's not really something I've thought about doing honestly, but I potentially could if I think I have anything worth saying haha xx

  • @tima1443
    @tima1443 6 місяців тому

    I understand how hard it is too:( I have moderate adhd … and I had a hard time in my jobs . It lowered my self esteem & I’m not where I’d like to be sadly. I wished I had money so that I could feel free to travel , get a new phone, etc… but I don’t have a full time job just bc I get so burnt out & im scared that I won’t handle it…idk I’m tired

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats 6 місяців тому

      Aw it's so hard isn't when you feel stuck in a cycle like that! :/ I just hope that you find a job that suits you & doesn't burn you out. Hopefully that will give you the freedome to do what you want. Wish you all the best xx

  • @majidul-qq2mb
    @majidul-qq2mb 6 місяців тому

    Your videos are very good and your editing skills are excellent, but your videos are not reaching many people. The main reason for this is that your videos are not SEO optimized. I am a UA-cam video SEO expert and would like to optimize your videos. Are you interested in this?

  • @solomeayele
    @solomeayele 7 місяців тому

    I hope you do find God, maybe the curtains falling was a sign for you to really just think about that lol. Trust me you will never regret finding God, I never have. Just pray and ask him to show you who he is.

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats 6 місяців тому

      Haha eek maybe! Thank you for your advice xx

  • @blessedtobealive
    @blessedtobealive 7 місяців тому

    Beautiful people do great in life. If you want a relationship you can get it, if you want money you can get it. Attractive people have no problems.

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats 6 місяців тому

      I do understand what you're saying and thank you for grouping me in that haha. But I don't think it's as easy as that, and you have to know that you're beautiful and know how to use that to your advantage, or have the vim to do so!

  • @haileyywang
    @haileyywang 7 місяців тому

    So happy to find someone who can relate. I’m 29 & it’s like you are telling my life story with a few differences 🥹. I wish you all the best ❤️

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats 7 місяців тому

      Aw I think there’s a lot of people in the same sort of situations but it’s just not really talked about! Thank you lovely, wish you all the best too 🤗🤍

  • @k1ttymami
    @k1ttymami 7 місяців тому

    so glad you are back 🤍 you are not alone in feeling the ways that you do. please continue posting what is heavy on your heart!

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats 7 місяців тому

      Aw thank you 🥺🤍 I hope you have a good weekend x

  • @kubrahussain6458
    @kubrahussain6458 7 місяців тому

    I feel exactly what you’re describing and i agree that we are so much more privileged right now for what is happening in the world but also u feel so lost in life where as everyone you know have done so much more in their lives

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats 7 місяців тому

      Yes for sure! But knowing how blessed we are regardless is what we have to remember 🤗 hope you’re well ✨

  • @kubrahussain6458
    @kubrahussain6458 7 місяців тому

    Am turning 29 in 20 days and this feels like your talking about me

  • @2moreminutes
    @2moreminutes 7 місяців тому

    just in time for me to ruminate before my 28th

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats 7 місяців тому

      😂 happy birthday for then!

  • @servicesofmontgomery
    @servicesofmontgomery 8 місяців тому

    If you are typical of 20 year olds The world is in trouble. How about doing something to help the world? You come across as selfish in the extreme

  • @queenmakenziexoxo8556
    @queenmakenziexoxo8556 8 місяців тому

    What's your update at 29 ?

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats 8 місяців тому

      I'm still living at home but I am posting an update soon 😊

  • @Tyrell-Jemmott
    @Tyrell-Jemmott 9 місяців тому

    Congrats

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats 8 місяців тому

      Thank you! 🤗

  • @Twilight2704
    @Twilight2704 9 місяців тому

    I'm turning 25 in two weeks and this was the video I was looking for, because I've been feeling that things are changing and I want to change for the best. You were really brave and honest for speaking up about what you felt, what was happening in your life and most importantly speaking on self-validation, self-worth and self-confidence. I feel everything you said and right now I'm motivating myself to accomplish the things I want for myself. Although we are not alone on this journey, it's important to believe in ourselves. It's been three years since you posted this video and I hope you're doing well ♡. Thank you for posting this video, sending hugs from México

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats 9 місяців тому

      Aw happy birthday! 💕 thank you so for this lovely comment ☺️ wishing you all the best with your journey x

  • @patkelley8293
    @patkelley8293 10 місяців тому

    Find a way to provide service to others. Look at non profits that reflect your values. Personal fulfillment has nothing to do with financial success.

  • @manuelacastano-mejia1211
    @manuelacastano-mejia1211 10 місяців тому

    Hello! how are you? I liked your video. I understand you perfectly, At least you can work, or get a Job but I don't .I am also still living with my parents, I am 24 and the truth is I would like to be able to move but I'm afraid because I don't know anything about that, I don't have any experience. And the truth is that at this moment I can't move, I am studying in collage, I am an international student, I am legal in the USA but I can't work because my visa does not allow me to work, and I don't have my driver's license yet. The truth is that this situation worries me a lot, it is frustrating sometimes. I don't know when or how long I'll be able to make my life on my own.

  • @shakilaoliver2542
    @shakilaoliver2542 10 місяців тому

    Thank you!! This what i need❤❤❤

  • @AccomplishedChadLite
    @AccomplishedChadLite 11 місяців тому

    The wall is coming

  • @classicleslie6914
    @classicleslie6914 11 місяців тому

    I have never left my parents and its obviously eroded me and still. These parents are so controlling and I really don't want to be around them at all. I am male version of repunzel.

    • @clairetemple1149
      @clairetemple1149 8 місяців тому

      Eroded me is such an amazing description. Feel you. Hope your situation improves and you are able to have your boundaries respected.

  • @WanderWisdomHive121
    @WanderWisdomHive121 Рік тому

    I’m glad I’m not the only person in this boat, I feel better for not being alone. We got this 💪

  • @Music4EverKanekavi
    @Music4EverKanekavi Рік тому

    “26 and paYiNg RenT”

  • @Music4EverKanekavi
    @Music4EverKanekavi Рік тому

    We can’t feel sorry for ourselves yo, you’re ducking alive damnit, go for it

  • @jaynevamills4338
    @jaynevamills4338 Рік тому

    Congratulations ❤🎉

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats 9 місяців тому

      Thank you lovely! ☺️

    • @jaynevamills4338
      @jaynevamills4338 8 місяців тому

      @@haddyjatsI just received my license at the end of April!!!! ❤

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats 8 місяців тому

      @@jaynevamills4338 aw yay, congratulations!! 🚙🥳

  • @Danielle-yi6ld
    @Danielle-yi6ld Рік тому

    I got my driver's license last month! I am 25 years old and I felt like I was the only one. Watching your videos was so comforting!

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats Рік тому

      Aw yay congratulations! I’m so glad they were comforting for you ☺️ thank you for letting me know that x

  • @YamielQuinn
    @YamielQuinn Рік тому

    Shldnt be embarrassed swty ❤

  • @JourneyofLele
    @JourneyofLele Рік тому

    Congrats🎉 wow. Happy for you. Thank you for sharing your journey

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats Рік тому

      Aww thank you! 🥰 thanks for watching x

  • @kayladunlap928
    @kayladunlap928 Рік тому

    the struggle is real is bugs me being almost 25 and living at home all my siblings are married or have families.....

  • @marvinmahehu1848
    @marvinmahehu1848 Рік тому

    From a stranger congratulations🎉🎉

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats Рік тому

      Thank you Marvin 🤗🤩

  • @Councilrequesttozhuzhtown

    Congrats!!

  • @daustin8888
    @daustin8888 Рік тому

    Im trying to get my CDL license

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats Рік тому

      What is a CDL license? :)

    • @thecoyote9866
      @thecoyote9866 Рік тому

      @@haddyjatsCommercial Drivers License

    • @daustin8888
      @daustin8888 4 місяці тому

      ​@@haddyjats Commercial Driver's License. It allows you to drive larger and more complex vehicles

  • @randomess01
    @randomess01 Рік тому

    Well done! That’s amazing 🎉

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats Рік тому

      Aw Ore thank you girl! 💕

  • @18brinicole
    @18brinicole Рік тому

    That’s so crazy was in a relationship same time and had to move back home. I’m learning how to drive and learning to gain my independence. Please make more videos I really do appreciate your realness❤️

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats Рік тому

      Aww I hope everything is going well! And thank you so much ☺ I am planning to upload more soon x

  • @daustin8888
    @daustin8888 Рік тому

    You're a shallow and mean spirited woman.

  • @Djrob515
    @Djrob515 Рік тому

    Keep doing videos! I need them! It’s so nice to have someone to relate to. Wish you the best ❤

    • @haddyjats
      @haddyjats Рік тому

      Thank you so much, I wish you all the best too 💕 I am uploading again soon haha 🙈

  • @prestonphelps1649
    @prestonphelps1649 Рік тому

    So many adults living with parents well into 30s. Says more about the parents 😮